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Dude Man Shyguy Since: 11-18-05 From: Wareham MA Last post: 6348 days Last view: 6348 days |
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I was with my Girl friend today, nothing out of the oridinary. We were in my room as always, chatting away and sneaking kisses in. Talking about money issues for college and the such. Next thing I know I'm in bed with her. It was that fast. I felt like I was on another plannet. Picking at various straps and clips. Trying to see what I could get away with. She let my have my way with just about everything. I could tell we both wanted the same thing to happen. I finally panicked and chickened out like a pansey. That is after removing her bra. She understood and didn't hold it against me. It's just weird. She is my first real girl friend (after various one weekers and chicks whos name I never want to mention or bring to mind, ever)
I'm just wondering. Did anybody else have this problem their first time having sex? (edited by Dude Man on 06-28-06 10:19 PM) |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now. Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Dude, it's not a big deal. It's good that you didn't go any farther than you're comfortable with going. Don't worry about it.
Last time I was in a similar position I actually said no. It woulda been the first time for the girl I was dating then and I just didn't think it was the right time for it. My actual first time having sex sucked. I was kinda drunk and it was with an ex-girlfriend. I wouldn't have done it sober, and I didn't really know what I was doing, and it was just bleh. Actually, none of the times I've had sex with someone I wasn't in love with haven't been that great. I guess I just don't really enjoy casual sex. When the person and time and place is right though... it can be really amazing. So yeah, "chickening out" isn't a big deal. Better than going too fast. I wouldn't worry about it at all. Maybe you and she should have a talk about sex though. (edited by Kasdarack on 06-28-06 10:50 PM) |
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Cruel Justice I have better things to do. Since: 11-18-05 From: At my house! Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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Not really but I did get scared later.
I was having a shitty day. My best friend (now my fiance) asked me to come over and forget about what happened. I went to the basement to watch a movie and we tapped into alot of beer. I got drunk, so did she. We looked at eachother funny, I laughed and she kissed me for no reason. One thing lead to another and before I knew it, we were both naked. I remember hearing some moaning and feeling sweaty... other than that, it was a blur. I didn't talk to her for about 2 weeks. |
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MathOnNapkins 1100 In SPC700 HELL Since: 11-18-05 Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6296 days |
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I wouldn't feel bad about it. Having sex forever changes a relationship and would send signals to your gf that perhaps you're not interested in sending. Girls tend to become way more attached to you after that. Not to mention you've got the possibility of STDs (were you going to wear a condom? ), childbirth, and new emotional and psychological baggage to contend with in a relationship with sex.
I mean yeah... sex is great, but it's not something to be taken lightly like a lot of people want to believe. |
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Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6314 days Last view: 6314 days |
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Originally posted by Dude ManNope. First-time sex for a lot of people is like going swimming in cold pool. First you dip your toes in, then you slowly make your way deeper until finally the water is above your head. Me? I dove right into the deep end EDIT: That doesn't mean I didn't enjoy foreplay. Foreplay rules (edited by Vyper on 06-29-06 05:03 PM) |
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Cruel Justice I have better things to do. Since: 11-18-05 From: At my house! Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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Originally posted by VyperOriginally posted by Dude ManNope. First-time sex for a lot of people is like going swimming in cold pool. First you dip your toes in, then you slowly make your way deeper until finally the water is above your head. Me? I dove right into the deep end According to your analogy, I kinda passed out and fell into the pool. Then woke up shivering like crazy, crying like a baby "Oh I got water up my nose!". |
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Kyoufu Kawa Intends to keep Rom Hacking in one piece until the end Since: 11-18-05 From: Catgirl Central Station Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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We were just, lying there, cuddling. I was trying to get it in there earlier that night, but kept failing. So I was like "fuckit" and just cuddled. We ended up in the Spoons position and it just... slipped in. The rest is fuckin' history | |||
Sabishii Red Paragoomba Since: 02-26-06 From: Georgia Last post: 6464 days Last view: 6464 days |
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Don't sweat it. Everyone else hit it dead on the head.
