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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43  Posts: 617/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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| Forgive my spelling before you begin to read this. I have a close lady friend whom I've known for just over three years. I'm not going to say her name for reasons that will be given below. We happily talk on a daily basis, and I hold her at the same level as my father as for what I would do if anything bad happened to her. Anything. Well, anyway, I just found out that she has a large sex drive, and in particular likes the act of felattio. She hasn't come on to me yet, but she does have four other guy friends who she does this with, around a total of six times a week. When I first hear this, I felt a little tinge of jelousy, which I quickly squashed. Other than that, I feel normal, and this confuses me a bit. Any help anyone can offer? |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57  Posts: 501/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| She's nothing but a FLOOZY. I'm sorry to say but that it sounds true to me. So, just stay friends and DON'T sleep with her. It will just cause you more trouble than good. | |||
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Legion banning people for no reason sure is fun Level: 101  Posts: 2835/5657 EXP: 10399737 For next: 317938 Since: 03-15-04 From: The Crossroads is under attack! Since last post: 5 days Last activity: 5 days |
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| Why is it that when a guy gets a lot of action he's praised for it, but when a girl does she gets ridiculed? Where's the logic in that? | |||
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 503/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Because when guys get praised it's basically for fun. When girls do it they're just putting out to anyone. What ever happened to the old ways of just having sex with only one person that you love? | |||
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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43 Posts: 619/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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Vampriel, if you happened to be one of my friends, like Ultimanium, Richter B, Fighter, or Neomagnus, a comment like that would get you a basebat across the face.  Be happy I can't reach you right now.She fills my thoughts day and night, and has done so for the past three years. I have no clue how far I would go for her happiness. I can't think of much else to say right now. *heads outside to do a sword kata* |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 504/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| I don't really care what that would get me for saying that. I'm speaking my mind and this what happens to most people, who do, are threats it's like. If you ever sleep with her and it ends up being trouble like she hurts you. Either emotionally or mentally or even both. I'm going to end up being right and say I told you so. Also, if anyone would ever harm me. I have a bunch of friends who would take care of that person. Two of them, one getting done with boot camp for the Marines and another going to head in the Marines soon. Also, I could sue for assult and battery if something like that ever happens. |
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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43 Posts: 620/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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I am SO happy one of my friends isn't reading this. He would have a field day tearing apart every little thing you say.  I could detail my group of friends, too, but I can find no good reason to. If you wish, however, I will explain the group I'm a member of and all our 'quirks'. And seeing as this is going off topic, I'll shut up now.  |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 506/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| So, like I would really care. Besides I can't stop you from doing what ever you want to do. Just give out my advice to you. Which I have rightfully done so. | |||
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Legion banning people for no reason sure is fun Level: 101 Posts: 2836/5657 EXP: 10399737 For next: 317938 Since: 03-15-04 From: The Crossroads is under attack! Since last post: 5 days Last activity: 5 days |
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Originally posted by Dark Vampriel Bullshit. |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 507/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| You got a better reason, Legion? | |||
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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43 Posts: 622/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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Originally posted by Dark Vampriel I take offence at this remark. I know of a rape victim who is sleeping with anyone within arms reach to find the purity they lost, thinking "Hopefully this one will be the one that saves me." Yes, I know the mindset is fucked up, which is why I'm doing what I can to help my sister. |
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Tarale I'm not under the alfluence of incohol like some thinkle peop I am. It's just the drunker I sit here the longer I get.  Level: 73  Posts: 720/2720 EXP: 3458036 For next: 27832 Since: 03-18-04 From: Adelaide, Australia Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| You are a sexist bastard, Vampirel. That's MY opinion. You've insulted me and cast a slur on all female kind by inferring that we're all a bunch of whores with your statement. There is NO difference between a man sleeping around and a woman sleeping around. NONE WHATSOEVER. The belief that a woman that does it is a slut (wheras a man is a hero) is just an outdated, sexist opinion. Let me guess, so the fact that I've been raped, and had sex with three other men (two long term relationships, one one-night-stand) puts me in the category of WHORE, doesn't it, Vampirel? A man in the same situation is just a victim of bad luck, failed relationships, and for the one night stand: a fucking hero. Right? (edited by Tarale on 11-07-04 02:23 AM) (edited by Tarale on 11-07-04 02:25 AM) |
