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Posted on 05-09-06 09:37 PM Link | Quote
Has anyone here ever been in actual love?

If so... what made it so special?

Are you together or now seperate?

My girlfriend just told me that she loved me for the first time last night... and as much as I thought I was ready..... I was like "awww... thank you..." I felt bad for not saying it back, but she seems to not be worried about the fact that I didn't say it back... she asked me: "Did it freak you out"? I said: "No"

...and I wasn't freaked out, but I was flattered, and I really like her a lot, but I don't know if I could say I love her yet... I was in love with my past girlfriend... and it took me a whole 6 months to recover after our breakup... so your thoughts on it guys???
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I was kind of hoping that the "L" Word was lesbian...
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Posted on 05-09-06 09:41 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Wurl
I was kind of hoping that the "L" Word was lesbian...

Me too.

...As for love.

All you need is love.
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Posted on 05-09-06 09:49 PM Link | Quote
Nope ... just talking about the beauty of love is all....

after what happened I just reflected a little on it...
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Posted on 05-09-06 09:54 PM Link | Quote
I was in love once. Completely and utterly destroyed my life. I dont think i'll do that again
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Posted on 05-09-06 10:06 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Jomb
I was in love once. Completely and utterly destroyed my life. I dont think i'll do that again


aww... you poor guy....

believe me! I can understand the torture!!!
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Posted on 05-09-06 10:31 PM Link | Quote
Its not for me. I know that it exists, and that it makes some people very happy, but I'm just not cut out for all the drama that leads up to it. If it happens it happens but you won't see me persuing it =|
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Posted on 05-09-06 10:36 PM Link | Quote
The only love I've gotten is from family and friends. I still have yet to experience love from another person as to spend the rest of my life with.
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Posted on 05-09-06 10:41 PM Link | Quote
I'm in love right now, and I know its going to destroy me later on, but.. its worth it right now.
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Posted on 05-09-06 10:53 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by acillatem98
The only love I've gotten is from family and friends.

Must be nice.

Love is over-rated, theres too much...fakeness and drama in the world for true love to be worth it. Like I said, if it happens, then I won't fight it, but I'm indifferent to cupid and his insignificant arrows.
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Posted on 05-09-06 10:55 PM Link | Quote
There may be fakeness and drama in the world, but it's not always like that with love. You just have to look around a bit. That, or be really really really lucky.
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Posted on 05-09-06 10:55 PM Link | Quote
Not yet... I don't think...


I mean...
there is this girl I, uh... like.
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Posted on 05-09-06 11:02 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Danielle
There may be fakeness and drama in the world, but it's not always like that with love. You just have to look around a bit. That, or be really really really lucky.

Well yes. I know that love can make some people very happy, but in my life I've only experienced the pain and the stress it causes people. It just dosn't seem worth it, a lot of pain for a little happiness. I guess I'd rather be alone if it means I can be happy without all the conflicts. But my mind works funny, I guess xO


(edited by Yoronosuku on 05-09-06 10:03 PM)
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Love made me happier than i had ever been for about 1.5 years. But damn, the comedown was not worth it, 5+ years later i still feel pain over it sometimes and generally feel disinterested in going through that again. But at the time it sure was alot of fun
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Posted on 05-09-06 11:14 PM Link | Quote
The issue isn't what it is, it's how easy it is for other things to be considered as such. It's hard to tell the difference between that and infatuation, for instance.

So... It gets a hearty "I don't know" out of me.
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Posted on 05-09-06 11:37 PM Link | Quote
Yes, twice; both ended horribly. The second way worse than the first. The first time I said it was I was scared despite he did say it to me first. All I can just say is wait a little longer till you feel ready to say it. She should understand why you would wait to say it back.
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Posted on 05-10-06 12:31 AM Link | Quote
Not that I don't like my current relationship but I'm kinda committed; I have a 2-year old daughter!!! If things get screwed up, no amount of drinking or smoking would console my mistakes. She calls me "jajad" or "shigadz".

Of course I love my fiance. She was one of my best friends in grade school and somehow became my equal.
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Posted on 05-10-06 02:52 AM Link | Quote
I think Lesbian's would of made for a better topic...

but anyways... love

well, I really don't know if love is something that can be for certain ever, I think that after a while you just get to know someone so well and then you "love" them because of that fact.... I mean granted "love" is a good thing, but I don't think love is something that happens within the course of a couple weeks, I may have blurted the "L" word (not lesbian) out a couple time within a couple of weeks of starting a relationship, but was I in love, more then likely not, and Thursday, I'll have been with this one girl for a year, and well... and I'm fairly sure it's safe to say I love her (granted, without her my life would be even more boring then it is already).
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Posted on 05-10-06 03:09 AM Link | Quote
Love is not a positive emotion.
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Posted on 05-10-06 04:14 AM Link | Quote
Hm, to be honest, I'm not entirely sure if I've ever been in love. My mind is not one to be trusted when it comes to emotional matters. =/ It doesn't help that I get extremely attached to certain people a little too fast for my own good. Seems unlikely that I have, but...

The way I see it, the happiness, no matter how short-lived, would be worth it. Then again, I'm almost always depressed, angry, or both, so any amount of happiness - real, lasting happiness (even if only a few weeks worth) - would be a welcome change. Whatever comes afterward can't be too much worse than what I'm going through now anyway. =/
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