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Danielle Local Moderator  Level: 76  Posts: 1172/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| Didn't she give you a letter asking you to wait? Rushing her into another relationship is going to get you nowhere. She knows how you feel obviously, just give her time to come to you. I don't think a couple weeks is enough, or she would let you know. If she's not ready yet, and you try to make a move.. say goodbye to her going anywhere with you alone. | |||
Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 261/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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Hmm... I asked her recently about the letter, and she said that she'd written it while she was in a bad mood. Her boyfriend was the laziest ass in the whole world! He was uglier than me, too! (I hope, anyway) I'm not rushing her one bit, but my birthday party's coming up at around September 10th, and I think my friend likes her. I'd like to at least get some positive movement by then. I had a nightmare about two weeks ago, that at my party, I walked in on my friend and Jayde kissing in my room... I woke up devestated. Later that day, my friend told me he liked her.  I know his password for his MSN address, and early this morning, I decided to look at his hotmail inbox. there were no letters from Jayde, so that made me feel good!  I think she might like me...or be overly nice towards me. If I do get with her, it'd be my first serious relationship...and I'm 19 now - almost 20 (September 11th (what a day!)) and am still a virgin. She knows almost everything about me, as I do to her. This movie thing is definately happening, but I'm not sure what to do.!  One of my asshole friends (who I, nor either of my friends consider him as a "friend" anymore) told me to maybe drop something on the cinema floor, pick it up and just maybe smile or laugh while looking at her. I've always been mega-shy...but lately, I've been finding it easier to talk to her in person (during that car trip). Her ex boyfriend was an asshole! he only talked to her on MSN, even when he was in the same house as her!  I want to make her feel loved, and feel loved at the same time. I certainly hope that this is the one! I'm not scared of comittment! I'd love to keep the "romance" alive, by shocking/impressing her very often. I want to spoil her with everything she deserves! There aren't many girls that I feel I could do what I'm prepared to for her... I dunno. Many girls in Australia these days just seem slutty and dumb.  She's one of the rare good ones.  *EDIT* Wooooahhhh!!!  Today, she went to my friend's house, picked him up in her car, then came here and got me!!  We were walking in the bush, and my friend took off somewhere, so it was just me and her. We decided to head back to the car to see if he went there, but he didn't! We started talking and crap. It was cool! She'd ask something like "So how was your day?" I said "boring before" She asked "What about now?" !!!!On the way home, we were talking about her lazy ex boyfriend. It's cool! She touched me on the leg, too! When she pulled up outside of my house, i wanted to do something, but I was just too damn shy! I touched her on the shoulder and said "See ya on MSN! "But she asked for a hug! (I always say *hugs* on MSN 'n stuff!) God! It's so hard to hug someone in a car! I hit my head on the rear-view mirror. *has enjoyed today very muchly* *EDIT AGAIN* Can't wait 'till thursday! We're both going to the movies! It seems so far away though.  It'd be good being alone with her today. My friend (who came today, and has told me he likes her) did kinda talk to her abit, but I don't think she's all that interested in him. Oh yeah! When my friend came back from the bush, Jayde was saying something like "we decided to have a quickie"... I didn't think they'd be that quick! Didn't even notice it happening.  **EDIT AGAIN **So yesterday, her and I drove around for abit, and talked for a good 4 hours. She was being her usual overly nice self, and when I asked to kiss her, she said that she didn't want it to happen (the kiss), and then not go out with me. She said she was tempted... Said it later on into the night, too. Her reason for not being sure about me, is that "I'm a nice guy (I've heard that sooo many times ), but I just don't want to hurt you the way I got hurt." I told her that I'd rather feel love if it meant maybe heart-break down the track rather than not feeling love at all. And it's true... I always felt threatened by my best friend, and last night, I got kinda proven right. Apparently, she went to his house on saturday. He just sat there playing his computer for 6 hours while she watched. I don't know if he did that for me, or he just didn't care. On MSN, this guy always likes to see me hurt whenever he's bored, but last night I just snapped. It was breaking my heart the way he was talking, and I didn't even know if it was all true! Anyway. After I went off at him for abit, he told me that he told Jayde to fuck off and then he blocked her. I just signed into his MSN account, and she's still in the list... Unblocked. Should