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Ruby Weapon 7 Shyguy Level: 17  Posts: 53/96 EXP: 22968 For next: 1775 Since: 03-16-04 From: Hell Since last post: 28 days Last activity: 22 days |
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| A few days ago, it would have been my sister's 23rd birthday. For those that don't know the story, my sister died of a drowning a few years ago and went through depression for a year and a half. I went to school that day knowing that it was her 23rd birthday. Either though I was in school, I couldn't do any work because I was completely distracted and I didn't talk to anyone because I was sad. When I got home from school, I sat in my room the rest of the day basically crying and thinking things like "Why did she have to die?" I didn't eat very much on that day and I felt sick as a dog from all of this crap I was going through. When I went to sleep, I had a dream about her death and the events that took place that day. I also have this same problem on May 7th, which is the day she died and on all of the major holidays such as Christmas and Easter. What should I do about this problem? (edited by Ruby Weapon 7 on 04-12-04 02:09 AM) |
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Tarale I'm not under the alfluence of incohol like some thinkle peop I am. It's just the drunker I sit here the longer I get.  Level: 73  Posts: 175/2720 EXP: 3458036 For next: 27832 Since: 03-18-04 From: Adelaide, Australia Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| Heh, if you're looking for relief from the depression, I'm afraid I can't offer you much help. I know what it's like to lose a loved one, the best advice I can offer you is to remember the good times you had with your sister. Maybe have a special birthday party for her anyways, with a little cake. Really, there's no advice I can offer to make it all better. I lost my father, and so I know a little how you feel. But always remember your sister, and celebrate her life, rather than mourning her death. She would've wanted it that way, I'm sure. |
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tinzeee Permaban Repeated warnings and bannings about stupidity Level: 38  Posts: 195/618 EXP: 369695 For next: 752 Since: 04-02-04 From: Australia - Sydney Since last post: 553 days Last activity: 339 days |
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neotransotaku Baby Mario 戻れたら、 誰も気が付く Level: 87 Posts: 404/4016 EXP: 6220548 For next: 172226 Since: 03-15-04 From: Outside of Time/Space Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 1 hour |
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| you know...your sister wouldn't want you to be this way (sad and stuff, etc)... in addition, i think your sister would probably want you to let go? 3+ years is quite a long time to grieve but well, that is your choice... not sure what else to say as you have heard the same stuff already... so yeah, it is okay but maybe you should seek a for a way to move on...  |
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24  Posts: 30/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Sorry to hear that Unfortunately Death is a part of life. As hard as it may seem now eventually you will only be able to think of the happy memories. For now I'd say as everyone else is saying, focus on the good memories and hold on to those because in doing this is may help you to cheer up. If this doesn't work, Meditation should, it works for me when I need to clear my mind of all bad thoughts. If you find none of this works maybe speak to a councillor let it all out, I find it's easier talking to a councillor than a person you know well because you have to explain everything and you can't leave anything out Thats All the advice I have for now, and don't listen to what others say, it is undefined how long the grieving process should take. Let it take as long as it needs  (edited by LostAuzzie on 04-12-04 04:03 AM) (edited by LostAuzzie on 04-12-04 08:57 AM) |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143  Posts: 409/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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