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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43  Posts: 768/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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| Problem with getting a job, I have no way to and from town, save a car, which I cannot afford without a job, which I cannot get without a car, and so on and so on. Therefore, for now, I'll just drown my sorrow in music and self-taught sword katas. (edited by Lord Rahl on 07-14-05 01:35 AM) |
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Danielle Local Moderator  Level: 76  Posts: 919/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| Parents can't drive you into town to get a job? I mean there's got to be some possibility.. Maybe a bike?  |
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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43 Posts: 769/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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Originally posted by Lord Rahl My dad is home about one night a week, other than that he lives in his semi, driving up and down the road. My mother has had next to nothing to do with raising me from the day I was born. She also runs a farm, and needs to take days off from work, with little notice, to plant or bale or fence. I can get the occaional ride to town, for food and banking, but nothing consistant enough for a job. My best bet would be waiting until I get my driver's licence and getting my own car. Which would be, at the soonest, March 16, 2006. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 245/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| A couple and bored... Or single and lonely... Unfortunately, my life's been ruled by the "lonely" option. It's not my choice, nor has it ever been, but it's the hand I've been dealt with. I'm not overweight, or ugly (so many people have told me), yet I lack confidence. I'm always the quiet guy in the corner who never talks. I always feel that I'm about to say something stupid, so I just keep my trap shut. I've been with a few girls, but I don't know how to pick 'em... The first one I had, kissed me, but during the week I was with her, slept with 6 other guys... Yep! "6"! And I'm still the virgin... Work that one out.  I''ve just finished talking online to a girl I used to go to school with, and for the past week, she really seemed interested in me. A few nights ago, I told her I liked her, and she showed no negative response. Tonight, I built up the courage and asked her if she kinda liked me too, and she said "sorry"  Sure, she has a boyfriend, but she works and does a course, while he stays home and doesn't clean or nuthin'! I really wish I could help her... She obviously doesn't want to be helped though.  My brother's always thought of me as gay because I'd much rather a relationship than sex. I just want to feel loved... and yet, the more I wait, the more hopless it seems. I'm almost 20 now, and have nothing to show for it. The worst thing is, is that all of my brother's ex girlfriends have taken a liking to me since they've been with my brother. My brother's the typical "slut", and is proud of it. Girls go for his hard-up attitude, and later find out that that's all he's good for. They notice me, start talking to me, and notice I'm a nice guy... It's still too late for me though. I've been thinking that maybe I should just go get my ID, go to a bar or night club, and pick up some girl... yet that's what I've always been against.  |
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Kitten Yiffer Purple wand Furry moderator Vivent l'exp����¯�¿�½������©rience de signalisation d'amusement, ou bien ! Level: 135 Posts: 10519/11162 EXP: 28824106 For next: 510899 Since: 03-15-04 From: Sweden Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Let see, the closest I been to an relationship was when a few people insisted on that a girl liked me. I started to like the girl myself, and then asked her out. "We can just be friends." I hadn't dated since... and i'm not active socially either. Sometimes i'm scared that I will be lonely the whole life, as I prefer sitting at home instead of partying somewhere. And i'm dead-scared to ask anyone, i'm nervous even about ordering pizza by phone. ; |
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Arwon Zora Level: 35  Posts: 361/506 EXP: 278115 For next: 1821 Since: 03-15-04 From: Terra Australis Incognita Since last post: 5 hours Last activity: 10 min. |
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| Iiiii'm a lot like you so please, hello, I'm here, I'm waaaaaiiiiitng Iiiii think I'd be goood for you and you would be good for meee |
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Grey the Stampede Don't mess with powers you don't understand. And yes. That means donuts. Level: 82  Posts: 2707/3770 EXP: 5192909 For next: 16318 Since: 06-17-04 From: Kingston, RI, USA, Earth Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 1 hour |
