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| Acmlm's Board - I3 Archive - Femine's Corner - Ok, this really p!sses me off!!! |
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Lakithunder Darknut                   Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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| I think this is where I put shit like this kind of shit! So ok here we go. Ya'll need ta explain to me why the fuck this chick won't forgive me!
Ok, we've been best pals for 3 or 4 years. We love each other like brother and sister (don't get any ideas!). She gets drunk and fucks some random dude without protection, and thinks she gets pregnant. Thank God, she wasn't. But now she's fucking the same dude over and over again and I tried to reason with her but she told me to go fuck off and now she hates me! Any of ya'll had an experience like this? WTF should I do?!?! She's my best friend and I don't want any anger between us! Also, I put this in the right place, right??? If not, I'm an idiot I admit it! FYI-we never fell in love or any shit so don't take that in mind! |
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Anya    Since: 11-18-05 From: South Florida Last post: 6468 days Last view: 6466 days |
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| May I ask how old this lady friend of yours is? Honestly, people...kids are having sex way too damn early these days...you're missing all the fun stuff (not that sex isn't fun, but you get what I mean). But anyway, thats not really the point.
Chicks tend to hold grudges for ever and its hard for them to let go of something/someone. Now, maybe they really do like each other, but for the most part, I doubt it..especially if he had sex with her while she was drunk, a real man wouldn't do that (unless he was drunk too and couldn't control himself, but still...) You've told her how you feel about the whole situation (hopefully in a calm manner and not yelling at her or trying to act like a parent) thats all you can really do. If you continue to push the matter, it could cause a huge hole in your friendship. Now, if you have concerns that maybe the dude is forcing her into having sex and the likes, then you need to tell a teacher or a trusted parent. Besides that, there really isn't anything you could do...I mean, you could talk to the guy and tell him how you feel and that she is like a sister to you and if he hurts her you'll kick his ass...or something like that, but save from talking to her and telling her how you feel on the matter, thats about it. Normally time has a way for fixing things...in some case fucking 'em up, but thats just life. ......wait a tick, I know I have no right to say this, but if she's your age, WTF is she doing drunk in the first place?! Anyway, if you really think she's in danger (like even having a kid at a young age) you might want to tell her folks....but that could either kill the friendship all together or in the long run, she'll thank you. (edited by Anya on 11-05-06 12:57 PM) |
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Silvershield   580  Since: 11-19-05 From: Emerson, New Jersey Last post: 6477 days Last view: 6465 days |
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Originally posted by AnyaA real man wouldn't put himself in a situation where he could lose control of himself and possibly compromise a girl's safety or dignity, period. But, otherwise, you're pretty spot on. I was surprised at how young the original poster is, and it bothers me that this is an issue at that age. But your advice sounds solid. |
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Lakithunder Darknut Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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| Well, I do thank ya'll for the help. We had a long talk today and she really seems to be a completely different person. Yes, she's my age, and I know she's illegal and shit. Her mom is just like her, so that is a dead end! She made it clear that apologies wouldn't fix it alone and she refused to say what she wanted from me. She also said that I should never speak to her again and I'm a c-word sucking fool...
It's pretty sad to see such a beautiful friendship perhaps end like this. Oh yeah, I also found out that she DID have a crush on me for a long time, maybe even now, so would that have anything to do with this ordeal? Thanks for the help, ya'll!!! |
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Shadic The Adventure of Link Perfect Member Since: 11-18-05 From: Olympia, Washington Last post: 6471 days Last view: 6468 days |
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| So, she's a partying 15 year old girl, willing to dump your friendship because she likes having sex with some guy she barely knows.
I don't think she's worth it honestly. The fact that you've been friends for years just hurts the case even more.. It would be best just to stay away from her, maybe she'll regain her senses after the guy pisses her off too. |
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Lakithunder Darknut Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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| She knew the guy for somewhat of a long time, like a few months, but she never fucked him till recently. She told me at school today that she will never speak to me again, so the only real strategy here seems to be of reverse psychology. Ignore her, and either I'll get over her or she'll come back.