My first time I regretted. It was way too soon and it only happened because he kept pressuring me and because I thought I loved him. I got really paranoid and thought I was pregnant, despite the fact that he never ejaculated and we used protection, which caused me to miss my period. I got extremely attached to him despite the circumstances and he freaked out and pushed away. We broke up because it was too soon. For about a year afterward, I'd get flustered and start crying whenever a boyfriend did anything that might hint at anything beyond making out. As MathOnNapkins said, it brings a lot of potential problems and lots of emotional and psychological issues that you might not be able to handle. Granted it was the first time for both of us and we've been involved on and off ever since (that's what that nice little attachment bit does, which is logical when you consider the biological function behind it). He's still my best friend and we're still dealing with the on and off dating because of the attachment. We both also say we regret the timing, but not the person. Five minutes of fun can have years of consequences. Be careful regardless, but if you really care about her and about yourself, be especially careful. Don't feel bad and don't let it be an awkward situation for you. |
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drjayphd Torosu OW! BURNY! Since: 11-18-05 From: CT Last post: 6299 days Last view: 6297 days |
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Originally posted by VyperOriginally posted by Dude ManNope. First-time sex for a lot of people is like going swimming in cold pool. First you dip your toes in, then you slowly make your way deeper until finally the water is above your head. Me? I dove right into the deep end So, in other words: Back to the P.G., and that's program: My first time was... interesting. Went out looking for someone, struck up a conversation with someone else sitting outside her building, inside, yay, relocate to my room, kick the roomie out (he didn't really mind), YAY. Except I couldn't come to the logical conclusion. Stupid grain alcohol and Coke (hey, I was 18, and therefore, not 21). Ended with a bit of the munching a while later. ...did I mention she had her period? No? |
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Uncle Elmo Porcupo Loved up and ready to go :) Since: 11-24-05 Last post: 6313 days Last view: 6353 days |
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My first time was with a woman I loved, we'd both planned it (a nessesity in a long distance relationship), and to use the Swimming pool analogy, we were so used to the water, it felt very comfortable.
Respect to you for being able to actually unclasp her bra by the way, most of us guys don't manage to do that first time round... or at all... they seem so technical Never feel sorry, when you feel ready, you'll know. and besides... in my opinion, the best part about sex, iks the cuddling afterwards. |
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Black Lord + Flurry Since: 11-17-05 From: Where indians still roam... Last post: 6298 days Last view: 6299 days |
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Originally posted by Uncle Elmo Unclasping bras is an art... an art I tell you, and you're not a true man if you have to use both hands to do it. *BL knows the art well My first time was pretty good, her parents were out of town... so we went to her house, I had bought condoms because I knew it was gonna happen any day (usually they throw you subtle hints), and so it happened. She had done it before, but apparently he had a small peener and she didn't realize sex could actually feel good, let alone feel. I was a rook at that stage, but buy now I am pretty much a sex god... Do I have the stamina of a porn star... meh, it's close... but I'm usually good enough to abide to the "Ladies first" rule. |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now. Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Originally posted by Uncle Elmo My last g/f wore bras that clasped in the front. I had never heard of such a thing. Imagine my confusion the first time I took her shirt off and went to undo her bra in the standard fashion =P |
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Doritokiller Mole Since: 06-15-06 From: California Last post: 6439 days Last view: 6302 days |
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Originally posted by KasdarackOriginally posted by Uncle Elmo *Goes to the back* "Um..." "What is it?" "I can't find the thingy." "What thingy?" "The thing that... you know... BRA." "Oh, you're on the wrong side!" *Giggle* "Oh." *Nervous laugh* *Goes to the front* "I-I can't-t s-seem to g-get it off..." *Giggle* "Let me do it for you..." "... Holy CRAP." |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now. Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6296 days |
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She did giggle, actually. She giggles very prettily. I miss her She was my best friend for a long time. | |||
Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6314 days Last view: 6314 days |
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Originally posted by drjayphdUmmmm... no. I'm kinda iffy on the whole anal thing :/Originally posted by VyperOriginally posted by Dude ManNope. First-time sex for a lot of people is like going swimming in cold pool. First you dip your toes in, then you slowly make your way deeper until finally the water is above your head. Me? I dove right into the deep end You freaking ate her out on her period? You just earned your wings (not to mention you're a sick freak ). I can't even imagine the taste |
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drjayphd Torosu OW! BURNY! Since: 11-18-05 From: CT Last post: 6299 days Last view: 6297 days |
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Originally posted by VyperOriginally posted by drjayphdUmmmm... no. I'm kinda iffy on the whole anal thing :/Originally posted by VyperOriginally posted by Dude ManNope. First-time sex for a lot of people is like going swimming in cold pool. First you dip your toes in, then you slowly make your way deeper until finally the water is above your head. Me? I dove right into the deep end Honestly, I was so plastered I didn't realize... and when I did, I was already balls-deep into the festivities and figured "eh, why not..." |
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Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6314 days Last view: 6314 days |
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You got major balls, man, major balls... | |||
ziffhasnoaim/password Snifit Since: 06-07-06 Last post: 6488 days Last view: 6488 days |
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I don't talk about my first time.
It was...a unique experience. |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now. Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Originally posted by ziffhasnoaim/password Did it involve two sweaty eunuchs and a leopard and lots of hot oil? Because that's how it happened to me... |
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Kyoufu Kawa Intends to keep Rom Hacking in one piece until the end Since: 11-18-05 From: Catgirl Central Station Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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I remember Tuvai blurting out that the first time he did it, he had to go and ask his mom which hole he was supposed to go for.
Fool. |
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