I delete her for him? She told me last night that she'd be happy if she never saw him again... I'm only trying to help. So she sent me and my friend an E-mail, and it was pretty harsh towards me. My friend deserved to get told what he did, but I don't see how I did. The E-mail Kinda sux, doesn't it? Goddamnit! Last night we hugged twice, and if it wasn't for my fucking shyness, we probably would've kissed! I asked her if we could do the same thing again, because we're both pretty fucked up at the moment. She's coming over to pick me up in seven hours. I'll let you know how it goes. **Yep, another EDIT** Tonight was really good! I finally built up the courage and asked her if I could kiss her. She said she didn't know (all shy-like, like me), and we did! We kissed quite alot! It's kinda confusing, I know... But I'm gonna keep on trying untill it happens. I'm so happy at the moment! The crappy thing is - is that I don't see her for another two days! I'm not sure if we'll go to the movies, or just talk like we usually do. I really, really, really, really like her. She has no interest in my friend (which is a huge relief to me), so now I have to make her feel loved enough to fall for me. While we were holding hands, she asked if I really didn't care about her past (which is nothing compared to the other girl I've been with), and I said ofcourse not. Hey! This post is abit too long, lol! Could someone bump this or something? Or someone else post something about their love-life! I've gone on for far too long in this post. **Must be going to the longest post record - EDIT** I didn't have to wait the whole two days I saw her the next day (yesterday), and we kissed alot! I'm really falling for her. I just don't know when's a good time to ask her out. Today, we didn't go to the movies. We went to her house, and she laid on me while watching a DVD. You can be sure I wasn't at all interested in the DVD, but it was still really nice. After that, we drove to our usual spot, and kissed... Her ex is still living in the same house. And her father doesn't know that they've broken up. They never do anything ofcourse. So anyway! Her ex had to be picked up from a nearby shopping centre, but he didn't want to go home. The rest of the day consisted of us driving around and doing a little shopping. I asked her (when her ex wasn't around), if she'd maybe come back and we could drive around again later tonight. She didn't know. Tomorrow she has to go do her course, then work. So tomorrow'll be the first time in 4 days I won't get to see her. On saturday, she's working. So I'm gonna go there and meet her at her workplace. I havn't been hungry at all lately. I'm always thinking about her... I really wish I knew a good time to ask her out. It will definately be in person. I'll just have to build up the courage one day. I'm thinking after we kiss would be a good time. **I am teh EDIT master!** She asked me out on saturday night. I'm glad I risked stuff by going to her friend's house while she was there. They were supposed to talk 'bout stuff, but we all talked. It was cool! So I guess that puts an end to this chapter, huh? *Is happy 'n crap* Cya! (edited by Scatterheart on 07-29-05 02:42 PM) (edited by Scatterheart on 07-29-05 02:47 PM) (edited by Scatterheart on 08-01-05 06:47 PM) (edited by Scatterheart on 08-02-05 07:42 AM) (edited by Scatterheart on 08-04-05 03:59 AM) (edited by Scatterheart on 08-07-05 11:10 PM) |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57  Posts: 1381/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| That's awesome Scatterheart. I'm still bummed out that my friend Matt is harder than hell to get ahold of lately. So I haven't been able to ask him out nor just hang out with him. It seems like he has no time for his friends or he does hang out with friends but not with me or my best friend anymore. Right now I'm just hating being single and wished I was going out with someone. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 264/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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It's been going wonderfully... Except for the fact that her ex is still there. He's obsessive and always wants to know where she is. We usually ignore the phone anyway, as we're busy doing other things.  ...Stop thinking dirty! My first time, we're gonna make it all special-like. I really wanna make her feel special. Today was scary though. Her ex is leaving in three weeks, but almost forbid Jayde (my gf) from seeing me. She was angry, upset and wouldn't talk to me earlier, but I tried remaining strong, and I told her I was going over there. Anyway, so we met up and talked for a while. Jayde's ex (not "sex" ) messaged her which said he was going to my house to talk with me, so we had to pick him up too.Okay, so he's a nice guy, but he's always bringing up painful stuff with Jayde. It hurts her, and he just keeps pushing. Okay, so he told me that it hurted him to see her with me, but he also says he wants Jayde to be happy. So I make her happy. I never kissed her tonight, as I didn't want to cause even more tension, but I held her hand for most of the night. It made him jealous. *Is evil* I want him to get it through his head that he screwed up, and it's time for him to move on. He makes things so awkward 'n crap when I'm with Jayde. Three weeks is all I have to wait untill everything can be perfect. I'm going to make her so happy. She deserves it. |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1384/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Why in the hell is her ex living at her house? She could have kicked him out long ago after they broke up and he needs to stop talking to her about stuff that hurts her. Man I would have given him a piece of my mind if I were her and shoved him out the door with or without parents say in it. | |||
