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Sonic 3

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Since: 07-05-06

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Posted on 07-06-06 07:30 PM Link | Quote
There's this kid, this dumb 14 year old girl who lives down the road from me. I know her, because she's my mates little sisters frind, and whenever I go round there to see him, them two are always there. Now she came up to me a few months ago and asked me to give her £20 to pay for some new trainers, and I was like I don't really know you, go away.

Fine.

Done.

Except......she keeps comming up asking me for money, making a big scene with her friends saying "Where's my money, I thought you was getting me money? You got money to buy those new creps (trainers) but you can't even give me my £20?" etc. etc. It was funny the first few times.....now it's just sad.

However, the last two times I've seen her, shes thrown stuff at me. Stuff like bricks and bottles. Now I'm not about to take that from that brat, so the last time I chased her and caught her and said, ya know, what do you think you're playing at and so forth.

!!!! But she decided to scream and scream saying "Get off ME! Help! Police!" so I let her go. She then turns to me and says "I could get you locked up you know, easily," and walks off.


I'll be honest that scared me, because even if she made accusations, and then they found out she was lying, people wouldn't care. My name would be mud. And the worst thing is, she has a big family. Very big. They wouldn't listen to me if I tried to talk to them, I'd just get stabbed/beaten up. Badly. And they're the type of family that know people as well, and if something big was made up out of it, even if she was found wrong, they'd still hate me for it. My life wouldn't be worth a penny.

And NO I cannot go to the police. Like I said, you don't mess with their family.
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Posted on 07-06-06 08:18 PM Link | Quote
Bad way to approach a teenage brat. Very bad. It's too late now, but I would've suggested "playing ninja" and trying to dodge the stuff she throws at you. She'll enjoy herself if she's stupid enough. Either that or she'll think you're a loony and leave. Or... she'll walk up and blap you one for being so dumb.

But chasing her and grabbing her? That's seriously messed up. I don't blame you for being mad, but gyash.
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Since: 11-18-05
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Posted on 07-06-06 08:51 PM Link | Quote
Maybe she likes you and wants to make you mad because it's funny to her. Don't result to violence with this. Hitting girls = Not cool.
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Since: 12-29-05

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Posted on 07-06-06 10:29 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by GGS Cruel Justice
Maybe she likes you and wants to make you mad because it's funny to her. Don't result to violence with this. Hitting girls = Not cool.


Cruel Justice probably nailed it. Something like this happened to me when I was about your age, with a friend's sister. Little girls tend to get crushes on older guys, and they take it out in weird ways.

Just don't get hurt, and don't hurt her or do anything that could get yourself in trouble.
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Since: 04-21-06
From: Far away from a carnival, one ride tried to kill me (no lie)

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Posted on 07-07-06 12:21 AM Link | Quote
Simple. Whenever you think she might be around. HAVE SOME PALS WITH YOU. This way when she starts, SHE gets locked up!
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Since: 11-17-05
From: Adelaide, Australia

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Posted on 07-07-06 12:35 AM Link | Quote
I dunno, it's possible that yes, she might like you and it's coming out in VERY weird ways. But if she's throwing around the kinds of threats she is, I'd be discussing this with her parent or something at some point. Not sure how to go about doing that either, but it might cover you if she does start throwing around wild accusations later down the track.
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Since: 02-26-06
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Posted on 07-07-06 03:49 AM Link | Quote
Yeesh!

She might like you, but I don't think I've seen anything that weird. Worst I've ever seen is mild stalker tendencies.

Maybe you ought to try telling her that you earned your money and she should do the same, that or tell her to ask her family for it. If those fail and ignoring her doesn't work, I'd talk to your family about it and hers.

I'd mention to her family the throwing things bit. If her family's really that big, such agression might wind up with her hurting someone and casting a negative light on them. Children are viewed as slightly less inhibited versions of their parents in many places.
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Since: 06-17-06
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Posted on 07-07-06 02:01 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Sonic 3
And NO I cannot go to the police. Like I said, you don't mess with their family.


What, are they into organized crime or something? Othherwise, I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Never let anyone know you're afraid of them, it just gives them power over you. She knows that apparently she can get away with treating you like crap.

It is possible she has a crush on you and that she's a little nuts in how she acts out... but she's probably looking for someone to bully for an easy ride. I'm assuming that's a trait that runs in the family?

Bad idea chasing her, but since there was no report made I'd not worry about it.

Maybe you should get someone to video her throwing things at you and demanding money.
Then either take it to the cops (unless you honestly think they'll kill you) or

...blackmail her with it or something (Just kidding. Don't really do that.)
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Since: 11-18-05
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Posted on 07-07-06 10:01 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Kasdarack
Originally posted by Sonic 3
And NO I cannot go to the police. Like I said, you don't mess with their family.


What, are they into organized crime or something? Othherwise, I wouldn't worry about it too much.
Wrong. When I lived at my previous residence, there was this guy that was harassing the piss out of me at school. Every day it was constant bullying (I just ignored him, but my dad found out about it and got REALLY pissed), eventually even getting physical (I remember one time he slammed my head into a locker and I just laughed). It got to the point where my dad called the cops. The results? Nothing. Why? This person's family is very well known and respected in town, and if he were to do anything wrong, authorities seemed to automatically side with him without even looking into the case..

Justice? My ass.

My advice? Get used to it.

PS: There was a time when I would, without hesitating, fight back. However, that was long ago and presently I'm not a very good fighter

EDIT: As for what to do about this girl. Ignore her. Completely. As if she doesn't even exist. It should work


(edited by Vyper on 07-07-06 09:02 PM)
(edited by Vyper on 07-07-06 09:03 PM)
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Posted on 07-09-06 10:11 PM Link | Quote
If this girl is harassing you at a friends house, tell the friend's parents and then they'll probably go to the family and say to your friends sister that she's not welcome in their house anymore, and you'll be through with her. That may not work, but it's worth a shot. Also, going ot the cops if she was throwing bricks at you may not do you any good unless you have proof.

If her family is so big, why don't they give her money for new stuff? From the way it sounded, it seems like she may grow up into a slut or whore with her "Where's my money? I ain't leaving until I get my money."

Just to be truthful, I laughed at some of those things. The fact that anyone is willing to throw bricks at someone because they didn't give them money that they don't have is quite funny to me. Seriously though, you should avoid her. She sounds dangerous.
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Since: 01-28-06
From: USA

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Posted on 07-11-06 02:54 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Vyper
Wrong. When I lived at my previous residence, there was this guy that was harassing the piss out of me at school. Every day it was constant bullying (I just ignored him, but my dad found out about it and got REALLY pissed), eventually even getting physical (I remember one time he slammed my head into a locker and I just laughed). It got to the point where my dad called the cops. The results? Nothing. Why? This person's family is very well known and respected in town, and if he were to do anything wrong, authorities seemed to automatically side with him without even looking into the case..

Justice? My ass.



there is no justice, and there never was. I am living proof of this.

my advice? well, if you were serious about the police ignoring you:

it's mean, but here it is: Video tape her actions, and if the police do nothing, sue the police office. It's like getting your (and everyone elses) taxes back at once (plus some). you'll obviously win the case with video evidence proving their negligent action. Remember, (In the US at least) professionals are held to a higher standard in court, and police officers are professional law enforcement....

after that, go back and file the reports again. They're idiots if they want to lose the same lawsuit against. plus you get some easy $$$.

I say who cares if someone hates you. my name has been dragged through the mud more than I can remember -- thats why Im not going to live here forever. Its a little thing called moving that you can do after you finish school (or even before in many situations)
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