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RoboticParanoia

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Posted on 04-11-04 09:18 AM Link | Quote
Are you supposed to feel paranoid that the next day you're going to wake up and hear the dreaded words "We need to talk." on your email/answer machine?

I kinda feel that way right now...and I have no reason too, actually. I'm scaring myself. And that's sad..
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Posted on 04-11-04 09:19 AM Link | Quote
I think that it is nothing to worry about that much, if you really care for another person so much, you should let them know that, but not only by words, but by actions too.
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Posted on 04-11-04 10:03 AM Link | Quote
No...you're not supposed to feel paranoid that the next day they're going to want to "talk". Maybe if there was at least a tiny little reason it would be more understandable...but not for no reason at all. There could also be a reason that you don't really fully realize but it's still bothering you.

If you have a history of girls leaving you randomly though that would make sense too. How long have you been going out for? Sometimes the length of time affects how secure/unsecure you are in a relationship.

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Posted on 04-11-04 01:10 PM Link | Quote
Try not to worry yourself, because if you worry too much then you might over do something that could lead for the "we need to talk", just think to yourself that everything is ok and don't worry.
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Posted on 04-11-04 01:53 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by MTN889
I think that it is nothing to worry about that much, if you really care for another person so much, you should let them know that, but not only by words, but by actions too.

I agree, it's not enough to say you like someone you have to prove it. Believe me I know.
I haven't been in a solid relationship yet but am currently trying to get into one, and i'm still trying to prove to this person that I like them.
My advice, if you continue with these thoughts of "we need to talk" try medatation. I know it sounds corny but it really works.
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Posted on 04-11-04 11:10 PM Link | Quote
I know what you mean actually... I'm with this guy who's done that to me twice before... I love him though.. and I get so paranoid sometimes that it's just going to end. He tells me that he'll never hurt me again.. but how do I know that?
My advice is just.. try not to think about it too much. It's also good if you can get the source of whats bothering you. If you have a history like me.. then there's not much you can do but try not to think about it too much. If you're happy now with her.. then live in the moment and be happy. Don't be worried.
I have a history of being screwed over.. my last boyfriend screwed this slut and was getting regular BJ's from another girl.. and I was with him for over 4 years. I never did anything past 1st with him either.. and that's good too.. cuz if I did.. I might have a disease or something.
Anyways.. if I knew more about the situation I could prolly help you outt. If you've only been together for a short time.. then it's understandable to feel like that.. but if you've been together for a while.. then you should try to pinpoint a reason why you might feel that way.
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Posted on 04-12-04 02:22 AM Link | Quote
I'll just think positive I guess. I know she likes my company...so it's all good.
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