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Danielle Local Moderator  Level: 76  Posts: 2082/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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Originally posted by Dark Vampriel You're rreeeeeaaally stretching this. He moved and didn't think to tell everyone, no big deal. If anything, you could use this as a reason the dating thing didn't work. He knew he was moving. Respect that maybe he wants a break from old friends because he'll probably have a hard time readjusting. I REALLY doubt that the only reason he moved was to get away from you. Just let it sit for a while, and then maybe you can ask your friends how he's doing and all that. I think the worst thing you can do here is generalize and talk of him how you are. He's allowed to make his own choices, and as his friend you just need to go along with it. |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76  Posts: 2020/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| Well, for now until he comes to his senses just leave it. I don't think he moved away from you on purpose. He must have had some other reason to do it. Maybe he was forced to? Let everything settle and get a hold of him later on. | |||
Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57  Posts: 1479/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Well Matt Ball is dead to me, the bastard. So I won't be calling him up ever again. And Danielle we weren't even dating like I kind of wanted to. So yeah he toyed with me and I don't appreaciate that. I guess that all what went on last night caught up to me so I felt nauseated and felt like I didn't get an ounce of sleep. Seeing as I was hyper when my friend kept texting messaging him and telling me what she said and what he said back. Scatterheart: I would have been like  if she punched him for still acting this way towards her. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 283/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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Made me happy! She'd always been too nice to him. He'd complain when she got home late after spending time with me. Once, I was speaking to him on MSN, and said -"Why did you stress her out that much that last?" -"She needed to be taught a lesson." She doesn't need that shit. All he wants her to do for him is be his freaking mother. Then he uses her dad and brother as an excuse, saying they need your help too. If anything, it should be her dad cooking, cleaning etc... I miss her terribly. I saw her yesterday, and she was pretty sick. Her being with me still made her happy though. Again, she stayed longer than she planned, but as long as she's happy, right?  We kissed yesterday even though she hesitated at first, as she didn't want me to catch what she has. I didn't and still don't care if I get sick. I wish I was living with her or something. I'd do everything for her! Give her the break she so desperately needs. |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 2052/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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Well just help her out as much as you can and go see her, keep her company  .Good DV, you don't need to take that kinda crap from him. Let it go and move on. So he was being a bastard to you even through text messages? |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1482/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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Originally posted by Bella I don't have a cell phone but my friend who lives in Georgia does and was saying insults to him over text messages on my be half though. MD's mom called MB's Step-mom and I found out that way that MB didn't move at all. So yeah MB's dead to me now. IF I ever do see his face around town again all Hell will break loose. Scatterheart: Ok wtf? Her ex is being a chump big time. Seeing as NO ONE needs stress or lots of stress. I (MD= Matt Davis and MB= Matt Ball) |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 285/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| Yeah. This idiot's leaving on monday. I can't wait! Shitty thing is though, is he's kinda keeping Jayde to do "goodbye" shit with her. Family dinners, etc... I won't be able to see her today, either, as she's still sick. Tomorrow, I hope I see her. Even going two days without seeing her is freak'n hard!  When he's gone, I'm going to buy Jayde a new sim-card for her mobile (cell) phone, so that way, he wouldn't know her number. I'll ask her to block and delete him from her MSN and E-Mail accounts, so that way, she never has to hear from him again...and either do I. The dick is so obsessed, that he said he's going to visit every two months to see Jayde. I mean, think of going from one side of the US, to the other. It's like that.  He even wants her to visit him sometime. There's no fucking way she's going.  He seems to think that when he finally goes to the other side of Australia, and he finds someone new, that they seriously won't have a problem with him being "close friends (as he put it)" with Jayde. No one, NO ONE!!! Feels comfortable knowing their partner is still in contact with their ex. It's not that I don't trust Jayde, not that at all! I'm just sick of him harrassing Jayde all the freak'n time! He likes to think of himself as the priority, and it just infuriates me. If only I lived with Jayde, and one day when he'd show up, I'd give him the biggest ass-wholloping of his life! *Dreams happily of beating this ugly ass to a bloody pulp*  |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1483/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Yeah you go man! Setting Jayde up with a new number after he leaves. I hope that after he leaves she'll feel a hell of a lot better. Personally I would have gotten rid of him long ago and if kept bugging me my friends would tell him off on my be half. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 286/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| Ugh! This is so freaking hard! I havn't seen Jayde for two whole days now. I just finished talking to her on the phone, and it really sux, because she doesn't say everything that's on her mind because of him. She's too considerate of his feelings. It's really starting to hurt. I mean, she wouldn't even say "I love you" to me on the phone because he was there. Should I send her an E-mail saying that it hurt me? Tell it to her in person? Or just suck it up? Man, I feel like shit! I just wish everything would be perfect! It's over with him, why can't he fuck off and leave us alone? Why can't she kick him out now? Why the fuck doesn't he sleep on the couch instead of in the same fucking bed as her! Okay, so they don't do anything, but still! |
