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Dracoon Zelda The temp ban/forum ban bypasser! Level: 84  Posts: 533/3727 EXP: 5514391 For next: 147561 Since: 03-25-04 From: At home Since last post: 5 hours Last activity: 5 hours |
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| The at all the good things then the negative things and try and decide from there, but if it ends up being bad you can't just let it go on. Then again she probably just likes that and thats how she shows her affection. I don't know about the whole depressing thing though. | |||
MathOnNapkins Math n' Hacks Level: 67  Posts: 244/2189 EXP: 2495887 For next: 96985 Since: 03-18-04 From: Base Tourian Since last post: 1 hour Last activity: 32 min. |
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| Confront her about these issues. That's the easiest way of doing things. You're only been dating what, 2 weeks, so any emotional fallout from a breakup would be minimal. If you don't like her vibe when you confront her, say the hell with her. On the other hand, you could always just discuss it with one of her friends away from her if you get the chance. I believe women tend to be more honest with their friends about their relationship than with the one they're actually in the relationship with. If you get to talk to someone who seems trustworthy she might drop a few hints. |
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HighSorceressDelial Buzzy Beetle DDR FREAK Slayer of Beasts Savior of Worlds Eater of Napkins Level: 31  Posts: 162/380 EXP: 181041 For next: 4322 Since: 03-15-04 From: Shimmering Waters Of Avden Since last post: 9 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| If she was in other bad relationships then you just have to get her used to the fact that you actually mean what you say. It's not her fault if she doesn't believe you because of past experiences. She also may be making out with you so much because she thinks it is what you want. Her past boyfriends were probably jerks that said nice things only to get stuff out of it, so that could be why. If you don't want to just put your head in a certain position while cuddling that would make it hard for her to kiss you. ~Delial |
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Xzolaz the Slayer Banned - Registered duplicate account Level: 14 Posts: 8/63 EXP: 11463 For next: 1608 Since: 05-26-04 From: Smalltown, USA Since last post: 492 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| I've been through shit like this lately so limme give it a shot. Confront her, ask her if she really does like and how she feels about the relationship. Ask her, tell her flat out what you're thinking. You might be surprised, she might not know that she is coming off like this, and every thing will be peachy, or not. Just go into it with a positive attitude, that helps too. If you really don't want to break it off, then tell her that, tell her that you really like her. I personally wouldn't talk to her friends about it because she might think your going behind her back or something like that. Just tell her flat out, thats basically it, Good luck man (edited by Xzolaz the Slayer on 05-29-04 12:35 AM) |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76  Posts: 265/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| The best thing you can do is confront her about it and asks her what she really wants from you. Tell her that you do really mean what you say. Get her to understand that you aren't just trying to do what she thinks you are just because her past guys were jerks. Thats why she is acting this way towards you. Like what Delial said, she thinks that you just want to make out a lot and stuff. Just talk to her about all of this so you won't regret leaving her for what she's doing. | |||
Felix Nipper Plant Level: 33 Posts: 371/422 EXP: 208347 For next: 20832 Since: 04-03-04 From: Canada Since last post: 224 days Last activity: 6 days |
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Originally posted by MHL Sounds like a good idea to me. The concept of putting it in a note is the only part that sounds iffy. It really depends on what she's like. For some people, notes are definate things, that provide a certain feel of security; for others, they're cold and impersonal. It may sound like I'm going too far into it, but all I'm really saying is to go by what you know. I'm not saying to pick the situation apart. You know her to an extent, and you should have a good idea of whether or not to use a note. But either way, letting her know how you feel is a good idea. If you actually do still like her, then the relationship still has potential. Some people are really just insecure. In your case, it's likely due to her past boyfriends. Insecurities can be a real pain in a relationship, whether they be related to her self-esteem, or her additude towards the SO (ie: you), but it's important to keep a level head over it. If you both still like eachother, it's something you can work through with a little effort. (edited by Felix on 05-30-04 02:16 AM) |
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