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Ninji Level: 36 Posts: 52/237 EXP: 286162 Next: 21948 Since: 05-27-07 Last post: 4800 days Last view: 4745 days |
I've had a lot of bad stress lately, and it's not even because of school... it's because of a certain person who I have literally grown to despise. About 8 years ago, my aunt left to be with some other man, and we never heard from her until about 4 years later when her daughter got married, now another 4 years later, she shows up at our door step, invites herself into our house, and now acts like she has some sort of right to live with us. It has really effected me negatively, she doesn't belong here, but she is nothing short of a bitch, my mom has said she has never showed any care to anyone but herself, and it's been effecting me in a bad way. She asked to stay... for 1 night, it's been over a month and the stress has really been getting to me, I almost cried this morning because I didn't have any deodorant to wear... it broke after my Racket Sports class... but it's beyond the point, my emotions feel all thrown about, I don't feel happy anymore... I don't think anyone should have to feel like this... I talked to my mom about it and my sister, we decided we're going to talk to her.
I've been more than patient, I can't stand her at all, I don't respect her, and I'm definitely not close to her. I never have been, it's been 8 years especially... Mom isn't the kind of person to have the assertive nature that many would turn to, to scream at the other person and tell them to get out... I really want to do that, and I want to stick up for my right to not have this bitch in my house... I don't care if she's family, if she supposedly is, she'll understand and she has no right to take this any other way than negatively, she needs to get out and if she doesn't soon I'm going to kill someone... We are going to talk to her tomorrow, and I've come up with more than enough reasons, I have grown to hate this woman... she doesn't belong at all and she needs to get out NOW... how should I deal with this? I think telling her to get out is a good thing to do, I mean she has no consideration for how this is effecting any of us, I have almost forgotten what happiness is... I know I feel really tedious turning to the internet, but what should we do? I think we have more than enough rights and reason to tell her to get the hell out. How would you deal with this situation? I can't keep going like this, our house is a 3 bedroom house, and she's been on our couch for a month... She also doesn't give a damn about bathing, it's been 2 weeks since I recall her taking a shower last. I feel this bad stress isn't going to do me a thing of good in school either... so what would you guys do, I want to know if it'd be mean to be rude to someone who has done the rudest thing someone can do to another person. ____________________ Why are you reading this? My post is up there^ |
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>implying even the Japanese understand the Japanese Level: 105 Posts: 400/2851 EXP: 11893777 Next: 368483 Since: 07-13-07 Last post: 4469 days Last view: 4439 days |
Buy new locks.
Next time she gets her ass out of the house, change them as fast as you can and lock the door. Call the police on her for harassment. ____________________ we're currently experiencing some technical difficulties |
Zycor |
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Ninji Level: 36 Posts: 53/237 EXP: 286162 Next: 21948 Since: 05-27-07 Last post: 4800 days Last view: 4745 days |
Well, the good thing is, she doesn't have a set of keys. My sister was saying "Just take her stuff and set it outside, and lock the door... there problem solved." I've considered doing that, and I really want to, I flat out HATE this thing, this "woman" I can't take this stress, it's not good for an almost 16 year old to feel this. I know the effects it's had on me... I mean, I feel like I'm incapable of feeling happy again... I want to kick her out... ____________________ Why are you reading this? My post is up there^ |
witeasprinwow |
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Bloober Level: 47 Posts: 375/444 EXP: 737828 Next: 28375 Since: 03-20-07 Last post: 5402 days Last view: 5793 days |
You and your sister really shouldn't take action without your mother being onboard. That's the first thing I think. It's her property, so at the end of the day you need her to say the final word on what she's allowing.
