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Shane -26-

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Posted on 10-11-05 03:38 AM Link
How do you ask your girlfriend that you want to take things to 'the next level' if you know what I mean. I have never tried to ask my past girlfriends but I feel I am ready to ask now but I just don't know how to.
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Posted on 10-11-05 05:01 AM Link
Next time you two have an intimate moment, just start approaching. I've found in my time that it's a lot more akward to actually ask. Start moving in and if she says no, there's your answer. If she asks what you're doing, then feel free to ask if she's ready to "go to the next level".

I can't help much as I don't know which level you mean. I'm assuming sex, but you never know...
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Posted on 10-11-05 05:21 AM Link
Yeah, take it how Vyper said. If you just asked it out of nowhere when you guys aren't in the moment would be ackward. Just take her "no" as "NO"..make sure you respect her wishes.
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Posted on 10-11-05 06:34 AM Link
You should go like, "Honey, it's time to feed the snake~".
She'll love it.
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Posted on 10-11-05 11:23 PM Link
That would be funny...

I'd laugh if I were her.

...And say no .

And wonder how he came up with it.

If he came up with something witty then she might like it though .
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Posted on 10-12-05 03:35 AM Link
Originally posted by knuck
You should go like, "Honey, it's time to feed the snake~".
She'll love it.


LMAO! That's great knuck. My boyfriend has already said he wants me in that way but I keep telling him too bad. Seeing as I told him- I think a few days or a week into the relationship- that I totally believe in marriage before sex and he respects that. So I keep to my word and so does he.

As for you sk26 just gingerly ask about that and don't push her otherwise you may never get to.
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Posted on 10-14-05 08:16 AM Link
hey bitch lets'a do some fukin!
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Posted on 10-14-05 08:30 AM Link
I suggest roofies.
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Posted on 10-14-05 11:47 PM Link
Originally posted by Aioria
hey bitch lets'a do some fukin!


Then she'd think that's all he wants but then again...

Roofies? What's that? Sounds like candy
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Posted on 10-15-05 01:40 AM Link
Please tell me that you've been with this girl for at least a week...
There's nothing worse than to start out what could be a long-term relationship almost entirely on sex. Make her think and feel like you never want to be that intimate and close with anyone else but her.

Take things very slowly!
Maybe one time when you're both madly kissing each other, you could gently put your hand on her breast or something. Take note of her reaction here, because if the feedback ain't good, nothing else will be.
If that goes good, then maybe (providing she gave you an erection,) you could chuckle something like "see what you did?" If she's ready, then that should be plenty to get started.

I dunno. I'm new to this stuff too, but once you start, it isn't hard to do the rest right
Hope I helped you out a little.
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Posted on 10-16-05 12:41 AM Link
Originally posted by Bella
That would be funny...

I'd laugh if I were her.

...And say no .

And wonder how he came up with it.

If he came up with something witty then she might like it though .
That's why dating is pointless. You have to kiss someone for 4 years or so before fucking. I mean, what's so good about kissing?

If there was a God, I'd thank him for giving me hands. <3
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Posted on 10-18-05 03:05 AM Link
Well thanks for the advice (I guess). Some of it was pretty bizzare. Vyper and Scatterheart gave some good advice, thanks. Knuck gave some ridiculous but funny advice. Thanks a lot everyone!
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Posted on 10-18-05 03:10 AM Link
So did you plant the seed?
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Posted on 10-19-05 06:14 PM Link
Originally posted by knuck
So did you plant the seed?

Not yet my friend I haven't tried yet anyway. She has been away for the past two weeks
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Posted on 10-19-05 08:53 PM Link
When you get to a moment where she is playful or if you're in a dark place with her close at your side, let her lean on you. If all goes well, give her a little kiss on top of her head. Ask her a question such as, "Have I been good to you?" "What are you afraid of?". Most girls say pain, loneliness, or death. Let her know that she can trust you and open your sensitive side. She'll become vulnerable enough to the point where you can do it. If it fails, allude your conversation to a playful topic, "You're so funny when you freak out like that!" and she'll probably cool down. Be careful though.
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Posted on 10-19-05 11:53 PM Link
Yeah, be careful how you say things because you could piss her off. Don't keep on asking her either. If she says "No" the first time then ask her at least a week or two later, not 2 days later. My friends boyfriend keeps on asking her but she feels she isn't ready yet. Especially if the girl is a virgin she'll need more time to think about it and prepare herself.
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Posted on 10-20-05 09:26 AM Link
Here's a thought incidentally, if you have to ask on a board that's geared towards gaming how you should do this, I don't think you're really ready for taking it to the next level.
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Posted on 10-20-05 02:31 PM Link
Originally posted by Thayer
Here's a thought incidentally, if you have to ask on a board that's geared towards gaming how you should do this, I don't think you're really ready for taking it to the next level.

What the hell are you talking about! The board was created by a hacker but that dosen't mean its geared towards gaming only. Gaming and hacking are only a small section of the board.
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Posted on 10-20-05 05:46 PM Link
Okay, then, if you have to ask a message board in general, then I don't think you're really ready for taking it to the next level.

Incidentally, gaming and hacking forums take up approximately 33% of the obvious, public forums on this board. I think it'd be hard to consider those to be a small part of this board, why do you think the rank sets are based on games and not anything else?


(edited by Thayer on 10-20-05 08:52 AM)
(edited by Thayer on 10-20-05 09:21 AM)
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Posted on 10-20-05 06:16 PM Link
Ok, Thayer, and I suppose you're an expert on this type of thing? I don't see anything wrong with asking for advice. Also, while you're at it, why don't you just petition to shut down the Officers' Club too! =o
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