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The Kins Kodondo Level: 38  Posts: 40/595 EXP: 354733 For next: 15714 Since: 03-15-04 From: Melbourne, VIC, Australia Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 9 hours |
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| Yeah, he had pneumonia, and cancer. In the end, the pneumonia got him. Mind you, he was a strong guy (although I think we used the term "stubbon old bugger" at one point.) See, when we got into the hospital at, what, 9AM, he was focusing all his energy on breathing, and not, say, anything else. After coaching him on for a bit, we said our goodbyes etc and waited. Twelve hours later, he was still fighting! So, yeah. He finally finished at about 11PM. It wasn't very fun, but we decided to look on the bright side (No more pain, suffering, hospital visits...) and move on. From the looks of things, we're going to be allright. Dad seems to have planned ahead to keep us financially stable, and he had a list in his stuff of things we were to do etc. etc. So, yeah. This sucks. (edited by Trashykins on 03-20-04 06:49 PM) |
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Apophis Red Super Koopa Level: 45 Posts: 120/882 EXP: 640255 For next: 19909 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 15 hours Last activity: 15 hours |
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| OMG! I don't know what to say. This is one of the worst things I can imagine having happen. How old are you, btw? | |||
witeasprinwow Lakitu Level: 37 Posts: 125/555 EXP: 319587 For next: 18666 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 55 days Last activity: 55 days |
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| Christ, man. I wish there was something I could say that would mean anything. Good luck, take care. Don't ever forget how much you rock. |
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Toxic in a sublime state of mind Level: 75  Posts: 375/2857 EXP: 3732709 For next: 94195 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 3 days Last activity: 8 hours |
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| Nothing anybody can say, stay strong man. Things will work out for you in the end. |
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merc Paragoomba Level: 15 Posts: 41/75 EXP: 15873 For next: 511 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 504 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| my old man 16 years old during the depression I'd come home drunk and all my clothing- shorts, shirts, stockings- suitcase, and pages of short stories would be thrown out on the front lawn and about the street. my mother would be waiting behind a tree: "Henry, Henry, don't go in. . .he'll kill you, he's read your stories. . ." "I can whip his ass. . ." "Henry, please take this. . .and find yourself a room." but it worried him that I might not finish high school so I'd be back again. one evening he walked in with pages of one of my short stories (which I had never submitted to him) and he said, "this is a great short story." I said, "o.k.," and he handed it to me and I read it. it was a story about a rich man who had a fight with his wife and had gone out into the night for a cup of coffee and had observed the waitress and the spoons and forks and the salt and pepper shakers and the neon sign in the window and then had gone back to his stable to see and touch his favorite horse who then kicked him in the head and killed him. somehow the story held meaning for him though when I had written it I had no idea of what I was writing about. so I told him, "o.k., old man, you can have it." and he took it and walked out and closed the door. I guess that's as close as we ever got. -Bukowski |
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Anya The Exile Ultima Mezcla de Yin Yan Level: 98  Posts: 439/5337 EXP: 9530313 For next: 124040 Since: 03-15-04 From: South Florida Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| Wow...*hugs* I'm glad that you are taling this so well. Remember, celebrate life, that's what he would have wanted anyway. He was strong, and that shows within you and the rest of your family. | |||
Kitten Yiffer Purple wand Furry moderator Vivent l'exp����¯�¿�½������©rience de signalisation d'amusement, ou bien ! Level: 135 Posts: 524/11162 EXP: 28824106 For next: 510899 Since: 03-15-04 From: Sweden Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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One of my relatives died for some months ago... most horrible moment in my life.  I can feel your pain Trasher... |
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Anya The Exile Ultima Mezcla de Yin Yan Level: 98 Posts: 453/5337 EXP: 9530313 For next: 124040 Since: 03-15-04 From: South Florida Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| When my grandmother died when I was about 10 or so, I didn't cry. I stood in the back. About 8 or so years later, I finally cried for her....to each is own. | |||
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Toxic in a sublime state of mind Level: 75 Posts: 392/2857 EXP: 3732709 For next: 94195 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 3 days Last activity: 8 hours |