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| Seems to me like everyone in my life is finding somebody, save for me. Ya get that feeling? Like everyone else is Rico Suave except for you? I suppose it's got to do with my personality and stuff, so I won't really complain, but I dunno, ever since I broke up with my girlfriend I've been feeling kinda lonesome, and everyone around me seems to be magnifying their comments about how awesome life with their boy or girlfriend is. I guess I just notice it more now.... Still, I have no regrets, no matter what,I am better off now than I was before. So here I am, alone but happy. How do you explain that? Easy: You don't. I'm lonely and sad, but happy too. It's kinda like being melancholy I guess. Or Grey. Which I am. In the middle of stuff and stuff. And yes, Arwon, Weezer does own. Check out the song "Pink Triangle". True story, I swear it happened to me. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 246/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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Originally posted by Kitten Yiffer Don't worry man. I'm exactly the same. As I said earlier; I'm the quiet guy who sits in the corner at a party, too scared to say anything because he's scared that something stupid will come out of his mouth, which will just scare them off anyway. I'm just starting not to care, but the only thing stopping me from totally doing so, is the peer pressure. My brother calls me gay because I don't fuck complete strangers like him. I've always been against that sort of thing... lately though...  I love coming to places like these as a sort of "retreat", where no one makes fun of me for being a virgin, and we can just have civilised conversations. No one here cares that I'm a virgin. If someone on the internet wanted sexual plessure, they'd go to some cheesy chat-room, like how Offspring used to be. I'm way over that kinda stuff. If I want to feel loved in any way, it's gotta be the "whole deal", not just my personality. Nowadays, it just seems that women are after the "muscular" men, and don't really notice their personalities untill much later. Sux to be semi-intelligent and averagly looking without a six-pack. |
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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43 Posts: 772/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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Originally posted by Scatterheart "Why have a six-pack when you can have a keg?" The exact words from a lady friend of mine about her boyfriend a year ago.  |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143  Posts: 10558/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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Originally posted by Danielle Kat: I think that Danielle has the best solution for your problem. You should take it easy with the crushes. You need to rest and I think that being without g/f or b/f for a while would be good for you. And long-distance relationships never works from what I know so I think that you should stop thinking about that other guy. |
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Happybunnie84 Red Paragoomba Level: 11  Posts: 59/63 EXP: 5460 For next: 525 Since: 07-06-05 From: P-Town, Illinois Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 92 days |
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Thanks for all the help you guys... I think I finally have stuff worked out for me for once in my life.  Well, I'm off to watch the ball game.kt |
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Knight of Time Keese Level: 19 Posts: 91/125 EXP: 34051 For next: 1726 Since: 03-18-04 From: Canada Since last post: 4 days Last activity: 8 hours |
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| I may be new to this club, but I definitely feel the need to make a post here. I hope that none of you guys (or girls) ever got into a situation like this one: I've had feelings for this girl ever since I was in high school (we met in the third grade I think), but unfortunately, I felt like I was the shyest guy in the school. To me, there were so many girls I thought were really pretty (including this girl), and I felt like I suffered from an "overload of feelings", and as a result, I was just too shy to go to any dances, or even the grad prom. These days, I feel like I may have fallen in love with this girl, but I have since learned that she got engaged a couple of months ago. I don't want to give up my feelings for the girl, but I also don't want to make her and her fiance end up breaking up in the process. What can I do here in this very tough situation? |
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seanbabaganoosh Paragoomba Level: 13  Posts: 39/71 EXP: 8476 For next: 1791 Since: 04-15-05 From: Canada Since last post: 59 days Last activity: 59 days |
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| hmm, that sure is a tough situation you got yourself in... I'm sorry to say, but to put it bluntly; stay away. There is absolutely no way you can become and stay friends with this girl. Your strong feelings for her will only hurt yourself and her relationship in the end. Since marriage is the road she is about to journey, there is little or no hope of you ever getting together with her. This is going to be extremely tough to do; just letting your feelings go away but, it's the only option you got. |
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Knight of Time Keese Level: 19 Posts: 93/125 EXP: 34051 For next: 1726 Since: 03-18-04 From: Canada Since last post: 4 days Last activity: 8 hours |
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Originally posted by seanbabaganoosh Uh, just a little note here, this girl and I have been good friends for years (I should have mentioned it it in my last post here, but I am not going to edit it). Anyway, I definitely have been leaning towards ending my friendship with the girl (for good), and so, I feel like I may end up losing the feelings I had for her, but I'm also nervous that if I tell her that I don't want the two of us (her and I) to be friends anymore, I fear I may hurt her feelings badly, and I'd never want to do such a thing. Anyway, ever since I learned of her engagement, I declared that I would not want to go to her wedding, even if she was to invite me. Thanks for your help seanbabaganoosh. |
