 |
| Register | Login | |||||
 |
Main
| Memberlist
| Active users
| ACS
| Commons
| Calendar
| Online users Ranks | FAQ | Color Chart | Photo album | IRC Chat |
|
| | ||
|
| Register | Login | |||||
|
Main
| Memberlist
| Active users
| ACS
| Commons
| Calendar
| Online users Ranks | FAQ | Color Chart | Photo album | IRC Chat |
|
| | ||
| 0 user currently in Lost Section. |
| Acmlm's Board - I2 Archive - Lost Section - Dammit! |
 |  | Thread closed |
| Pages: 1 2 | Add to favorites | "RSS" Feed | Next newer thread | Next older thread |
| User | Post | ||
Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57  Posts: 1569/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
| ||
This is not right that I'm pissed at my boyfriend for getting into a fight to protect family. He has a broken rib and a ticket because of it. Now he tells me that it's his thrid misdemeanor in less than five years. So he might go to prison for two years if found guilty. I cannot handle that.  RIght now I'm just pissed off, not wanting to talk to him and not going to wait till he gets out of prison if he's found guilty. So I have no idea what to do now. :_; We just started dating and this happens. |
|||
Danielle Local Moderator  Level: 76  Posts: 2553/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
| ||
| Since when is fighting a jailworthy offense? And if so, 2 years? Unless he was on probation or something.. I don't see how that's possible. And if he was on probation and didn't tell you, maybe it's a sign that he's not all that great of a boyfriend. I don't know why you wouldn't talk to him, that's not going to solve anything. Talking to him about it would be wise, if you want a relationship at all with him. If your plans are to dump him because of this.. don't beat around the bush. Seriously.  |
|||
Thayer Fuzz Ball Level: 38  Posts: 819/988 EXP: 349428 For next: 21019 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
| ||
Didn't you just now get into a relationship with this guy, or am I totally misunderstanding the other thread?  |
|||
|
Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1570/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
| ||
| Yeah I just got into a relationship with him and he wasn't on probation. | |||
|
Thayer Fuzz Ball Level: 38 Posts: 820/988 EXP: 349428 For next: 21019 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
| ||
I'd investigate the situation further before making any judgements but already, the prognosis is not looking good.  |
|||
|
Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1571/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
| ||
| Well he swears on his grandma's grave that he's not going to go anywhere's as his lawyer can get him out of it. He's trying to reassure me that he's not going to go but things like this I always have a bad habit of looking on the bad side. | |||
Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76  Posts: 2478/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
| ||
It's better to stay with the good side though.. I have issues with the bad side too because then I'd expect it and won't be hit by it as hard . So it was a big fight to protect the family or just something small? It had to have been big if the cops got called and stuff. Is it that 3 strikes thing? I thought they got rid of that  |
|||
Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143  Posts: 11792/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
| ||
| His family got attacked by someone? It´d help to get to know what it is about but you don´t have to tell if you don´t want to. It´s his private life after all. I don´t see why he would go to prison because of this. I hope he´ll get out of this. And I don´t think you should dump him because of this. He did it for his family. |
|||
|
Thayer Fuzz Ball Level: 38 Posts: 829/988 EXP: 349428 For next: 21019 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
| ||
Originally posted by Trapster They're boyfriend and girlfriend (albeit not very recently), and this is a little too major to argue for privacy on. She has a right to know what's going on.  |
|||
|
Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143 Posts: 11797/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
| ||
| You don´t understand. I was asking about details of the problem. She knows what´s going on but she doesn´t have to tell me everything if she doesn´t want to. |
|||
|
Thayer Fuzz Ball Level: 38 Posts: 836/988 EXP: 349428 For next: 21019 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
| ||
Ah I thought you were saying that it's his private life that she doesn't need to know.  |
|||
Zer0wned Cheep-cheep Level: 17  Posts: 149/181 EXP: 21472 For next: 3271 Since: 08-16-05 From: Hermosa Beach, CA Since last post: 30 days Last activity: 30 days |
| ||
| "getting into a fight to protect family" That means shit was talked about his family, and he fought thusly. Only possible reason I could see him getting two years for is if he threw the first punch and did some serious damage, this qualifies as felony assault. Either that's the case or the plantiff is exaggerating. but this part: "his lawyer can get him out of it" Is REALLY discouraging. He can't say that what he did was legally justifiable, he says his lawyer can get him out of it. He's a scrapper with a temper, save yourself a lifetime of trouble and dump his ass. Now "jumped in to defend a family member" is completely different, but your wording fails to convey that that is what happened. |
|||
|
Thayer Fuzz Ball Level: 38 Posts: 837/988 EXP: 349428 For next: 21019 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
| ||
| See, Zer0wned has some points. Without much more information, I don't think any of us can give any advice that's really going to be helpful and what you've said so far seems to not be too sunny. | |||
|
Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 2481/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
| ||
| Yeah, we can't really say a whole lot with what little was told. We can just assume that someone was talking crap about his family and that he got into it with them. It must have been bad if he could go to jail for it. | |||
|
Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1572/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
| ||
| Ok his aunt's ex went over to her house and she called his cousin (Matt's) and his cousin came to get him. They were going to talk to the ex to get rid of him first before anything happened. Matt gave the guy the first three shots as he wasn't going to leave peacefully. As a result he got a broken rib before he fought back and broke the guy's arm. | |||
Cruel Justice XD Level: 55  Posts: 1278/1384 EXP: 1253266 For next: 60923 Since: 03-20-04 From: Darkwoods Penetentiary Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 7 hours |
| ||
| If it isn't your fault, you don't need to do jack-crap. _¬ If he really cares about you and your concerns he'll wise up. Otherwise, get rid of him and find someone else. |
|||
|
Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1574/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
| ||
| Matt has sworn off fighting from now on. Now I'm just praying he gets probation instead of jail time. Otherwise I told him flat out I'm leaving if he gets two years instead of probation. | |||
|
Zer0wned Cheep-cheep Level: 17 Posts: 153/181 EXP: 21472 For next: 3271 Since: 08-16-05 From: Hermosa Beach, CA Since last post: 30 days Last activity: 30 days |
| ||
| Waaaiit wait wait wait. If this is the case, he shouldn't get jailed, let alone probation. This is self defense. (unless it was verbally antagonized, then eh... that changes things a lot) "The general criminal law allows for the use of necessary and proportionate, non-deadly force in self-defense anytime the victim reasonably believes that unlawful force is about to be used on him." The ex committed assault, which is unlawful force, he had more than reasonable belief that he was going to be attacked, he in fact WAS attacked, and fought back to defend himself. Read more here This is mainly regarding Pennsylvania law, but most of these statements hold true for most of the U.S. No person (especially an american citizen "life, liberty and the persuit of happiness", protecting life, right?), regardless of a few past minor mistakes (major laws make it subject to belief systems), should be denied his right to protect his own well being, make absolutely sure that you convey this to him and his lawyer |
|||
|
Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1576/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
| ||
| Well he talked to the lawyer and defense attorny today and his case looks good. Seeing as he'll be getting two and a half months probation out of it all. | |||
|
Danielle Local Moderator Level: 76 Posts: 2585/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
| ||
| Yeah, he was seriously exaggerating when he said he'd go to jail for that. |
| Pages: 1 2 | Add to favorites | "RSS" Feed | Next newer thread | Next older thread |
| Acmlm's Board - I2 Archive - Lost Section - Dammit! |
| | Thread closed |
