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If you could have one but NOT the other, would you rather....
Love someone
 
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Be loved by someone
 
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Posted on 07-27-05 03:29 PM Link | Quote
The question speaks for itself really.

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Posted on 07-27-05 04:42 PM Link | Quote
Awwwww, I don't like to take extremes I am a romantic pragmatist. But to be loved is...Gah...To love. I don't know.

To love, I suppose, because someone knows that they are loved and you know that you can feel love.
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Posted on 07-27-05 05:23 PM Link | Quote
Better that others feel the pain, surely.

Sure, I'm a bit of a romantic, but I'm also a somewhat jilted cynic. Love's important, it can be great, but it FUCKING HURTS, too.


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Posted on 07-27-05 06:07 PM Link | Quote
Hard, but I'd say to be loved. Although, I wouldn't want to be in love with someone without them sharing the same feeling.

Good thing I don't have to worry about that right now.
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Posted on 07-27-05 06:39 PM Link | Quote
Well, I love somebody but am not loved by them.... it fucken sucks.

I voted the second option out of sheer.... crankiness.
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Posted on 07-28-05 01:56 AM Link | Quote
Id rather have someone love me.

If they get past the strange personality and still love me, it just makes me feel wanted, which is all I really want.

Then again, if its one of those creepy, annoying types of love
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Posted on 07-28-05 02:08 AM Link | Quote
To be loved. Knowing someone loves you and genuinly cares about you is a wonderful feeling.
But I think they are hand in hand.. *most* of the time love is returned.
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Posted on 07-28-05 02:12 AM Link | Quote
Going from my current situation, I'm going to say loving someone else.


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Posted on 07-28-05 02:40 AM Link | Quote
I would love it so much for someone else to love me, but I am incrediblt happy loving someone else. I couldn't imagine life without loving a certain person.

I chose loving someone else.
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Posted on 07-28-05 07:34 AM Link | Quote
I'd rather love someone than be loved by someone.
I mean, unless it was like a... Umm...
What's the word... Like you both agree that you love eachother.

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Posted on 07-28-05 07:35 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by alte Hexe
Awwwww, I don't like to take extremes I am a romantic pragmatist. But to be loved is...Gah...To love. I don't know.

To love, I suppose, because someone knows that they are loved and you know that you can feel love.


You should see me. Ah! My Goddess made me tear and almost cry.

I'd say ... from my persona' To Be Loved, or "knowing". I just think that feeling would be great. Then again I'd love to love someone also ... just waiting for that time.
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Posted on 07-28-05 01:17 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Danielle
*most* of the time love is returned.


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Posted on 07-28-05 01:27 PM Link | Quote
Being loved.. it sounds much more appealing than loving with nothing in return. Eh.
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Posted on 07-28-05 01:30 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Xeolord
Originally posted by alte Hexe
Awwwww, I don't like to take extremes I am a romantic pragmatist. But to be loved is...Gah...To love. I don't know.

To love, I suppose, because someone knows that they are loved and you know that you can feel love.


You should see me. Ah! My Goddess made me tear and almost cry.

I'd say ... from my persona' To Be Loved, or "knowing". I just think that feeling would be great. Then again I'd love to love someone also ... just waiting for that time.


Fox and the Hound...You wanna see a big man cry, that's the movie to do it.

Or maybe, like...I don't know...Life is Beauitful. That movie makes me tear up like a mother.
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Posted on 07-28-05 10:23 PM Link | Quote
Being loved by someone else... before Julie, that was very hard to come by.
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Posted on 07-28-05 10:29 PM Link | Quote
I'd choose "Being Loved by Someone Else" as well. If that were the situation, then it would be your own choice to decided whether you wanted to pursue a releationship with them or not As well, I'm more of a person that would rather have someone love me, and let me know about it, then loving someone and having to figure out some way to tell them

If you were to go the other way, and love someone when they didn't necessarily love you back, as Tarale posted, it would suck. Not to say that's what would happen, but if it did, it would be pretty hard on you
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Posted on 07-29-05 03:48 AM Link | Quote
Because I'm noble and nice and self sacrificing. I'd rather love someone and go through the pain myself rather than have someone love me and go through pain because I didn't return it.

Yeah... seriously... I'm that nice.
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Posted on 07-29-05 09:18 AM Link | Quote
There's nothing more annoying than someone who likes you and the feeling isn't mutual - and they can't take a hint. I'd rather love someone b/c then at least I can fantasize and dream. In the other case they won't leave me alone unless I tell the girl to fuck off (which I'm much too nice to doo ).
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Originally posted by MathOnNapkins
There's nothing more annoying than someone who likes you and the feeling isn't mutual - and they can't take a hint. I'd rather love someone b/c then at least I can fantasize and dream. In the other case they won't leave me alone unless I tell the girl to fuck off (which I'm much too nice to doo ).


Even though your post is short and sweet, that really is a good point.

I might have a change of opinion on this.

I don't know, right now in my life I think I'd still rather "Be Loved", just because I've had this level of loneliness in me for quite some time, I'm just waiting for someone to hopefully fill that gap.
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Posted on 07-29-05 11:38 AM Link | Quote
Hmm..that is a hard question..umm..I don't know because I am loved someone by now, still..I think but they want that feeling in return but it's hard to give when you don't feel it towards that person or if that person did something that can't be changed. So in my situation I guess to love someone? Someone loving you is a great feeling but I feel bad for not returning the feelings but I don't think those feelings will always be the same if he finds someone else to love..
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