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Knives Koopa Level: 18  Posts: 8/106 EXP: 26532 For next: 3365 Since: 03-21-04 From: Atlanta Since last post: 176 days Last activity: 83 days |
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| Ok well I just caught my girlfriend cheating on me, I really like her, more than any other girlfriend I've ever had. So anyway me and a group of my friends are at a club with our girlfriends, but I was thinking "Why the hell isn't she here yet?" so I'm just sitting there waiting for her. Just watching everyone in the crowd dancing and all that, so anyway about an hour later I'm still sitting there waiting, by this time I'm getting pissed, she promised she would be there by 8:00 but now it's 9:00 and still she isn't there. So I just get up and start walking around when all of a sudden my friend comes up to me and he looks all scared, his face was like pure white, he was trying to tell me something, I knew it had to be something personal otherwise he'd just be blurting it out right there, so I grab him and pull him into a corner and say 'Dude, what the hell's going on?" He just stares at me and all of a sudden he starts blurting stuff out, he made the whole sentance seem like one word "Dude your girls here she's in the *battle room, dude she's here with someone else...dude, she's...your gunna....fuck...." I stare at him and I'm thinking "Holy shit dude..." So me and him go up to the battle room, I slowly open the door, and sure enough there she was, making out with some other dude... I'm like "What the hell? Why the fucking hell?" We had this huge argument, and we broke up, I'm still fucking pissed, anyway now she keeps calling me, crying to me telling me she wants me back, but what should I do? Help...I need some help, I really like her more than any other girl... |
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Steak Zora Level: 35  Posts: 117/507 EXP: 278751 For next: 1185 Since: 03-16-04 From: Ohio University Since last post: 195 days Last activity: 195 days |
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| Ouch...I remember this pain...been here before. The best thing for you to do is to leave her behind you. It's gonna suck ass hard for awhile...you'll hurt yourself worse in the end if you don't. Here's the thing: if she does it once...she's liable to do it again. Next time she calls, point this out to her. Also point out that if she really did love you, she wouldn't have done that in the first place, and that she would give you the time and space you need to heal. That's the best I can give right now, given the info you've provided. |
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Kario In Possession of a Stolen Shovel Level: 65 Posts: 120/2082 EXP: 2321379 For next: 14249 Since: 03-15-04 From: Texas... Yeehaw! Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 17 hours |
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| Well, here is my opinion, for what it's worth. Don't just dump her because she was making out. That is defintely arguing grounds, but not breaking up. Doing some other guy is grounds for breaking up. You really have to look at how you feel. It depends on whether your feelings are real or not. If you do go back out with her, talk with her about it. Don't just try to forget that it happened. Because it did. |
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Knives Koopa Level: 18 Posts: 10/106 EXP: 26532 For next: 3365 Since: 03-21-04 From: Atlanta Since last post: 176 days Last activity: 83 days |
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| There is no fucking way I'm going back...I've taken the time to read both of your answers and thought about it, Dark lord Steak is right, why just go back and wind up hurt again? It doesn't make sense to do that! I still have to think some of this over, btu as far as I'm concerned, screw her, I can do better anyway. | |||
merc Paragoomba Level: 15 Posts: 46/75 EXP: 15873 For next: 511 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 504 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Dark Lord Steak is right. She's out as far as relationships go. And if she's willing to hurt you, you have to ask yourself: is she even worth being friends with? (No.) |
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Legion banning people for no reason sure is fun Level: 101  Posts: 288/5657 EXP: 10399737 For next: 317938 Since: 03-15-04 From: The Crossroads is under attack! Since last post: 5 days Last activity: 5 days |
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| Yikes, the ol' cheating thing. Don't worry, it happens to us all. (Well, most of us.) Every one of my girlfriends have cheated on me. And everytime we got back together, they did it again. Well, you should forgive her but as for going out with her again, it probably is a bad idea. Oh, and it doesn't mean you can't be friends again either now or eventually. I don't think she purposely set out to hurt you. She's young and it happens all the time. I'm sorry you had to actually witness the event. That must have been hard. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings in the world. And the more you like and care for the person, the more it hurts. I'll never understand why people just wont break up with the person first. It could save people a lot of pain. |
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Super Sion You BlockHead! Level: 70 Posts: 145/2472 EXP: 3002513 For next: 13298 Since: 03-15-04 From: Yo Mommas House Since last post: 29 min. Last activity: 5 min. |
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| Ive gon ethrough something like this once...my girlfriend cheated on me with some other guy and the other guy knew I was already going out with her, she she was seeing this guy for about a week behind my back before I found out. Once I found out I knew exactly what I had to do...I called her up...dumped her! then the next day i kicked the crap out of the other guy! I dont regret it for a moment. So my advise to you is...be like me! |
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Kefka Indefinitely Unbanned Level: 81 Posts: 308/3392 EXP: 4826208 For next: 166641 Since: 03-15-04 From: Pomona, CALIFORNIA BABY! Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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Sounds to me like she's the kind that, if she got away with it once before, she'll think she can do it again and not get caught. Perhaps that wasn't the first time she cheated on you...  I dunno, your call, but I wouldn't be getting back with her |
