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Keitaro Iron Knuckle ウラシマ ケイタロウ Level: 54 Posts: 262/1342 EXP: 1201569 For next: 32301 Since: 03-15-04 From: Hinata, Japan Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| edit: problem solved. (edited by MajinBlueDragon on 04-21-04 06:45 PM) (edited by MajinBlueDragon on 04-21-04 06:57 PM) (edited by MajinBlueDragon on 06-02-04 05:01 PM) |
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tinzeee Permaban Repeated warnings and bannings about stupidity Level: 38  Posts: 481/618 EXP: 369695 For next: 752 Since: 04-02-04 From: Australia - Sydney Since last post: 553 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Now this is why i don't want a relationship... Long distance relationship NEVER work out, unless they come or you go up and live with them If she is keeping secrets and what-not from you then you really need to think about were both of you stand in your relationship. I know you have said that you love her and that, but if she is lying to you or keeping things from you... you really have to wonder if she is right for you and if she really cares for you. Maybe go up to her and state that your both in a relationship and that if it was to work you both need to tell each other things... The hole point in getting married is that you become best friends with your lover and you both tell each other your secrets, feelings, problems and all this. And if she is going behind your back with another person ( wheather its female or male ) you have a right to know. I hope that helped and i wish you goodluck  |
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Keitaro Iron Knuckle ウラシマ ケイタロウ Level: 54 Posts: 264/1342 EXP: 1201569 For next: 32301 Since: 03-15-04 From: Hinata, Japan Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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Jarukoth  IRRATIONAL EXUBERENCE!!1! Level: 79  Posts: 688/3194 EXP: 4402011 For next: 177456 Since: 03-17-04 From: New Jersey, U.S.A. Shoes: Yes. Since last post: 8 days Last activity: 1 day |
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| I believe that the best thing to do would ber to have a nice, sit down chat with this girl. Remind her how much you love her, and remind her that she can talk to you about absolutely anything, and how you don't want any secrets in your relationship. You don't even have to tell her anything you have heard. If you do decide to tell her about this "close female friend", tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she really does care about you like she says she does, you two should be able to work something out, at least. Believe me, I know how tough it can be. Think of it this way: If she can't be honest with you, how can either of you expect your relationship to grow? If she won't be honest with you, well... I can't think of one good way to awnser this. These things really blow. |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76  Posts: 130/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| Yeah, I agree with Jarukoth. You should talk to her and let her know how you're feeling. With the "close female friend", I think maybe you should let her know how you feel about that too. If you don't tell her it's going to keep on bothering you to the point where you can't take it. Tell her that she should be honest with you and remind her that she can tell you anything. That's what a relationship is about. You guys are support for eachother. If honesty is lacking then your relationship is lacking. Honesty is the core part of it. | |||
Cthulhu Rex Level: 36  Posts: 127/541 EXP: 302159 For next: 5951 Since: 04-04-04 From: R'lyeh Since last post: 123 days Last activity: 61 days |
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| Honesty with each other is a very good thing. If you're concerned about the close female friend, be honest and ask her about it. No matter waht the reply is you will always know that you were the hinest one becasue you voiced your concerns and didn't lie by saying, "No, it's ok." | |||
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Keitaro Iron Knuckle ウラシマ ケイタロウ Level: 54 Posts: 269/1342 EXP: 1201569 For next: 32301 Since: 03-15-04 From: Hinata, Japan Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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neotransotaku Baby Mario 戻れたら、 誰も気が付く Level: 87 Posts: 483/4016 EXP: 6220548 For next: 172226 Since: 03-15-04 From: Outside of Time/Space Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 1 hour |
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| that's good...but well, it is kinda hard to not do so, you know? no one likes to lose something special and don't want to hear anything bad about what they have. anyways, i'm glad everything is okay but um...control your emotions and thoughts more, then you might not have to go through something like this again  |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 140/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| At least you feel relieved now. I think it's natural that someone would think the other could be unfaithful. We always think of the worst things that could happen since you don't want to lose the person you love. You know the truth now, so don't stress . |
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Kefka Indefinitely Unbanned Level: 81 Posts: 1051/3392 EXP: 4826208 For next: 166641 Since: 03-15-04 From: Pomona, CALIFORNIA BABY! Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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Originally posted by MajinBlueDragon Go have make-up sex with her, right now!  |
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Cthulhu Rex Level: 36 Posts: 308/541 EXP: 302159 For next: 5951 Since: 04-04-04 From: R'lyeh Since last post: 123 days Last activity: 61 days |
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| That seems to be all you think about, eh, Kefka? | |||
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Keitaro Iron Knuckle ウラシマ ケイタロウ Level: 54 Posts: 281/1342 EXP: 1201569 For next: 32301 Since: 03-15-04 From: Hinata, Japan Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| EDIT: PROBLEM SOLVED. (edited by MajinBlueDragon on 06-02-04 05:02 PM) |
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I talked to her, and what I found out...well, the female friend basicly told her that she loved her and hated me. So when my girlfriend set her straight, the girl spread some indecent things about her, of which I was probably getting the butt of. I just feel really bad for jumping ot a conclusion like that...but dammit...I'm so releived, to say the least.