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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76  Posts: 2820/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| Please! Okay, I haven't wrote any type of thread in here about a guy in awhile but I think I really do need to do something about it now. Well this guy has been my neighbor for who knows how long, ever since I moved here which was years ago when I was like 7. You'd think we'd be good friends or something but I've never said a word to him because I thought he looked way too good for me and whatever else or I thought he was conceited but then I put more thought into it and some people thought some of my good friends were conceited but they are really good people. But anyways, with this guy I want to talk to him because I think he at least has some interest in me since he actually takes time to check me out or whatever and I was like "OMG, he looked at me!!" So now I've been thinking a lot about him and how to approach him since I don't think he does because when I am outside my dads there or someone from my family. I just want to know what type of things I should say or whatever that would make him want to get to know me more or make me seem interesting. What type of things do guys like to hear?  Should I talk to him about his car and then go on to something else? I know he's athletic but not sure if he likes cars. I think he just got a new car too and I like cars so yeah.. I'll probably start with the car thing but then I want him to want to get to know me more and I just wondered of what I mentioned already. |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143  Posts: 12323/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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| Well, I´m not good at this but I´ll do my best. Maybe you could arrange a little "accident". Maybe he´d come to help you pick up your stuff or whatever you thought of. After saying "Thanks for helping me with mu stuff" you could give him a little wink with one of your eyes. I don´t know, that´s just a suggestion. Maybe you two could do something together, like bowling or go to the cinema. Or maybe that´d be to rush it. As for what I like to hear, I´ll give some examples. I like when girls tells me that I´m very nice. I´ve not had many girls saying that I was cute but that´d be appreciated too. Also, if you like some sports, you could always start talking about that. Good luck, cutie.  |
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HighSorceressDelial Buzzy Beetle DDR FREAK Slayer of Beasts Savior of Worlds Eater of Napkins Level: 31  Posts: 377/380 EXP: 181041 For next: 4322 Since: 03-15-04 From: Shimmering Waters Of Avden Since last post: 9 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| If you start talking about his car he's going to think that you're interested in that and his posessions and not him. And talking about things you think he wants to hear isn't any better. You can't just go up to a guy and start talking about cars and sports, because chances are the guy is going to find that kind of odd. It's not about what they want to hear, is just about talking to them and getting to know them, and also letting them get to know you. And Ran-chan...she's not in 6th grade =P she doesn't need to arrange an "accident" she just needs to say hi and wave the next time she sees him. You'd be amazed at what that can accomplish if you keep it up because that lets him know that she's willing and interested in talking with him, and eventually conversation will follow after that. ~Delial (edited by HighSorceressDelial on 10-15-05 02:09 PM) |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143 Posts: 12328/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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| Hey, I didn´t say she was in 6th grade. I realized that it wasn´t the greatest of ideas. That´s why I told her to ask him he wants to bowl with her or something like that. |
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Danielle Local Moderator  Level: 76  Posts: 3028/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| If you're too shy to even introduce yourself, how will you be able to date him, if such an opportunity presents itself? Just go for it. Be yourself. If he doesn't like that, then it wasn't meant to be. I agree with Delial here, don't say what he wants to hear just to get him to like you. He'll like a fake scripted you, what's the point? | |||
MathOnNapkins Math n' Hacks Level: 67  Posts: 2174/2189 EXP: 2495887 For next: 96985 Since: 03-18-04 From: Base Tourian Since last post: 1 hour Last activity: 32 min. |
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| Myself, acting interested will get you farther than acting uninterested. Maybe i'm just a straightforward type of person. I mean, don't be a slut or anything [not that you would] b/c 1. some guys are really turned off by that... if you're like that around him, he thinks how are you around other guys? 2. if he turns out to be a dickwad he'll just try to use you. Next, you may not even turn out to like him. So be careful what you get yourself into. I'd test the waters by just chatting with him a few times. What about? Just shoot the breeze. If your casual conversation doesn't interest him, you'll be able to tell. I mean there's a billion things to talk about, but it sounds like you don't know him very well, even though he's been your neighbor for seven years. Isn't it kind of awkward trying to get to know someone you've seen for so long but never bothered talking to much? I'd suggest just chilling outside or with some friends outside and if you see him say hi to him. Most guys if they've got any brains will come over and see what the fuss is about, or just to be neighborly. |
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Snika Boo Level: 44  Posts: 837/916 EXP: 600678 For next: 10607 Since: 07-21-04 From: Freezing Cold Alaska! Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| Start throwing stuff like rakes, sprinklers, and other garden stuff over his fence when he is outside. Make it look like you've accidentally dropped it or something, then walk over to pick up your rake/sprinkler. I bet it'll start a conversation about how the heck you managed to throw a sprinkler over the fence. If a girl took time out of her day to throw her sprinkler over my fence, I'd know she was the one. |
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Wurl 4.0 Level: 18  Posts: 225/244 EXP: 27558 For next: 2339 Since: 09-11-05 From: Illinois: Land of Eternal Desert Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 10 hours |