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 265/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| I dunno. I guess she's overly-nice... That and the fact he has nowhere else to go. But he's taking their friendship all the wrong way. So he hasn't tried anything, but he seriously wants to get back with her. When he leaves, he wants her to call him every night at 7:00pm for fuck sakes! If ever I'm with Jayde when he calls, I'm really gonna go off at him... Fucking obsessive fucker. I've done absolutly nothing wrong or anything. He's the one who's always hurting her, yet he says she wants her to be happy... Dickhead should listen to himself once in a while.  |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1388/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| She shouldn't even have to call him! Tell her not to call him seeing as she doesn't have to. Let him get pissed off about it I'm sure she has had enough from him. Also I'm sure you'll protect her if he gets mad if she doesn't call him. Besides I think it's time for him to go and live on his own. | |||
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 266/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| If need be, I could really kick his ass. He's just a scrawny little guy. I think I'm around 180lbs (Doesn't know lbs properly)/ 90kilos, and stand 6 foot 5. Okay, so I've never been in a real fight, but I could easily take that guy. Yeah, I highly doubt she'll call him when he leaves. What's the freak'n point? I got to see her yesterday, and we talked about how he brings up crap that hurts her - how he's always trying to be her psycholigist. It pisses her off, too! She's always apologetic about stuff like that, but I trust her, and if he tries anything, I'll kick his smelly ass! ...Oh yeah! He rarely showers, never cleans anything and just leaves it all for Jayde. What a loser, right? Tonight, I'm taking Jayde out for dinner. I bet he's never done that. She's always so happy and care-free when it's just her and I. I'm glad I make her feel that way. She says being around me gives her the childhood she never had. Okay, I'm mega-shy, but she can be too. Oh! And thanks for replying, Dark Vampriel! Glad someone finally did... I was scared that my edited post was going to be uhh... Huge. |
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alte Hexe Star Mario I dreamed I saw Joe Hill last night Alive as you and me "But Joe you're ten years dead!" "I never died" said he "I never died!" said he Level: 99  Posts: 5048/5458 EXP: 9854489 For next: 145511 Since: 03-15-04 From: ... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| Well, it has been about two weeks since I broke up with my girl. It was a short relationship. Fuck, I regret breaking up with her, so much. But it was necessary. Love sucks. |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1396/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| I agree love sucks monkey balls. *sighs* So does being single. | |||
Shadow Red Red Koopa Level: 15  Posts: 26/133 EXP: 13999 For next: 2385 Since: 08-11-05 Since last post: 72 days Last activity: 71 days |
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| Id have to say love sucks alot more sometimes. Lets see.. My first girlfriend (of a year) took drugs infront of me. Broke up My second girlfriend (of close to a year) I cheated on..(was a long long time ago) My third girlfriend (of a year) cheated on me. Not to mention all the BS flings ive had. Never go with someone you cant see yourself with. Also try not to get your hopes too high about relationships. (edited by Shadow Red on 08-14-05 02:56 AM) |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1400/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| The last thing you said Red I tend to do. Well only on the last relationship I had. I think I'm emotionally scarred by that seeing as I now loathe a fricken state and a city just by seeing the names or hearing them being mentioned. If I could I'd erase them off the map but like that would ever happen though. I guess love makes you do crazy things or turns you crazy to a certain extent. |
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Shadow Red Red Koopa Level: 15 Posts: 27/133 EXP: 13999 For next: 2385 Since: 08-11-05 Since last post: 72 days Last activity: 71 days |