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Legion banning people for no reason sure is fun Level: 101 Posts: 2837/5657 EXP: 10399737 For next: 317938 Since: 03-15-04 From: The Crossroads is under attack! Since last post: 5 days Last activity: 5 days |
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Originally posted by Tarale Couldn't have said it better myself. |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 508/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Ok, first off I'm the old fashion person who believes in saving sex for marriage to the one you love. Second, I'm sorry that I made you all feel that way towards me. Thrid, I'm not a sexist person even though it may seem like to you guys through all that I said just now. | |||
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Tarale I'm not under the alfluence of incohol like some thinkle peop I am. It's just the drunker I sit here the longer I get. Level: 73 Posts: 721/2720 EXP: 3458036 For next: 27832 Since: 03-18-04 From: Adelaide, Australia Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| That's fine if you believe that sex is something that should be saved for marriage. But don't put it across in a way that makes it sound like the females that have sex are more evil than the males that do. I believe that sex is... what you want sex to be. I'd like to think that it's best in a relationship with somebody you love, and that is what I want out of sex, but I also understand that sex means different things to different people, and I don't think it's my right to judge anybody based on their sexual habits. It's not my place to judge somebody because they sleep with lots of people, or don't sleep with anybody, are a virgin, have sex with people for money, or gay, or bi, or into catgirls, S&M, dressing up in tight leather, or fantasizing over imaginary characters from videogames. That's their decision, it doesn't hurt me, so it's not my place to condemn them. I do like to think though that people are making these decisions for the right reasons (ie, that's what they REALLY want to do). If they are doing something for the wrong reasons (ie, revenge, to be cool (sadly common at high school age), to forget something else), it's not going to be very good for them, in fact it will be downright destructive. I hope that Lord Rahl's friend is doing this for the right reasons, and not for the wrong ones. And I hope if it is for the wrong reasons, that Lord Rahl is able to help her out with this. (edited by Tarale on 11-07-04 02:41 AM) (edited by Tarale on 11-07-04 02:42 AM) |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 509/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Some people can be helped out of this kind of situation if it's for the bad reasons. Some people can't be helped out for very long before they go back and do it again. | |||
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Tarale I'm not under the alfluence of incohol like some thinkle peop I am. It's just the drunker I sit here the longer I get. Level: 73 Posts: 722/2720 EXP: 3458036 For next: 27832 Since: 03-18-04 From: Adelaide, Australia Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| The thing with reasons is that it's often hard to work out if they are the right ones or the wrong ones. You need to work out your friend's motivation on this. Is she actually doing this cause she has a big sex drive and is merely horny? Or is all this sex just filling in for something else, ie, geniune affection? |
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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43 Posts: 623/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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Originally posted by Tarale Thank you for the smartest words that I have heard in years. XD |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 510/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Good points there, Tarale. That it could be a cry for attention that's been missing in her life. As Tarale perfectly pointed out as genuine affection. This might be a little off topic but I've been wondering this for awhile now. And maybe a stupid question to ask that I might know the answer to anyways but... Are you still a virgin even if you masterbate?  |
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Tarale I'm not under the alfluence of incohol like some thinkle peop I am. It's just the drunker I sit here the longer I get. Level: 73 Posts: 723/2720 EXP: 3458036 For next: 27832 Since: 03-18-04 From: Adelaide, Australia Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| Short answer to off topic question: Yes. You are still a virgin. Mrs Palmer and her 5 slender daughters do not count. But yeah, some people do sleep around in an attempt to fill a kinda hole in their lives. I had a one night stand a long, long time ago. At the time, I was lonely and felt like no man would be attracted to me. I used another human being in order to try to squash those feelings, and I put a face on it that I was having "fun". It wasn't, and I regret it to this day. Of course, the alcohol I had consumed at the time didn't help matters when it came to this "brilliant" idea.  It was a stupid idea, but there you have it. Everybody has these moments of "brilliance" and I learned from mine. I'm glad I learned from it, and didn't repeat it, cause I'm sure that if I had, I'd feel a lot worse than just the occasional mild pang of regret and shame. I hope your friend is not making a mistake, and I hope that if she is, she learns from it before it gets bad  (edited by Tarale on 11-07-04 03:04 AM) (edited by Tarale on 11-07-04 03:09 AM) |
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