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Danielle Local Moderator Level: 76 Posts: 2118/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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...He still sleeps in bed with her?  And she's afraid to commit to you in front of him.. I don't see that as a good song. You should tell her how you feel, tell her it bothers you, and you don't want them.. sleeping together.. even if "they don't do anything." That's just not something you do with an ex. She should know better, of course it would bother you.I don't know how you put up with it to begin with.. I couldn't do that. I'd go nuts thinking about the ex. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 287/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| Now you know how I feel. He used to force himself onto her... Even with her and his first time, she didn't want to have sex with him. He never takes "no" for an answer. But I trust Jayde to kick his ass if he tries. I wasn't sure if I should tell her or not, as he's leaving on Monday. Should I just wait and put up with it for the little time it is? I've been with Jayde for 3 and a half weeks now. I don't really go too nutts over the fact that he sleeps in the same bed with her anymore, but the fact he likes to control her - tell her what she can and can't do. Last night, Jayde was sending me her photo on MSN, and he got all angry at her, because it was 20 minutes past her freaking bedtime. Tonight, our conversation over the phone had to end because last night he said "you'll have to make up for it by going to bed 20 minutes earlier." Whenever Jayde and I meet up, we enjoy our time greatly, and usually over-run her estimated time home. He gets angry at her for doing this. I'm thinking about not telling her how I feel about how he's controlling her, as I don't want to jeperdise our relationship. Tomorrow, I might suprise her by asking her to sleep over at my house for the night... Do something "naughty" for once. I'm not talking about sexual, either. I just want her to do what she feels like, and to not consider the people who really aren't important at all in her life at the moment. She's stayed over my house once before. We were (as usual) enjoying our time together, and her ex decided it wasn't right, and he walked over to my place, carrying a knife. My brother had my cell phone, so he got all of the threatening messages he was sending, and went out there to send him on his way. Jayde felt really depressed (as always when this sort of stuff happens), and wanted to go for a drive. I asked if I could go with her. We went out to the car, and as soon as she got in, she cried her eyes out. She wanted to see her best friend, so I messaged her so we could arrange a meeting place. Her best friend reccomended that she'd stay at my house for the night, but tell her ex that she was sleeping at her best friend's. We had alot of fun that night and the next morning. That night, we held each other, watched tv, and just had an all-around good time without any interuptions. The next day was also really great! We went to the beach, and walked for a while. It was really nice. But I'm over being threatened by him. I just want to spend time with the person I love.  |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1487/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Dude, she can have him under a restraining order because of the stalking shit he's doing to her. Even though he lives at her house it's not his fucking problem what she does. Also sleeping in the same bed?! Too bad I don't live where you two do otherwise I'd tell him off for Jayde. If he starts threatening me... boy he wished he wouldn't have done that because all of my friends got my back. I think you should tell Jayde how he makes you feel but in a calm tone. Ya know what? I'll do one better for ya just give me his MSN s/n and I'll talk to the bastard. |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 2085/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| So he live with her? I don't know why..maybe I should read earlier on this topic but..he shouldn't be doing this to her. He has no business doing this and controling her. Does he still have feelings for her or is like a brotherly, sisterly kind of thing? Somebody needs to tell the guy off. | |||
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Danielle Local Moderator Level: 76 Posts: 2122/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| He's leaving Monday, how? As in moving out? That doesn't mean he can't still threaten you.. yeesh. However, I do think you should be honest with her. If you think telling her how you feel will ruin your relationship.. maybe you should work on that. I like to believe two people in love can be completely honest with each other and it will be okay (for almost all cases. I know there are exceptions). She should trust you as much as you trust her, and know you're not trying to break it off or anything, you're just concerned for her. Which you are. But Monday isn't that far, so if you'd rather not say anything.. I guess it makes a little sense. