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Kutske Since: 11-19-05 Last post: 6644 days Last view: 6644 days |
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I don't believe in such a thing as "fetish," because the term fetish is defined as "sexual arousal differing from the norm," and I don't believe that there is a such thing as "normal." But I'll allay my own semantic fussybodiness and go on assuming the question is, "what is it that turns you on which you assume doesn't turn most other people on?" And while I can't neccessarily even answer that question, I'll relate an experience I once had.
Sometimes, in this life, you meet someone with whom you share a soulbound connection. Without even words, you understand one another. There are times when you wish to explore and further this connection of yours. In some instances, you might find a dear friend, in others, the love of your life. Then, there are times when your bodies cry out for one another, when the connection can only be explored physically, and you want to take things as far as you can. I met such a person once, and we connected to quite a degree. It was a crazy three months, and I don't want to give details beyond the "kinky" part, but we soon found that sex wasn't enough, the connection wasn't at it's strongest. There was a moment when I got an impulse and decided to go with it, for better or worse, so I reached to the side of the bed for her knife and made a small cut on her bottom lip, then proceeded to suck on the wound. She pushed me away and I thought I had crossed some unseen line, but to my surprise and delight, she picked up the knife and cut my top lip, so we could drink of each other's vitality simultaneously. It hurt, it did hurt and the pressure of the sucking intensified this pain, but for some reason, that envigorated me; it was more physically exhilarating than anything I had ever done before, and anything I've ever done since. I suppose now I understand why a person would jump bare-assed into a lake in the middle of winter. I've always said that pleasure and pain cannot go hand-in-hand, at least for me, because I have a very low threshhold for pain, but that idea was shattered by this experience, and I began to realize how much good pain does me. Because really, if one does not know pain, one cannot know pleasure; the two are one in the same, if opposite on their sides of the scale. Just as we cannot judge light without knowing darkness, and cannot judge warmth without knowing coldness, we cannot judge pleasure without pain, joy without sadness. In the 1960's, a new procedure was being talked about in the medical community; anesthetized birth. Obviously, many women are scared to deliver birth for the first time, since it's said to be so painful and torturous, but many of the women who were anesthetized and awoke after the birthing process was complete suffered terrible depression afterwards. I personally believe that this is because the pain of childbirth is what makes it so wonderful for the woman; that is, that pain can be as powerful emotionally in a positive sense as anything else, as pleasure. And that's what the act I described was for me -- emotional. I had never felt so physically close to some one; I felt so close that I thought we might meld permanently into one being. Of course, that didn't happen and I haven't seen her in years, but I walked away from the experience happier and more complete as a human being for it. ... Okay, confession; this didn't actually happen to me, it happened to a character in a story of mine, but I feel deeply and inseperably connected to all my characters, so it may as well have happened to me. Anyway, an interesting read, no? And I would enjoy such an experience, I think. Long story short; I thought I'd never indulge in pain, that I would avoid it in any form at all costs, but I was wrong. Also, sanguinarianism. Koneko: Another thing that's hot is a girl in a guy's undershirt, and maybe boxers. Now that is something I'll never understand; what's sexy about a girl - who normally wears pretty, frilly underwear - walking around in the crusty, piss-stained boxers of a man? I can understand liking seeing women in their own boxers (i.e. undergarments that they own and that only they wear, which so happen to look like men's boxers), but as for a girl actually taking a guy's underwear and putting it on? Well then I'm sorry sir, but quite frankly, you've lost me. |
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Sabishii Red Paragoomba Since: 02-26-06 From: Georgia Last post: 6464 days Last view: 6464 days |
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I like tall and thin(thin meaning no more muscular than your average soccer player or swimmer) guys, better if they have pale skin and dark hair.
I'd have to say that bondage appeals to me, but not in the painful sense. I like the helplessness and the ability to torture with pleasure that stems from it. I like the idea of being dominated as well. The sumissive role has always appealed to me, so long as no pain is involved. Playing a slave for a day sould be interesting. I also have to admit that the idea of a threesome sounds appealing, but that could get messy or uncomfortable, so it's not a primary interest for now. |
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mattp Red Paratroopa Since: 03-04-06 Last post: 6561 days Last view: 6561 days |
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Haha by me! |
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Ailure Mr. Shine I just want peace... Since: 11-17-05 From: Sweden Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Originally posted by RedFlameZeroWell, furry been around since the 80's. Things wasn't meant to be sexualized. Yiff was apparently a Fox greeting from the start and not a slang for sex. Originally posted by SkydudeQuite funny, as Purple my fursona is, I never met Daniccess or remember her. Only saw her old posts. Originally posted by HighSorceressDelial Which is really funny, people consider me very furry but I never visited a convention, and it probably takes a few years before I even dare to. Meh, i'm not very much into BDSM (never tried it though, so *shrug*) but I still feel like very submissive. xD Sometimes I imagine bein a pet of someone sexy. o.o Originally posted by SkydudeLike how some furries used to be against the whole thing, then started to like it... (edited by Ailure on 03-09-06 03:09 AM) |
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Anya Since: 11-18-05 From: South Florida Last post: 6300 days Last view: 6298 days |
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Hair and a certain part of the neck.
And I might be devolping a back and feet fetish as well.. |
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Kyoufu Kawa Intends to keep Rom Hacking in one piece until the end Since: 11-18-05 From: Catgirl Central Station Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Y'know... there's a very easy way to stop that development, Anya.