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Arwon Zora Level: 35 Posts: 371/506 EXP: 278115 For next: 1821 Since: 03-15-04 From: Terra Australis Incognita Since last post: 5 hours Last activity: 10 min. |
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| Open letter to Love: Stop hurting now. Thanks -Sean |
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seanbabaganoosh Paragoomba Level: 13 Posts: 40/71 EXP: 8476 For next: 1791 Since: 04-15-05 From: Canada Since last post: 59 days Last activity: 59 days |
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| np Knight. Just trying to help...but yeah being good friends with her would add a little twist to the whole thing. I mean, what could you say to her.. "Ah, i hate you!" Of course, if you said that she'd probably give you a swift kick... Maybe you can find a way to stay friends, and do what Arwon said; "Stop hurting now.". OT: wo, Arwon your real name is Sean? Holy monkey! My real name is too (go figure). I hardly know of anyone who spells it that way. Everyone I know pronounces my name as "Seen" instead of "Sh-on". They want me to change it to the "real" version. Heh, like there really is a correct way to spell it...Blah, those insolent fools! Anyway, just thought i'd add that. |
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Arwon Zora Level: 35 Posts: 373/506 EXP: 278115 For next: 1821 Since: 03-15-04 From: Terra Australis Incognita Since last post: 5 hours Last activity: 10 min. |
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| Yeah, I noticed that most Americans spell it the wrong way and can't figure out how to pronounce it when its spelled the correct way. There *is* a correct way to spell it. It's a friggin' Irish name, it should be spelled the Irish way. That said, most Aussies know how to pronounce it, I think the correct Irish spelling is more common here than the bastardised Anglicised versions. You could also utilise the truly Gaelic spelling and place an accent over the A, spell your name Se |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57  Posts: 1325/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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There's serveral ways to spell Sean like Sean, Shawn, and Shaun. That's the ways I know but I don't know if there's any other ways.  Knight of Time: I think you should tell her the reason why you don't want to be her friend anymore and won't go to the wedding. Just my opinion as I think it would be weird not to have a reason to say when she asks. I know I would ask if someone broke off a friendship with me and would like the real reason and I'll understand. |
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Scatterheart Panser Level: 29 Posts: 257/342 EXP: 143409 For next: 4476 Since: 06-06-04 From: Sydney, Australia Since last post: 17 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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| Ooooh!!! I've been talking to this girl I knew back in high school on MSN for about 2 months now. She's only just broken up with her boyfriend whom she was with for around three years. She lives about a 10 minute walk away from my house, and one day, she offered me a lift to go to my friend's house. So during the car trip, she tells me to open the glove-box, and I pull out two letters - one addressed to me, and the other to my best friend. So I started reading mine, and it says that she'd just broken up with her boyfriend, and that if I still liked her, it would be best if I stop, because she didn't feel ready for love at the moment. (This was about two weeks ago, but lately, she seems alot more interested) Okay. So I kept on talking to her, and complimenting her when she says negative things about herself. She's really opened up towards me, and has no problem talking to me about bad and personal moments in her life. She was the smartest girl in her grade back in high school, and she's pretty good looking! Aaanywayz! I asked her if she wanted to see Land of the Dead with me next thursday, as she's into horror movies, and she said "sure!" At the end of her E-mails, she writes "Love Jayde", and she's always very happy when talking to me. When I say negative things about myself, she says "that's not true" and all of that. We say "*hugs* and Huggles*" and all of that, too!  Okay. So I feel like making a move when we go to the movies in a weeks time. I'm not one for cheesy pick-up lines, as I think they're just lame. Do you think she likes me? And what should I do at the movies? I'm definately planning on paying for it all ofcourse. She's always saying that it's alright, but then I tell her the little sneaky plans I have on paying for her...like "When you're up at the ticket booth, I'll just say "I'll pay for that! ", or "We can both wait in line - but I'm going first! " Just stuff like that. I really, really like this girl.Advice please?? |
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seanbabaganoosh Paragoomba Level: 13 Posts: 49/71 EXP: 8476 For next: 1791 Since: 04-15-05 From: Canada Since last post: 59 days Last activity: 59 days |
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| She definetely likes you. Not only is she supportive of you, she's even willing to go to a movie with you alone. Soo...thats what i think. Hmm what should you do at the movies....well i've never been on a date so i wouldn't really know... I suggest playing it cool. Be yourself and don't do anything thats out of character like sticking straws up your nose or throwing popcorn at the old lady sitting in front of you . Oh ya, since its supposed to be a scary movie, make sure you don't jump and spill popcorn all over her. Anyway, if your up to it after the movie, try saying how you feel. |
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