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witeasprinwow                    Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6405 days Last view: 6405 days |
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Originally posted by Danielle WHY THE FUCK NOT? As for the girl... I saw her, but I got cockblocked by her friends when I tried to walk her back to her car. At this point I think I'll just call her. So, I guess my question is... Is dealing with that over the phone too awkward for girls? I haven't asked a girl out over the fucking phone since high school. I am out of touch with that. By the time I get an answer I'll probably have already done it, but... whatever. |
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Danielle     6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE   Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| There are snakes.
On a plane. ZOMG SOUNDS LIKE A THRILLER As for the girl. Eh... can you just sort of... ask her somewhere casual, as friends, and then ask her out more personally there? Like... do you ever go out to get dinner or see a movie together? And then you can do it in person that way. I think it should be done in person, not only to make it more personal but because it's important to see her reaction. You don't want to get involved in something she thinks is a big joke or something, you know? Or perhaps you could ask her friends to give you some time with her alone because you want to ask her out... or are they the kind of people that would scream it out to her before you even talked to her? |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6405 days Last view: 6405 days |
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Originally posted by Danielle You are the second girl who has advised me this... So maybe this is a good idea after all. She's been busy all day, so I haven't called her. I've been sorta-kinda busy anyways. Her friends are naieve as hell. They didn't like, intentionally block me off... But they didn't understand what I was trying to do at all. It was like we were speaking different languages. After about 15 minutes of "No, seriously, I can walk her to her car just fine, you guys go home," I just let them have their way. EDIT: I'm sure someone older and more experienced would have found some other way to explain it to them. I wasn't up to the job at the time. I'll consider it a learning experience. (edited by witeasprinwow on 07-23-06 09:55 PM) |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now.  Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Umm... how old are her friends? Seems like a stretch to think they could be that oblivious. I hate stupid people. But yeah, ask her out for coffee over the phone, nothing more. Chat with her and have good conversation there, and then ask her out for real. Dinner/movie is more of a date than coffee, so I think that's the way to go. Dani: So... Could I date an 18 year old girl that I met the other day? I mean... I'm 26. But she's cute and fun and new to college here and wants someone who knows the town to spend time with, and I think she liked me. I know she thinks I'm cute. Is 18 too young for me? |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Why not?
She's of age, and if she showed interest in you then really... why not?  Eight years is a bit of a difference, but that doesn't mean you can't give it a try. As long as you don't take advantage of her age (not that I think you would -- You're a super nice guy from what I know of you), then go for it. It may not last forever (heh), but who knows. I hate the "what ifs", so I'd definitely give it a try. |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now. Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| So I just talked to her friend who introduced us and apparently she really liked me and wouldn't shut up about me and said I was way more fun than most guys
...ok I didn't end that sentence because my friend Mel called and told me that Ashley said thumbs way up to me asking her out and is excited that I'm interested in her too. Woot! |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| Danielle, you DO realize that the whole reason why people want to see Snakes on a Plane is BECAUSE it's so campy/cheesy/thriller, right?
Who goes to see horror movies like that because they actually get SCARED? Anyway, so it's better to take a girl out to coffee, tell her you like her there, then...? Take her to a movie or dinner if she accepts...? I got kinda lost in that. Hm... Do you think this pic is cute? OK, so I'm still kinda getting over my feelings for this girl Kirstie (the one that I was asking yout about), but I've been getting to know this other girl lately, and I can't help but feel an interest in her, and I kind of think she might be interested in me, too... But I dunno, it's hard for me to tell, I have no experience with this stuff. So if I start liking her, and I feel like it's possible she likes me, too, how should I go about telling her? Like you said, go out for coffee, and tell her then? I mean, how do you get to that topic without sort of bluntly bringing it out there? I feel confident that once school starts up, and I start meeting new girls, my feelings for this past one will disintegrate, especially if she really doesn't cae about me and what-not. That sort of makes me feel guilty--like my feelings for her aren't as strong as I thought. But it's weird--if she liked me back, that'd be that--I'd be hers, period, no one else's. I dunno, whatever, she definitely doesn't seem interested in me or even open-minded enough to get to know me for who I really am ANYWAY. So is that how you'd suggest I go about telling a girl I like her? (This is for future reference more than anything) Tell her during something casual, then take her out to something romantic? Or would taking her out for a nice walk be a good time to talk about it, too? |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Kas: That's awesome to hear. Best wishes, I hope you two hit it off!