*Kyoufu Kawa takes off his left shoe and high-kicks right in front of Anya's face. Smell THIS! |
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Skydude Armos Knight Since: 02-18-06 From: Stanford, CA Last post: 6570 days Last view: 6570 days |
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Feet just aren't attractive. They're just not, even the relatively nicer ones. I never really understood a foot fetish. But then, I suppose that could be said about a lot of things. | |||
Tommathy Since: 11-17-05 From: Cloud Nine, Turn Left and I'm There~ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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I never understood boobies. | |||
Skydude Armos Knight Since: 02-18-06 From: Stanford, CA Last post: 6570 days Last view: 6570 days |
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Dude, boobies are awesome. Even girls and gay guys should be able to appreciate just how wonderful boobies are.
Even Optimus Prime does, and he's a robot. |
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mattp Red Paratroopa Since: 03-04-06 Last post: 6561 days Last view: 6561 days |
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I've never seen the attraction in huge boobs. I've always preferred medium size to smaller ones. Actually shape has always been more important than size to me. | |||
Emptyeye Oneofthebiggestlegendsand starseverinthis...GOD! Ceremonial Full Moderator Since: 11-17-05 From: I DUNNOOOOOOOO!! Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Yeah, bondage and/or gagging for the win please.
I don't have a lot else to add here. I like chubby girls too. |
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Tommathy Since: 11-17-05 From: Cloud Nine, Turn Left and I'm There~ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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By gagging you mean mouth restraints, and not choking the girl with your cock, I presume... | |||
Jomb Deddorokku Since: 12-03-05 From: purgatory Last post: 6299 days Last view: 6299 days |
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Hey, i'm a straight guy and i dont get the boob thing either. They just dont seem sexual to me, i dont even consider a top-less woman to be nudity. What are you supposed to do with them as a non-infant? | |||
Emptyeye Oneofthebiggestlegendsand starseverinthis...GOD! Ceremonial Full Moderator Since: 11-17-05 From: I DUNNOOOOOOOO!! Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Originally posted by Tommathy Haha, quite correct. Or choking her with anything else, for that matter. For me, truthfully, it's more about the cosmetic appearance and the various "mmmph"ing noises a girl makes while gagged as much as anything else. This probably seems obvious, of course, but what I mean is that it's not necessarily about being in a "dominant" role of having "power" over her. |
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Christi Red Goomba Since: 03-05-06 From: La-La Land Last post: 6345 days Last view: 6345 days |
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My fetishes are weird. I've developed a thing for guys who wear top hats, ruffled shirts, and long coats, like Willy Wonka and Jack the Ripper, 19th century style, and I have a thing for guys who look like they stepped out of the 17th century, like in the Rembrandt paintings, or maybe guys who look like they're from the Middle Ages.
But 18th century? Hell no. Powdered wigs are a little too much. Hmmm....I also think that a nice back is sexy. I like smooth backs on guys and I like curvy s-shaped backs on girls. Shoulders and collarbones too. (edited by Christi on 03-11-06 02:35 AM) |
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Sabishii Red Paragoomba Since: 02-26-06 From: Georgia Last post: 6464 days Last view: 6464 days |
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I realized that there's an entire section I forgot on my original post.
Does anyone else have a thing for hands? I find myself really attracted to guys with very strong hands or very pretty hands (like geeks and piano players). I share the sentiment for backs though, particularly on guys who have a slightly effeminate figure. Not terribly sure how or why that works, but it's even more appealing if they have soft skin. |
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Koneko Plasma Whisp Since: 11-17-05 From: Tartarus. We get faster internet than you. Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Kutske, what I meant by "a guy's undershirt" was an undershirt of the sort usually worn by men, not a shirt borrowed from a man. Same for the boxers. I agree with you, clothing borrowed from the opposite sex does nothing for me, except possibly cause me to vomit.
But piss-stained? Do most other guys not wipe, or do they not bother going when they need to, or are they cowards? And I can't understand why anyone wouldn't love boobies. But I'm sure there's something I don't like that no one else understands, so that's alright. |
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Jomb Deddorokku Since: 12-03-05 From: purgatory Last post: 6299 days Last view: 6299 days |
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I cant speak for other guys, but my boxers are clean at all times
Its not that i HATE boobs, its that i dont get turned on by them. They are fine and dont offend me, but just are'nt a sexual thing to me. They are like seeing a girls elbow or spine to me. |
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Keitaro Mole Since: 11-18-05 From: Massachusetts Last post: 6455 days Last view: 6455 days |
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Originally posted by Emptyeye Wee, and here I thought I was alone in liking chubby girls. Really, theres just something that seems appealing about a girl having just a little extra chub on her (read: not obese or excessivly fat) that makes her adorable and sexy in some ways. But I'm also not only into chubby girls or anything like that, but I just happen to think they are cute I also have a thing for moaning. Not on my behalf, but when a girl reacts to being pleasured as such, its a big turn on. And as her moans increase in intensity as the pleasure continues...slaesjldg, its just...arousing. ;x |
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Tarale 2710 Affected by 'Princess Bitch-Face Syndrome' ++++!! Persona non grata Since: 11-17-05 From: Adelaide, Australia Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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skinny-boys with glasses.
Not sure what it is about em, I just like skinnyboys with glasses. |
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