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Bella

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Posted on 09-07-05 01:25 AM Link | Quote
I agree, change your information get a restraining order. That is just freaky..I really don't see the sweetness in that. That's a little too much for me so I think that's too much for you.
Jovis

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Posted on 09-07-05 01:38 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Trapster
Originally posted by Jovis
I just fear most of all losing a large chunk of my friends because of it.




How would you lose friends because of this? Can´t they help you in some way?

"Also, he made my friends in Florida dislike me so whenever I flew down there, I'd be stuck at his house the entire time. I rarely got to see anyone because apparently they all disliked me."

That alone would make me hate the person. A person that made your friends dislike you doesn´t deserve to be with you.

And you don´t want to be with him either. I don´t know what there is to do either. You seem to have tried everything.




Well, the problem is he is mutual friends with a lot of my other friends. They all love him and I am afraid since he easily turned 2 of my best friends down there against me before, he can do it easily with everyone else.

knuck;
*I* didn't give him my information. He got it from my OTHER friends because he's been 'in love with me' for months before I even knew he existed :/
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Posted on 09-07-05 01:47 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Jovis
They all love him and I am afraid since he easily turned 2 of my best friends down there against me before, he can do it easily with everyone else.
You should think about who are your real friends.
Well I've tried to help, it's up to you now~
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Posted on 09-07-05 01:47 AM Link | Quote
Did they know he was like THIS? If so;

I'd like to shake the hand of the geniuses who decided to share your contact info with this guy.

Originally posted by Thayer
His ignoring your desire for privacy is a threatening action. Restraining orders are not just for personal protection from physically abusive individuals. They're also to prevent harassment, and the pattern of behavior that you have described is harassment, Katt.

Getting a Harassment Restraining Order

You should really re-read what you have written here in your first post, and then check out that site.


"Repeated, intrusive, or unwanted acts, words, or gestures that are intended to adversely affect your safety, security, or privacy, regardless of the relationship between you and the alleged harasser"


(edited by Crim~ on 09-06-05 04:50 PM)
(edited by Crim~ on 09-06-05 04:51 PM)
(edited by Crim~ on 09-06-05 04:53 PM)
Bella

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Posted on 09-07-05 01:49 AM Link | Quote
In love with you for this long? He must really, really be obsessed with you. Especially with how you tell him to not be so close to you and that it makes you uncomfortable when he kisses you. Yeah, the your friends you really need to think about who really is your friend. They must have been really good friends with him and to give your information out? What kind of friend would do that? Did they ask or tell you about it?
Thayer

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Posted on 09-07-05 01:52 AM Link | Quote
When it's at the point that even knuck is suggesting a restraining order, I think it's gone definitely TOO FAR.


(edited by Thayer on 09-06-05 04:54 PM)
Danielle

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Posted on 09-07-05 02:31 AM Link | Quote
Fist off Jovis, I'll close and trash this thread whenever you feel it's been here long enough.. if you're still worried about him finding it. Just PM me or say so in here.

That's definitely obsessive.. I wouldn't put up with it if I were you. Tell him to butt out of your life so much, you're not "his" and if a regular friendship can't satisfy him, then he'll have to suffer. It's painfully clear you don't want anything more with him, he's just.. well obsessed.
It's a good thing you live in NY and he lives in FL.. otherwise things could be much worse for you.
I'd say to get a new lj, a separate sn (but use your current one sometimes if you feel like chatting) and watch what you say to him. Nothing that will bait him or make him freak out. You're allowed to have friends, he should know this.
I don't think he "loves" you. He's infatuated and obsessed with a cute girl with common interests, and doesn't want to let go. I'm sure he's a nice friend.. but he can't take a hint that you want to leave it at that.
If you go to Florida again, find a different place to stay. Don't give him a chance to act weird like that.. it's creepy.


(edited by Danielle on 09-06-05 05:36 PM)
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Posted on 09-07-05 02:35 AM Link | Quote
I didn't think about the restraining order really, until just this morning. Its probably a wise idea to at least look into it.

and i'm going to agree with knuck on this one, if he so easily turned two good friends against you... then they probably weren't the greatest friends to begin with.

*hugs*
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Posted on 09-07-05 02:57 AM Link | Quote
Thank you. I'm going to look into this restraining order thing now because after me repeatdly asking him to leave me alone and give me my privacy online, he hasn't obliged.

I have also spoken with one of the friends that this guy dragged into this and he informed me that the friends I was worried about losing have ALL been informed of this and were waiting for me to say something. With the relief of not losing my friends, I think I can handle this situation.

Funny what a couple of emails can do in such a weird time. Thanks for the advice everyone. I'm going to go read up on the link Thayer posted and see what I can get done.
Bella

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Posted on 09-07-05 03:11 AM Link | Quote
well Im glad that your friends are behind you on this one. At lest look up info about the restraining order to see if it fits and so far..that's what everyone suggested. You really do need privacy..even online..it sucks having someone always question you about it..someone kind of does that to me and it's irritating..anyways. Hope all will turn out well
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Posted on 09-07-05 07:01 AM Link | Quote
Knuck surprises me at what he said. So reading up on the restraining order and getting one is a must. Well at least none of your friends, except those two, will turn on you now after talking to them.
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Posted on 09-07-05 07:18 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Dark Vampriel
*knuck surprises me at what he said. So reading up on the restraining order and getting one is a must. Well at least none of your friends, except those two, will turn on you now after talking to them.


Well, don't forget, there's all of us too. ;D
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Posted on 09-07-05 07:40 AM Link | Quote
Yeah but it's kind of unusual to hear that from knuck though.
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Posted on 09-07-05 07:46 AM Link | Quote
Why, you think knuck isn't an intelligent guy or something?
Or is it you just don't know him at all?

It's good that you've talked to your friends and settled most of that out, Jovis. They can help you the most.
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Posted on 09-07-05 08:06 AM Link | Quote
I think it might be that she's surprised to hear knuck suggesting a restraining order, Danielle.
knuck

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Posted on 09-07-05 08:26 AM Link | Quote
It's just that I'm an ass 99% of the time here, wich obviously means I DO NOT CARE ABOUT MY FRIENDS. srsly =(
Thayer

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Posted on 09-07-05 08:33 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by knuck
It's just that I'm an ass 99% of the time here, wich obviously means I DO NOT CARE ABOUT MY FRIENDS. srsly =(


O rite, I forgot. For a moment, I thought that knuck was an unfeeling monster with no emotions who simply lives to say penis and awesome. =o!
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Posted on 09-07-05 08:37 AM Link | Quote
knuck is a gentleman underneath the Iron Maiden shirt and girl hairstyle.

..and in between fapping.
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Posted on 09-07-05 08:37 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by knuck
It's just that I'm an ass 99% of the time here, wich obviously means I DO NOT CARE ABOUT MY FRIENDS. srsly =(

YOU'LL SUCK ME OFF IF YOU TRULY LOVE ME.

anyways katt, hope it goes well i reckon.


(edited by mcw on 09-06-05 11:38 PM)
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Posted on 09-07-05 08:41 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Danielle
knuck is a gentleman underneath the Iron Maiden shirt and girl hairstyle.

..and in between fapping.


Just because he only likes underage girls doesn't mean he doesn't have respect for women!
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