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Clockworkz

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She's on my bus and I talk to her every now and again. I swear to God, she is the most beautiful girl I ever saw before in my life. And, she is nice, kind, and funny. All I wanna know is how to find out if she has a boyfriend and how I can get her to go out with me.


(edited by drjayphd on 05-11-04 03:19 AM)
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Posted on 04-23-04 12:45 AM Link
This thread is spam, someone close it please.
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Posted on 04-23-04 02:32 AM Link
Oh c'mon man, the guy wants advice.

Dude, just be straight up. Ask her of she has a boyfriend, if she says no, ask her out. It's that simple and a whole lot easier that just dodging the subject and asking others.
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hmm...a very personal subject...a subject that I believe will come out the wrong way for this situation i believe. I think you are better of getting to become good friends with her and then at that point, asking her if she does than doing it now. I think a girl hearing that kind of question from someone who is an acquaintence gives away the fact that the person asking it as ulterior motives for talking to her, etc.

in short, don't ask and get to know her more...
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Posted on 04-23-04 03:23 AM Link
I knew I forgot something. Time. Time is key. This could take years if you want it to work right, so wait to ask her. Wait a loooong time.
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Posted on 04-23-04 04:50 AM Link
You could always ask one of her friends if she does. In the meantime, try just talking to her casually to establish some foundation, just so she doesn't think you're some random freak.
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Posted on 04-23-04 04:58 AM Link
Thanks for the advice. I'm gonna begin "phase 1" (becoming friendly) tomorrow.


(edited by drjayphd on 05-11-04 03:23 AM)
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Posted on 04-23-04 05:55 AM Link
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

Do NOT become "friends"! God almighty... you're setting yourself up for a fall. Becoming "friends" is easy as you don't have to declare your feelings, but you're shooting yourself in the foot in the long-term.

Just be straight-up. Wedge your foot in the door by chatting with her about a few school subjects, homework, events, common friends, etc. and then ask if she has a boyfriend. That'll pique her interest.

But God almighty... at the end of the day, don't keep your "feelings" to yourself. Otherwise she'll just dump you in the "friends" category, and when you ask her out, her reaction would be "Lets Be Friends." Urgh... trust me on this, men and women view relationships VERY differently. I am not kidding. Women do not date best friends and absolute strangers. Keep yourself in the middle grey area if you're striving for optimum success.

Oh yeah... pushing her emotional buttons is a sure-winner in winning a lady. If you're good in provoking emotions from people (perhaps by asking mind-blowing questions, or speaking intelligently, or you're just plain funny), chances are better.

Ah, you know what to do. But just go easy... and I REPEAT, do NOT become mere "friends". You'll confuse "success" with friendliness, and that'll fuck up whatever chance you have left.
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Posted on 04-23-04 06:26 AM Link
Yet another girl issue... Well try asking around and seeing if she has a boyfriend. And if she does then your out of luck if she doesn't good luck

And yes this can be spamming but it is someone asking for some help/advise


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Hmm. I would think that becoming friends first would help and strengthen the relationship, wouldn't it? I mean, then you have a soild foundation to be on before you make any romantic moves. That would seem to help.
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Posted on 04-23-04 07:17 AM Link
Ambigore, I'm not saying try to be her best friend, because heaven knows that wouldnt work. I'm just saying to get yourself known in a positive way. "Market the Merchendise", if you will.
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Jarukoth has got a major point. You get to be too close, and she'll reject you every time. Just get on her good side, that's all.
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Posted on 04-23-04 12:03 PM Link
Yeah, you're right Jarukoth.
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Posted on 04-24-04 12:26 PM Link
OK, I asked around... and... *drum roll*... No one knows. Guess I'll have to find out the long way.


(edited by drjayphd on 05-14-04 04:56 PM)
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Posted on 04-24-04 02:20 PM Link
Seriously walk up to her and ask her plan out, she would have to answer then and if she says no then ask her to the movies or something
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Posted on 04-24-04 10:52 PM Link
That would be the route to go. Being straight up after you've gotten to know her would most definetly be easier, and will save you from slowly going insane, unlike me.
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Posted on 06-07-04 08:35 AM Link
*drum roll*
If nobody knows...
then she probably doesn't have one, because lord knows that girl will tell everyone they possibly can if they have a boyfried. As said above, don't become mere "friends", it IS shooting yourself in the foot in the long run (also said above). If you are that nervous about asking her out, find out who here best friend is, hunt down her best friend. Then ask her best friend if this girl you like so much has a boyfriend or not, and if the best friend asks you if you like her, tell her your feelings. That way, there is a nice wedge in the door curtisy to her best friend. Trust me if her best friend knows, word will get around you like her.
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Posted on 06-07-04 09:58 AM Link
BUMP!

Please look at the last post date before replying... I'm sure this has been solved LONG ago.
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