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 288/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| We just finished talking on the phone. I told her all of my problems, and she was glad I did. Her ex is moving to the other side of Australia, but he plans on visiting every two months. I think I'm going to have to put up with the fact that he's always going to be there, as much as I want to FUCKING KILL HIM! He doesn't deserve Jayde's friendship, with all the bad things he's done to her. He's only now buying her gifts and cleaning up, as he's trying to win her back. It's not happening though. I just wish Jayde would tell him to get over her. He only wants to be her friend because he's linguring onto the thought that him and Jayde will get back together down the track. The way he's going - he's never going to have another girlfriend again. And that's a bad thing, because he'll still bug Jayde. Who here would seriously trust a guy who flies halfway accross the country every two months to see their ex? I'm not worried that they'll have sex or anything, but it just pisses me off that he's not letting go! I don't know if Jayde really wants to be his friend or not. I hate having to share Jayde with that fucker. I mean, common! He actually came to my house, carrying knives!! He wanted to fucking kill me! I'm definately going to bring that up when I see Jayde tomorrow. This guy actually wants to go to Jayde's wedding!  He claims he wants to be her friend, to support her and shit. The dickhead is still jealous as shit! He wants to be 'only friends' with Jayde, but can't get used to the fact that Jayde is seeing someone else. How's that for 'just friends' huh? I really have to talk to Jayde about this tomorrow. It's tearing me apart inside. I want him out of our lives for good! |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76 Posts: 2116/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| Yes, if you really want him out of your guys' life then you should speak to her about this. She's the only one that can really tell him to leave you two alone. I'm sure he won't listen to anyone else. He does need to move far away from you guys. Maybe then he can actually try to start over. If he flys back every 2 months to see her then he is obviously trying to pull of something to get back with her. | |||
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1491/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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Like I said let me talk to Jayde's ex and I'll reason with him. One way or another. Like he really could threaten me.  Also he's just wasting money flying back every two months which the money can be put ot better use elsewhere. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 289/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| No prob! I'll give you his MSN address on Monday, when he won't bug Jayde. Today was pretty damn schweet! I met her at her workplace, and kissed in her car for about 90 minutes. She messaged her ex saying she's with me, and will be another hour. We went inside, and... *Cough* I'll tell you more soon. Talking about the 'ex' problems here. Okay, so we were having fun, and we ended up an hour later than she planned. He sends her a text message saying crap like "So my last day here is worth nothing to you?" and all this shit. Then he sends another suicidal one, saying he'll give her clues on where he's going. FUCKING CLUES!!! He said some shit like "Many goobyes, not many welcomes, careful not to trip". Jayde thought he was talking about a train station where some guy died. So yeah, she left looking for him. She's really pissed off at him now. You're probably thinking alot like me at the moment, and thinking "Why not just let the dickhead kill himself?" But it's Jayde. It'll definately leave her feeling responsible. Yep! He's blackmailing her. A couple of days ago she asked "what the fuck do you want from me?" He'll be gone in 48 hours. I hope he doesn't fucking do anything stupid to hurt Jayde. Okay! We were uhh... Being intimate with each other. I still kinda have that problem, but I know how to temporarily get rid of it. (That phychological erection problem.)What I'm going to do though, is not masturbate forever! I usually do it once a day, so yeah. We had fun though. It was pretty kewl. **EDIT** Holy crap! She broke up with me! ...Calm down. We're back together though. Let me explain. After Jayde picked up her ex from the train station, he told her that if she wasn't a girl, he'd hit her. He said that if ever she does that again, he'll send his "contacts" to slice me up. Jayde didn't want me to get hurt I think... I walked over there, and waited. I was planning on waiting all night. I needed to talk to her. She didn't give me a reason as to why it was all happening. So after 90 minutes, she drove up, and we talked about everything. I cried alot.  She now (and maybe always has) pretty much hates him, but is scared to fuck him off because of his psycho ways. Thank christ he's going soon! We're definately back together, and she never wanted to break up in the first place. She's just scared of what he'll do. I'm fine now though, and I hope she is too. (edited by Scatterheart on 09-03-05 11:12 AM) |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1493/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Holy shit that boy has some mental problems or just likes to plan deadly mind games with people. Also I'll be waiting to talk to the psycho. Tell Jayde, even though I don't really know her, that someone is willing to talk to her ex to snap him in shape. I'm not scared of him seeing as I don't even live in Australia. I still wouldn't be if I lived in the same continent as you two. Also it's good to know that she didn't break up with you for very long over him on what he'd do to you. Besides I think she'd get back together with you after her ex left anyways. |
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Danielle Local Moderator Level: 76 Posts: 2155/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| One thing I'm continually noticing in your posts is she's always late getting back. I understand that she has no obligation to go back to him, and you're just having a good time together, but you KNOW it makes this guy lose it. So just don't be late. I realize it's a little late now, as he'll be gone, but it's good advice for anything. Being late makes you look irresponsible, and although it's not right to assume, maybe he's worried that this girl he cares about is dating an irresponsible guy. I'm aware it's not his business, which still makes him wrong, but it may be a reason. So he's being a dramatic ass to try and dissuade her. Hopefully things will get better once he's gone. |
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