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| My best friend died a year ago. I don't think it's set in yet, but God knows I cried... |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143  Posts: 139/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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paradox Spike Level: 41  Posts: 56/703 EXP: 455239 For next: 24906 Since: 03-16-04 From: usa Since last post: 40 days Last activity: 25 days |
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| i seriously know how you feel, my dad died when i was 7, he had trouble breathing, but im doing fine now, my mom met someone new and he really cares about us, but i dont think anyone can ever replace him, good luck, stay strong and you will be fine, if i could do it when i was 7 you ca do it now | |||
Mr. Communist Red Goomba Level: 11  Posts: 10/38 EXP: 5720 For next: 265 Since: 03-16-04 Since last post: 583 days Last activity: 274 days |
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| Sorry to hear that... I couldn't imagine how it would feel as I've never had a person close to me die before... well, not that I remember... | |||
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Valcion YOU WA SHOCK Level: 50  Posts: 54/1139 EXP: 939607 For next: 7710 Since: 03-15-04 From: internets. Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| Sorry to hear that, really. Glad t o hear he planned ahead for you guys and everything should turn out alright and that you're moving on. |
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Xeolord - B l u e s - Power Metal > All Level: 81  Posts: 371/3418 EXP: 4884196 For next: 108653 Since: 03-15-04 From: Yeah Since last post: 15 hours Last activity: 15 hours |
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| Sorry to hear man. I've had this expeirence with my best friends father a few years back. Not that words coming from me probably help in anyway, but, hope everything just comes back together for you and hope to see you move on alright. Just wish you the best. (edited by Xeogred on 03-22-04 02:46 AM) (edited by Xeogred on 03-22-04 02:46 AM) |
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Kefka Indefinitely Unbanned Level: 81 Posts: 278/3392 EXP: 4826208 For next: 166641 Since: 03-15-04 From: Pomona, CALIFORNIA BABY! Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| I've never had my dad or mom die, but I had a few very close friends get killed, so I somewhat know what you feel, probably. You are handling it strongly. Wish there was something I could say... everything looks like it'll be ok, man. | |||
Super Sion You BlockHead! Level: 70 Posts: 117/2472 EXP: 3002513 For next: 13298 Since: 03-15-04 From: Yo Mommas House Since last post: 29 min. Last activity: 5 min. |
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| None of my friends have ever died...and I never knew my father. You should be happy that you were able to spend time iwth him whilke he was alive, and dont forget that youll see him again. | |||
Knives Koopa Level: 18  Posts: 9/106 EXP: 26532 For next: 3365 Since: 03-21-04 From: Atlanta Since last post: 176 days Last activity: 83 days |
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| I know how it is, your dad died after a long fight, unlike my dad he died after the first twelve hours. It's not fun, sitting in the hospital with your loved one hoping to god he/she won't die, I went through that on Christmas Eve of 2000....My dad got jumped in good old downtown Detroit (this pklace fucking sucks) and I knew there was no way he was gunna live, but hell you can't sit there crying forever, he/she'd want you to move on, and I think it awesome how you got along well after his death, I took my dad's death bad, he was 48, he had more time....But when you think about him don't think of how he died, think of the good times you had...F**k now I'm crying god d**n.... | |||
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kitty Come on babe, pet the pussy ;) Level: 70 Posts: 362/2449 EXP: 2962406 For next: 53405 Since: 03-15-04 From: Scranton, PA, USA Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| My dad's been in the hospital 5 weeks now, and it was pretty serious in the beginning (burns, stroke, heart attack, blood infection) but he did, thankfully, get better. With all the stress and pain I've been going through, I can't imagine going through it like that and then seeing him die. My heart goes out to you. Have the strength to get past this. |
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Kwan Doesn't have a valid sized userpic. ||bass will be pissed :(((((((( Level: 50  Posts: 231/1137 EXP: 937111 For next: 10206 Since: 03-15-04 From: Durkadurkastan! Since last post: 22 days Last activity: 2 days |
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Originally posted by Anya Same with my grandfather, when I was 5. I guess I was too young to know the extent then, but since he and I weren't really them close. I did cry a year or so later when it sank in. As for your father, my condolences. He fought hard, but unfortunately you can't fight fate. |
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Shiieru Goomba Level: 10 Posts: 21/27 EXP: 3423 For next: 991 Since: 03-17-04 From: The world's randomness capital Since last post: 576 days Last activity: 286 days |
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| Sorry to hear that... I guess that if he was suffering, though, at least he will be free of the pain now, as you said. |
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