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Originally posted by Snika Heh, Alaskans don't have sprinklers....or rakes. Let that burn cool off. Oh wait, you don't have to! You're in Alaska! But yes, I too have a fetish for girls throwing lawn products into my yard. |
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Snika Boo Level: 44 Posts: 844/916 EXP: 600678 For next: 10607 Since: 07-21-04 From: Freezing Cold Alaska! Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| Haha, we have sprinklers and rakes in the summer time. I didn't exactly mean for it to seem like a fetish, but merely a conversation starter... With sprinklers and rakes. |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 2849/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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I was thinking about asking my friend to ask his little brother if he's single but I haven't had the chance to yet  or to even talk to him because he's barely home  or come homes too late..so by the time he gets home it's dark and no time for a walk around the block.He lives 2-3 houses down so throwing stuff in his yard ain't gonna work . I wouldn't be able to throw heavy things that far =P. I could introduce myself and everything and say hi to him a few times (if I ever see him). I know that there's a chance I might not like him and I'm prepared for that. I think I'm making too many assumptions about him without knowing him, and that's bad. It's messing up my confidence . |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143 Posts: 12403/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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| Barely home? What´s he doing? School? "I know that there's a chance I might not like him and I'm prepared for that. I think I'm making too many assumptions about him without knowing him, and that's bad. It's messing up my confidence." Yeah, you can´t know how he is without even talking to him. |
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Snika Boo Level: 44 Posts: 847/916 EXP: 600678 For next: 10607 Since: 07-21-04 From: Freezing Cold Alaska! Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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Originally posted by Bella Oh... The heavy object idea was golden. Darn. Anyways, I encourage you to go up and talk to him if you ever see him home at a decent time. Go for it! I know its easier said than done (I've been in your boat), but good things don't stay in one place for long. |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 2853/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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I'm pretty sure he has to work his bootay off for his new car he just got and I'm pretty sure he goes to school too. So, I don't mind that he isn't home on time because you gots to do what you gots to do to get things done.  He got home at dark again today .And no more assumptions! I'll just pretend I don't know some things my friend told me . Supposedly, she said that he flirted with her to get his girlfriend at that time, jealous. But then again, that was high school and this is his second year out of there. |
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Cruel Justice XD Level: 55  Posts: 1324/1384 EXP: 1253266 For next: 60923 Since: 03-20-04 From: Darkwoods Penetentiary Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 7 hours |
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| It would be kinda difficult to get an older guy. He can get pulled away by a lot of girls in his school. I think it's nice to get comments so observe his best features. Give him a pat on the back or something, it's very pleasent. Don't talk too much, or you'll put him to sleep. If he takes interest in your conversation, end it with a hug. | |||
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 2864/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| Yeah, don't know about the hug thing..I don't usally do that. I'd do it after a few times of talking to him. Well, I think he's a year older than me so about 19 almost 20 so it isn't that bad. . Of course, about the girls getting at him at school because he looks damn good. When I told my friend she knew who he was and said he was "hella fine" so yeah he's very much so wanted by plenty of girls..probably. I sometimes think I don't know if I'd be good enough compared to the other girls but I shouldn't think that way..I know it'll just put me down in the end. That's why I never really went for any guy. I thought the competition was much better than me. |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143 Posts: 12437/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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| Hey, of course you´d be good enough compared to the other girls. Why did you think that you wouldn´t? But if he´s wanted by so many girls, the chance aren´t that big that you get him. Just don´t try too hard as you´d get more sad if you did. |
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Thayer Fuzz Ball Level: 38  Posts: 920/988 EXP: 349428 For next: 21019 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
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Well, you could always just go for it. But really, figure out something, because I feel like I'm reading a stalker's notes when I look at your posts about him.  |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 2868/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| Well, most of what I mentioned was done through many years of living on the same street as him and what I found out from other people. About him working a lot, is what I assume since he has to pay for his new Mustang. I know he's hardworking..well you have to be to be able to afford that kind of car and be in school. So, I'm not a stalker just good with resources and finding out some dish. And about there being a lot of girls, well I could be the unique one out of them so nobody really knows  |
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Thayer Fuzz Ball Level: 38 Posts: 927/988 EXP: 349428 For next: 21019 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
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| Wait, so how long have you been interested in him? |
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Crim~ Blue Octorok Level: 10  Posts: 41/46 EXP: 4146 For next: 268 Since: 05-09-05 From: The Wild Wild West, Los Angeles Since last post: 6 days Last activity: 2 days |
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Originally posted by SnikaThat's retarded. Why not be straight foward, tell him you're slightly curious and interested about him, and you would like to get to know him? |
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