Furthermore, I wouldn't try to make this more ugly than it has to be. You all just need to tell her that it isn't working out and you need her out by a pre-selected date. That way she has some time to work out her affairs and find a new place to live; while she may be a bitch, she's still human, so be the better man and treat her humanely. What Grey Mario said should be an absolute last resort. Also, try to relax. Don't let one asshole ruin your life. I was 16 once too; I've been in your shoes and I feel like you're probably blowing it out of proportion. Just because one person is being a douche doesn't mean you should sit around and be miserable; there will always be pricks you have to put up with in life. Learning how to float above all that shit is an important skill. |
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Koopa Level: 25 Posts: 96/104 EXP: 83836 Next: 5784 Since: 02-19-07 Last post: 6010 days Last view: 5990 days |
I'm sorry, I'm going to get completely off topic for a moment. I normally don't care about message board spelling/grammar shit, and I hate to be the grammar bitch, especially since I know mine isn't that great either, but this annoyed the hell out of me while reading your post:
There is a difference between affect and effect. Affect is a verb, effect is a noun. Something affects you, not effects you. For example: Posted by ShadowTailsThis is used correctly. Posted by ShadowTails Posted by ShadowTails Posted by ShadowTailsAll used incorrectly, you should have used affect. Damn my high school English class for drilling this shit into my head to the point where it drives me nuts if someone uses it wrong. Completely off topic, unhelpful, pointless and minuscule I know. But then again, THE MORE YOU KNOW! Also, to stay somewhat on topic: what Wite said. |
Zycor |
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Ninji Level: 36 Posts: 54/237 EXP: 286162 Next: 21948 Since: 05-27-07 Last post: 4800 days Last view: 4745 days |
Posted by blacknemesis13 I wish they would not stop drilling it into our heads, trust me... I haven't learned anything new in English as far as grammar is concerned in years. I know there are two words that have different meanings, but my english teacher's past Elementary school stopped teaching this junk, and now that I'm in 11th grade, my next English class wont start until next semester, and all we do in English now is read stuff, go over it, answer questions about it, write essays, get them marked on and not have ANYTHING explained... Where is the learning? even the freaking books for that class for writing don't do a bit of good. ____________________ Why are you reading this? My post is up there^ |
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Flurry Level: 37 Posts: 141/256 EXP: 323759 Next: 14494 Since: 02-19-07 Last post: 5657 days Last view: 4133 days |
Take up smoking |
GreyMaria |
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>implying even the Japanese understand the Japanese Level: 105 Posts: 404/2851 EXP: 11893777 Next: 368483 Since: 07-13-07 Last post: 4469 days Last view: 4439 days |
Oh yeah, belongs in Officer's Club. ____________________ we're currently experiencing some technical difficulties |
Flan |
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Level: 82 Posts: 884/1610 EXP: 5106482 Next: 102745 Since: 02-19-07 Last post: 3576 days Last view: 4566 days |
Posted by blacknemesis13 Coitus effects you. |
slimthug102 |
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Flurry Level: 37 Posts: 143/256 EXP: 323759 Next: 14494 Since: 02-19-07 Last post: 5657 days Last view: 4133 days |
gosh being around these grammer nazis are really affecting me |
GreyMaria |
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>implying even the Japanese understand the Japanese Level: 105 Posts: 409/2851 EXP: 11893777 Next: 368483 Since: 07-13-07 Last post: 4469 days Last view: 4439 days |
Posted by CGX ____________________ we're currently experiencing some technical difficulties |
YD |
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Porcupo banned Level: 40 Posts: 16/312 EXP: 430013 Next: 11296 Since: 07-29-07 Last post: 5884 days Last view: 5856 days |
Posted by Grey Mario Posted by Grey MarioI don't remember being this retarded when I was 14Posted by CGX is it just easier to spot in someone else or is grey mario a special case ____________________ |
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Panser Level: 42 Posts: 309/344 EXP: 504338 Next: 17024 Since: 02-19-07 Last post: 5343 days Last view: 5339 days |
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>implying even the Japanese understand the Japanese Level: 105 Posts: 416/2851 EXP: 11893777 Next: 368483 Since: 07-13-07 Last post: 4469 days Last view: 4439 days |
Nah, you're both just flamers.
That's what the problem is. then again what do I know, I'm a goddamned fucking 14 year old and because I'm 14 I'm automatically durrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrstupid. ____________________ we're currently experiencing some technical difficulties |
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Super Koopa Level: 62 Posts: 227/842 EXP: 1931220 Next: 53466 Since: 02-19-07 From: durff Last post: 4460 days Last view: 3983 days |
Posted by YD Sorry, this is what YD really meant to say. You know, with her bad grammar and all. ____________________ Zelda Hacking Forum hobbies: delectatio morosa |
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Bloober Level: 47 Posts: 377/444 EXP: 737828 Next: 28375 Since: 03-20-07 Last post: 5402 days Last view: 5793 days |
Posted by YDPosted by Grey Mario When I saw that I actually thought it was an intentional case of irony. It never even creeped into my darkest nightmare that he could be so retarded |
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Hats Steam Board2 group Level: 121 Posts: 1521/3965 EXP: 19735289 Next: 321407 Since: 02-19-07 From: Sweden, Skåne Last post: 3273 days Last view: 2024 days |
Get back to original topic and keep it civil. ____________________ AIM: gamefreak1337, MSN: Emil_sim@spray.se, XMPP: ailure@xmpp.kafuka.org
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Porcupo banned Level: 40 Posts: 19/312 EXP: 430013 Next: 11296 Since: 07-29-07 Last post: 5884 days Last view: 5856 days |
Posted by AilureI think we've found the new banner slogan ____________________ |
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Panser Level: 42 Posts: 311/344 EXP: 504338 Next: 17024 Since: 02-19-07 Last post: 5343 days Last view: 5339 days |
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Spiny Level: 53 Posts: 70/586 EXP: 1107527 Next: 49592 Since: 07-22-07 From: BR Last post: 4608 days Last view: 4457 days |
Posted by blacknemesis13THANK YOU. I was considering posting something like this myself. You win. Posted by YDPosted by AilureI think we've found the new banner slogan Did I ever say I love you? TO THE OP: Is that aunt of yours hot? If yes, why don't you try to get laid with her. As weird as this may sound, if she's hot you should go for it. SHE COULD BE YOUR TSUNDERE LOVE. |
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