Worth a try... |
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Shadic The Adventure of Link Perfect Member Since: 11-18-05 From: Olympia, Washington Last post: 6471 days Last view: 6468 days |
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| That's all that you're going to be able to do, honestly.
She's just being a bitch, make her get off her high horse, and don't be clingy... That's all that I can say. |
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Lakithunder Darknut Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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| Yea, Shadic is right.
Thanks for all the help. It'll be ok....I hope. |
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jeff Double metal axe  Since: 11-17-05 Last post: 6465 days Last view: 6465 days |
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| she is trying to guilt trip you, don't fall for that shit. she will eventually either come back crying to you and telling you you were right, or leave you forever and become a girl who gets her emotions jerked around constantly. certainly hope for the former to happen. | |||
Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom  Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6482 days Last view: 6482 days |
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| My theory is that girls just plain suck.
This thread backs it up 100%. Where are the women when we need them? I'm so sick of immature little cunts. Sorry for the harsh language, but seriously! They have no idea how bad they're fucking their lives up and they don't listen until it's too late. So I say fuck it and let them ruin their lives. My advice? If and when she comes crawling back tell her to go fuck herself! (edited by Vyper on 11-09-06 02:29 PM) |
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Lakithunder Darknut Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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Originally posted by Vyper Heheh. We got into an insult fight. She made fun of the chick I'm liking, and I said she has bigger tits than her and a less filthy pussy. Vyper is pretty correct here. |
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jeff Double metal axe Since: 11-17-05 Last post: 6465 days Last view: 6465 days |
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Originally posted by LakithunderOriginally posted by Vyper so much for being best friends~! |
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Lakithunder Darknut Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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Originally posted by jeffOriginally posted by LakithunderOriginally posted by Vyper Perhaps... |
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Anya Since: 11-18-05 From: South Florida Last post: 6468 days Last view: 6466 days |
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| Wow...can't believe she said that to you...actually, in a way, I can.
Just space yourself from her, you don't need the drama. |
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Lakithunder Darknut Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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| Anya is right. One of my other lady friends was worried about me and went up to her. She told my friend to go "shove a dildo up her bitch ass..."
Um, she's changed. Bigtime. I mean REAL BIGTIME! |
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NintendoFB Coney Since: 11-02-06 From: Florida, US Last post: 6528 days Last view: 6528 days |
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| Sucks. It's always sad to lose a good friend... Especially if you can't help it, kinda like moving. | |||
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Lakithunder Darknut Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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Originally posted by NintendoFB Plz don't speak ta me about moving...that's what my last girlfriend did... 
ANYWAYS, yea, it should all work out ok with her! maybe......   |
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Danielle  6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE   Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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 Don't stereotype that all females are like the one you're having problems with.
Obviously she's not a very good match for you, and it's time to move on. You can't expect the very first girl you meet to be the one, you can see very clearly that the two of you aren't going any further, so just do what you have to (and probably want to) do. Life will go on, I promise. |
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Lakithunder Darknut Since: 09-18-06 From: The Wind Fish's Dream Last post: 6466 days Last view: 6465 days |
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Originally posted by Danielle UM, we aren't going out if that's what you mean...we're just best friends...that last post was about another girl...... 
Anyways, I do agree about your stereotyping comment. I have a bunch of lady friends, and they're just as cool as my dude friends. She's just being sooooooo bitchy...and life is going on for good ol' Lakithunder.  |
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ibz10g Spiny Since: 08-10-06 From: Altoona, Iowa Last post: 6510 days Last view: 6510 days |
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| The only girls who cause drama are the ones who seem to like it. Lucky for me, I've never been in this predicament. Anyone who talks down to you about something you're obviously right about isn't worth being friends with. |
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