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| It does make you crazy to an extent. The girl who cheated on me was the one I was most serious about, so it took awhile to reel from it. Be glad you didnt have to see the person the months after the break-up. After awhile they become like strangers and you lose all you emotionally felt for them. Have to say im pretty happy now, having a girl who's more into music then I am. That's pretty damn amazing and convenient. (edited by Shadow Red on 08-14-05 03:22 AM) |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1401/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| After awhile they become like strangers and you lose all you emotionally felt for them. I can so relate to that it's not even funny. The same can be said about my ex towards me. I think I am sane but with a tendancy to be crazy when I want to be. Seeing as after the last time me and my ex talked through email the next day I felt like taking a metal baseball bat to his face, which he should be glad to live miles away from me then. It was over something he called me that I never been called before and something that I totally am not but was being to him through the last months we were going out. It was pretty funny to act that way around one of my friends that I'm not going to even consider a friend anymore seeing as I can't get ahold of him anymore unlike three months ago. He couldn't believe how destructive I acted. It was fun to scare him like that too. Hehe. | |||
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 267/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| Yeah. Love can make you do some crazy things. At first, Jayde didn't seem interested, but I kept at it, and now look where we are! Last night, I went down on her (hope that's not too much information). She asked if I wanted to... Be intimate with her, but I said "not yet", as we're always talking about making our first time special. Apparently, I have very talented hands, too. Everyone!!! Start playing a musical instrument! Your hands and girlfriend will thank you for it. Last night, after she finished, she checked to see how many times her ex called her, and it was a whopping 28! I'm glad she's ignoring him alot now. Even when she finally answered the phone to make up an excuse as to where she was, he stressed her out. She's pretty fragile, but when I'm with her, she's always happy and relaxed. In three weeks, everything will be so much better. It feels like I have to share Jayde with that asshole. Well! That's all I have to say for a while, lol. So now it's on to other people's love stuffs! Wish me luck in the near future and infinity! ...Yeah! Any major events, and I'll let you guys know. "Yay! "Lol! Ciao! |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1405/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| WTF?!?!?! Jayde's ex has major issues and if I were her when he calls and stresses me out. Click. I'd hang up the phone on him plain and simple. Or you could take the phone from her and chew him out and then hang up on him. *shrugs* He needs to get his own life, really. | |||
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 268/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| I have every intension of doing so. I will wait untill he leaves though, as he'd probably hurt Jayde if I got up him now while he's still living there. I just had abit of an argument with him on MSN. Anyone know of a quick hosting thingo for an RTF file? Kinda like ImageShack I mean. I tried a quick Google search, but to no avail. I'd like to show you guys what this idiot said. |
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Shadow Red Red Koopa Level: 15 Posts: 32/133 EXP: 13999 For next: 2385 Since: 08-11-05 Since last post: 72 days Last activity: 71 days |
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Originally posted by Scatterheart Damn dude, I wish I could get so giddy about going down. Its not the most pleasant thing in the world. Seriously though, sounds like things are going really good with you guys. Now she wants to be "intimate" with you...and your waiting? My advice would be to just go for it. Chances are it wont feel special if you try to make it that way. In my experience It is just something that happens without external effort. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 269/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| Well, I was expecting it to be alot worse with the way everyone talks about how "strong" it is. Maybe she's just really clean. It'd be alot easier if she shaved or something, but "meh". Glad I made her feel good. She said she'd never felt like that before! Lol. That's saying something... Especially because she just broke up from a two and a half year relationship. Main thing about sex though... I'm scared I won't be very good on my first time. Also, she thanked me afterwards for not having sex with her. *Shrugs*. I dunno. Maybe next time she asks, I'll ask if she's sure. |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1419/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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Originally posted by Scatterheart You can always just copy and paste it into a post. *shrugs* That's what I'd do anyways. |
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