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Apocalypse

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Posted on 07-06-04 07:41 AM Link | Quote
I told him to f**k off because of the treatment I was getting at the time. There was reasoning behind it all I didnt just go up to him for no particular reason and say f**k off.
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Posted on 07-07-04 03:52 AM Link | Quote
Two kinds of bullies I know of...
1.) Joking Asshole: Talks shit and trys to embarrass you infront of everyone.
2.) Destructive Brute: Likes to harass and beat people up for fun.

Now that "fuck off" statement will only peturb or encourage the guy to fight more and waste your time.
Make new friends on your spare time, like you said, help people.

Do whatever you can to avoid confrontation with your enemies while you do it.
It may take awhile, but it will pay off depending on how loyal your companions are.
Don't tell them to defend you or whine about how mean some people are, they'll stand up for you by themselves.
If you are really lucky, your friends will gang up on the guy and give him his own medicine!
If they are too scared, put your foot down and stand up for yourself.

As for the smack-talking jerkwads, if they try to say something to you, don't even look at them, just keep walking away and they'll look like an ass.
If they smack your ass or touch you, beat the crap outta them.

Keep these things in mind, build up a reputation, then you will be virtually untouchable! Don't go and start up a Mafia or anything! just play it cool!
Hope that helps!


(edited by The_Raven on 07-06-04 06:54 PM)
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Posted on 07-07-04 06:45 AM Link | Quote
I suggest that you totally ignore the dude. I f that doesn't work, than even if you get your ass kicked afterward, punch him in the face. This way, he'll know that you're going to stand up for yourself. If punching him doesn't sound good, than you need to watch a little movie called "The New Guy" and give him a Tiger Claw!
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Posted on 07-08-04 12:05 AM Link | Quote
Well, It doesn't sound like he can ignore the guy in his current situation. I would suggest confronting him (not privately) and asking why the fuck he does that to you. If that doesn't work, the only solution I can think of is knocking him out publicly.
Apocalypse

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Posted on 07-08-04 04:17 AM Link | Quote
That seems to be the common advice, however I will not resort to violence unless it is absolutely necessary, I also know why he does it all, it is because he cant handle leaving it as an ended friendship he has to make things worse. He claims to everyone that I do all this to him but I assure you anything I have done to him has been to counteract what he does to me.
It seems to have died down now and the whole thing just seems like a joke to me, I have been thinking about it and if he wants to be all pathetic about it then fine, it don't hurt me no more so yeah.
Also to help myself I will be helping others as I stated at the beginning of this thread, Regardless of what anyone else thinks.
Thanks everyone for the advice It was much appreciated.
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Posted on 07-11-04 01:37 PM Link | Quote
I have a solution that I can almost guarantee you will work... Call him up/have a seat with him/drop him an e-mail and just flat out tell him you'd like to bury the hatchet. Ask him about specific problems he has with you, swallow your pride, apologize, and explain yourself. If you're open with the fellah and present yourself as sincere and in a non-confrontational manner, chances are he'll take what you have to tell him seriously and probably be sincere right back at you.

Who knows, you may end up being buddies with the guy.
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