DS: Yeah, I know Snakes on a Plane is supposed to be like that, and that's why some may appreciate it... but you can count me out there. It doesn't impress me at all and I won't be spending my money on it. As for asking a girl out. To me, I think that those kinds of things should be done in person. Over the phone, over AIM, via text messaging, that just doesn't fly. You should know that every girl has that soft spot for such romantic things, and asking her out in person, in a nice, comfortable place, is sooooooooooooooo much more "romantic" then a god damn text message, you know? Just do it in person. If you feel you won't know how to get to the subject, then think about it now. You could ask her out to a nicer place, and if her response is enthusiastic, you could throw in "as a date" or something. Perhaps you could surprise her, leave a small gift and a note on her doorstep or taped to her car. Surprises are always romantic, and while it is sort of "springing the topic" on her, it's in a cute way. And saves you the trouble of finding the words in person. I'll try and think of more ways... that's all I've got right now. As for liking another girl, don't feel bad. This chick that we've been discussing, she obviously doesn't care about you and isn't going to give you the time of day without you fighting for it. If another girl pops up that you'd like to date, and she's at least WILLING, why not? If you genuinely don't want to risk the possibility of the other girl liking you, then you have to pick. But to me, it's really a no-brainer. You shouldn't have to fight so much to get her attention. The older gal, I mean. And yes, that pic is freaking adorable. |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6405 days Last view: 6405 days |
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| You don't see Snakes on a Plane for the snakes, or the plane, or whatever.
You see it for Samuel L. Jackson. SAMUEL L FUCKING JACKSON. On that note, who do you think the manliest man ever is? Let's be fair to the other constants and disqualify me from the start. |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Manliest man ever? Umm... the correct answer is LANCE BASS *falls over laughing* | |||
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6405 days Last view: 6405 days |
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Originally posted by Danielle Do you have any clue how much I hate you right now?  |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| That pic was drawn by a friend for me, I realy like it.
Someone who doing an AMAZING job at CGing it, so I'm happy. Hm...Thanks for the advice... I'm still waiting for Kirstie to get back--watch, we won't even TALK, things'll be just fine, or I'll just decide to screw it and ignore her. And by that, sadly, I sorta mean it. I can't just 'be neutral' toward someone I really care about. I'm either all in or intentionally holding back. And I can intentionally hold back it may SEEM like I'm neutral when I'm actually bitter. Which may be what happens, I don't know. But this other girl definitely seemed very comfortable around me and we have been staying in touch over the summer, and things between us just seem to click really well, so I certainly see the possibility, though I'm trying not to hope about it or anything, 'cuz that'll be my first mistake: hoping too soon. Girls like romantic stuff? Wow, you'd THINK that, wouldn't you? Girls like surprises, too? Aha..ahahahaha...Not a lot of the girls HERE.  ;
I do something surprising, something nice, out of the blue, and they get CREEPED OUT. And yea, I know, maybe I don't know them well enough, but it's not that so much, it's just "OMG, a boy doing something nice and random for me, he must like me, I don't WANT a boy to like me, OMGHAX!" And no, I have no idea what 'OMNGHAX' has to do with anything. And by the way, I'm not even talking romantuc stuff. I'm talking purely platonic stuff, too. I have one friend who seems comfortable with me surprising her with kind, heartwarming things, but at the same time, she hardly remarks on them to me. But the trouble with me is that if I ever enter a relationship, I just can't see it 'just happening.' We're going to have to talk, I'm going to have to tell her I like her, and we're going to have to decide what to do about it. Yes, with this past girl, I DID do it in a letter... I do wonder if anything would've different had I done it in person, though. I think I did it in a letter because deep down I knew she wouldn't be interested and writing a letter was easier. After all, when we talked about it in person afterward she seemed just as opposed and creeped out, anyway. We'd known each other for, say...6 months. So I don't think she had that much of a righ to be creeped out because I was 'too quick to jump the gun' or something. But I won't cower out again if I do start really liking this new girl. Also, I seem to have a confidence problem--sort of. I'm very confident in myself. I know that when I'm put in a position, I will carry it out. You make me a leader, I will lead, and I'll give it what I've got. But the problem is, you have to PUT me there--I won't go looking for a leadership position by myself. And when it comes to girls, I'm never unconfident in myself, I'm always unconfident in the GIRL. As in, I'm always thinking they're the type who 'could never like me.' I know I have good qualities, and I'm proud of them. I'm aware of my flaws