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Crystal Shards Keese Level: 19  Posts: 6/126 EXP: 34318 For next: 1459 Since: 03-23-04 From: Ontario, Canada Since last post: 95 days Last activity: 130 days |
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| Jeebus, she was only making out with the guy. Not like she fucked him. Then again, looking at the situation, one must ponder; do you think she would have, had you not caught her? If you're certain she would've, then yeah, she's probably not the best mate to play with. But if that's all she was doing was kissing, at least be friends with her. |
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Super Sion You BlockHead! Level: 70 Posts: 151/2472 EXP: 3002513 For next: 13298 Since: 03-15-04 From: Yo Mommas House Since last post: 29 min. Last activity: 5 min. |
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| Just kissing?! Thats more than enough to get dumped! | |||
woplock Red Paragoomba Level: 14  Posts: 5/61 EXP: 11597 For next: 1474 Since: 03-20-04 From: Brazil, West Dakota, USA Since last post: 571 days Last activity: 339 days |
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I say kill her. |
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paradox Spike Level: 41  Posts: 73/703 EXP: 455239 For next: 24906 Since: 03-16-04 From: usa Since last post: 40 days Last activity: 25 days |
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| i would give her one more chance, people mess up ...alot...maybe she was upset about somthing and she was in the mood, but give her one more chance later on and if she does it again, dont ever take her back | |||
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merc Paragoomba Level: 15 Posts: 47/75 EXP: 15873 For next: 511 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 504 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Taking her back is like forgiving a liar. | |||
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Legion banning people for no reason sure is fun Level: 101 Posts: 291/5657 EXP: 10399737 For next: 317938 Since: 03-15-04 From: The Crossroads is under attack! Since last post: 5 days Last activity: 5 days |
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| Man, you guys act and sound like you're all perfect angels when it comes to relationships. I bet anyone of you who's had a relationship has had temptations at LEAST once. Just because you didn't follow through with it doesn't mean you can be all judgemental about people who do. That, and you're too hateful. People make mistakes. Some big, some small, but mistakes nonetheless. The least you could do is forgive her. You don't have to give her another chance if you don't want to but I'm going to go ahead and say you should. Everyone says "once a cheater, always a cheater" but that's simply not true. Some people actually do feel deep regret and WILL never do it again. You can't base every single woman in the world on one statement. Many a relationships have this happen to them yet continue on with trust and faith after it's put behind them. Bottom line, do what's best for you. If you really care about her, and you believe she's sorry, give her another chance. I mean, wouldn't you want the same? She probably feels sick to her stomache that it happened. People get confused. Very confused. Especially at a young age. She probably feels very horrible about it. |
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gnkkwinrrul Dry Bones Level: 39  Posts: 179/647 EXP: 402054 For next: 2717 Since: 03-15-04 From: LYKEOMGIMFROMSOMEPLACE???? Since last post: 81 days Last activity: 40 days |
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| My advice - Forgive her once, and if it continues, then leave her. | |||
alte Hexe Star Mario I dreamed I saw Joe Hill last night Alive as you and me "But Joe you're ten years dead!" "I never died" said he "I never died!" said he Level: 99  Posts: 378/5458 EXP: 9854489 For next: 145511 Since: 03-15-04 From: ... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| Don't give her a second chance. That just means screw ups. Dump her now. |
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Anya The Exile Ultima Mezcla de Yin Yan Level: 98  Posts: 506/5337 EXP: 9530313 For next: 124040 Since: 03-15-04 From: South Florida Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| Take a few days for yourself to think about what happened and reasons that could have led up to this whole mess. How were things between the two of you before you saw her kissing someone else? Any signs at all hinting that that realtionship might be on the rocks? Just don't let your emotions and the rage inside get to you. Happened to me...six times...same guy, but you learn from shit like that. Course, it fucks you up, but you have to take the good with the bad. It can't be good all the time. If anything, perhaps, down the road, take Legion's advice. You could once again be friends if you don't want to try it again. Friend of mine, her boyfriend (now of about five years) slept with another lady that they both know. Heck, I even know her. We all used to work together. So my friend moved out and went back to live with her mother. Few months went by and the two started to talk again. She living with him once again, and they're relationship is stronger than before. Of course, it doesn't always work that way. You're still young. Take a breather and try to get some ground on all that has happened. Don't rush. If she wants you back (and truthfully says that the cheating won't happen ever again) then she can wait as well. Hopefully, she really thinking about all the shit that she's putting you through. |
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Dark Sorceress Rope Level: 18  Posts: 20/107 EXP: 27052 For next: 2845 Since: 03-15-04 From: California, USA Since last post: 134 days Last activity: 127 days |
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| Relationships are odd, and they differ from person to person. Give her another chance. But make it clear that if she cheats on you again, it's over. If you don't want to do that, then at least be friends. I lost my girlfriend (back when I was a guy) to a good friend of mine, but now we are best friends. Some people can change, you need to give ONE more chance. |
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