and I'm always trying to correct them, too. I just don't have confidence that the girls around me will SEE my good qualities, 'cuz they seem to not really be so good at that. They think that I'm kind of 'needy' sometimes, when I'm not really needy, I'm just emotionally open and very straightforward. If anything, I'm dependent, I've just never been in a relationship to prove to myself or a girl just how true this is. I seem needy because I ask my friends to help or rather, to listen when I need to vent--that makes me seem needy because they hardly ever need to ask ME for help. I'm willing and able to give all that I ask for and more, it's just that no one else asks for it. Do you think maybe this has been a problem in my social adventures? And you're not serious about Lance Bance, are you? And for God's sake, Johnny Depp IS t3h smex, but please give us something original. Maybe not THE sexiest guy, but A sexiest guy. Or something. (Sorry for my long posts, but as I even said, I'm very emotionally open and straightforward) (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 07-30-06 03:30 AM) |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6405 days Last view: 6405 days |
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Originally posted by D3stiny_Sm4sher I PMed you about this. Read it. |
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Trapster King Dedede Since: 11-19-05 From: Sweden Last post: 6403 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Hm....ah, I got a question now.
Who taught you to swear? |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| LOL. That's a pretty good question.
I'll add to it: how often do you swear? |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Wite: Aw come on, THAT MADE YOU LAUGH AND YOU KNOW IT!
Nah, if I had to choose sexiest guy, then Johnny Depp, Billie Joe Armstrong, and Jude Law would be at the top of my list. But MANLIEST, I really have no idea. 
Trapster: Nobody really taught me, it's just sort of the thing that you pick up around school or adults that can't hold their tongue. DS: I don't swear a lot, at least never with the harsh words. But if you consider crap, damn, or ass swear words, then um... quite often? As for the longer post. I really don't know what else to tell you with the girl or with any relationship, I just think you get yourself into pickles worrying about them too much. Despite what you seem to think, relationships DO "just happen." The situation arises, the two act on it according to how they feel, and if it's right, then it begins. You're just reading so far into the whol aspect of dating, the rights and the wrongs and how you can be perfect, that you're almost sucking out all the surprise and ambiguous-ness from it. That's what you have to experience in a relationship, when one forms and as it progresses. Just let it flow, you know? If the first gal (I'm bad with names) isn't into you when you're yourself, then don't try and make her be into you as someone you're not. If this second gal digs you for being yourself, then just continue to let your personality shine and see where it takes you. Don't read so far into a relationship possibility, just... be yourself, let it be known you like her, and if it's a mutual feeling then you should by all means have enough sense to act on it. I'm sure you can do that. I've no idea what wite told you to do, but that's my advice. Just chillax. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| Um...I am chillaxed.
Very much so. Sooo...I'm not sure why you say I'm 'reading too much' into it when I'm just talking about it... And I KNOW relationships 'just happen' what I said was that it doesn't work like that for ME. Unless the GIRL initiates things, I will not all of a sudden have a girlfriend without realizing it. I will need to talk with her about things first and establish our intentions to each other. many people do that, and I think that's better than slipping into a relationship when you and your partner could have two very different intentions--i.e. one of you wants something serious and the other just wants sex. I know it 'just happens' sometimes, of course, I'm just the type that it won't 'just happen' to. It's kind of odd, seeing all of my friends start dating and proceed to start doing things that they just...didn't seem like they'd do...Like having sex when they've hardly been dating for very long and just finished their first year in college. But then again, I'm just the type who gets creeped out when physical things are 'rushed' but emotionally 'rush' things myself. *shrug* I don't expect to date this girl, I just recognize the distinct possibility. Aaaaaand...none of that was a question... So don't worry about it, I guess. =P Is Danielle your real name? Either way, why did you choose to use it as your Acmlm name? |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Danielle is my real name, yessir.
I chose it because I lack creativity, and it was suggested to me by YD (who brought me here) so I went with it. I think I sat on register.php for a good hour trying to think of a name, and when all else failed... my real name appeared. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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. . . And then it became a black dot. Why did it become a black dot? |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Umm.... power abuse? |
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