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Zycor
Posted on 09-08-07 04:57 AM Link | Quote | ID: 64998


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I've had a lot of bad stress lately, and it's not even because of school... it's because of a certain person who I have literally grown to despise. About 8 years ago, my aunt left to be with some other man, and we never heard from her until about 4 years later when her daughter got married, now another 4 years later, she shows up at our door step, invites herself into our house, and now acts like she has some sort of right to live with us. It has really effected me negatively, she doesn't belong here, but she is nothing short of a bitch, my mom has said she has never showed any care to anyone but herself, and it's been effecting me in a bad way. She asked to stay... for 1 night, it's been over a month and the stress has really been getting to me, I almost cried this morning because I didn't have any deodorant to wear... it broke after my Racket Sports class... but it's beyond the point, my emotions feel all thrown about, I don't feel happy anymore... I don't think anyone should have to feel like this... I talked to my mom about it and my sister, we decided we're going to talk to her.

I've been more than patient, I can't stand her at all, I don't respect her, and I'm definitely not close to her. I never have been, it's been 8 years especially... Mom isn't the kind of person to have the assertive nature that many would turn to, to scream at the other person and tell them to get out... I really want to do that, and I want to stick up for my right to not have this bitch in my house... I don't care if she's family, if she supposedly is, she'll understand and she has no right to take this any other way than negatively, she needs to get out and if she doesn't soon I'm going to kill someone... We are going to talk to her tomorrow, and I've come up with more than enough reasons, I have grown to hate this woman... she doesn't belong at all and she needs to get out NOW...

how should I deal with this? I think telling her to get out is a good thing to do, I mean she has no consideration for how this is effecting any of us, I have almost forgotten what happiness is... I know I feel really tedious turning to the internet, but what should we do? I think we have more than enough rights and reason to tell her to get the hell out.

How would you deal with this situation? I can't keep going like this, our house is a 3 bedroom house, and she's been on our couch for a month... She also doesn't give a damn about bathing, it's been 2 weeks since I recall her taking a shower last. I feel this bad stress isn't going to do me a thing of good in school either... so what would you guys do, I want to know if it'd be mean to be rude to someone who has done the rudest thing someone can do to another person.

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GreyMaria
Posted on 09-08-07 05:02 AM Link | Quote | ID: 64999

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Buy new locks.

Next time she gets her ass out of the house, change them as fast as you can and lock the door.

Call the police on her for harassment.

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Zycor
Posted on 09-08-07 05:05 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65000


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Well, the good thing is, she doesn't have a set of keys. My sister was saying "Just take her stuff and set it outside, and lock the door... there problem solved." I've considered doing that, and I really want to, I flat out HATE this thing, this "woman" I can't take this stress, it's not good for an almost 16 year old to feel this. I know the effects it's had on me... I mean, I feel like I'm incapable of feeling happy again... I want to kick her out...

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witeasprinwow
Posted on 09-08-07 07:05 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65010


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You and your sister really shouldn't take action without your mother being onboard. That's the first thing I think. It's her property, so at the end of the day you need her to say the final word on what she's allowing.

Furthermore, I wouldn't try to make this more ugly than it has to be. You all just need to tell her that it isn't working out and you need her out by a pre-selected date. That way she has some time to work out her affairs and find a new place to live; while she may be a bitch, she's still human, so be the better man and treat her humanely. What Grey Mario said should be an absolute last resort.

Also, try to relax. Don't let one asshole ruin your life. I was 16 once too; I've been in your shoes and I feel like you're probably blowing it out of proportion. Just because one person is being a douche doesn't mean you should sit around and be miserable; there will always be pricks you have to put up with in life. Learning how to float above all that shit is an important skill.

blacknemesis13
Posted on 09-08-07 03:00 PM Link | Quote | ID: 65014


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I'm sorry, I'm going to get completely off topic for a moment. I normally don't care about message board spelling/grammar shit, and I hate to be the grammar bitch, especially since I know mine isn't that great either, but this annoyed the hell out of me while reading your post:

There is a difference between affect and effect. Affect is a verb, effect is a noun. Something affects you, not effects you.

For example:

Posted by ShadowTails
I know the effects it's had on me
This is used correctly.

Posted by ShadowTails
It has really effected me negatively
Posted by ShadowTails
and it's been effecting me in a bad way
Posted by ShadowTails
I mean she has no consideration for how this is effecting any of us
All used incorrectly, you should have used affect.


Damn my high school English class for drilling this shit into my head to the point where it drives me nuts if someone uses it wrong.

Completely off topic, unhelpful, pointless and minuscule I know. But then again, THE MORE YOU KNOW!

Also, to stay somewhat on topic: what Wite said.

Zycor
Posted on 09-09-07 12:08 AM (rev. 2 of 09-09-07 12:09 AM) Link | Quote | ID: 65041


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Posted by blacknemesis13
I'm sorry, I'm going to get completely off topic for a moment. I normally don't care about message board spelling/grammar shit, and I hate to be the grammar bitch, especially since I know mine isn't that great either, but this annoyed the hell out of me while reading your post:

There is a difference between affect and effect. Affect is a verb, effect is a noun. Something affects you, not effects you.

For example:

Posted by ShadowTails
I know the effects it's had on me
This is used correctly.

Posted by ShadowTails
It has really effected me negatively
Posted by ShadowTails
and it's been effecting me in a bad way
Posted by ShadowTails
I mean she has no consideration for how this is effecting any of us
All used incorrectly, you should have used affect.


Damn my high school English class for drilling this shit into my head to the point where it drives me nuts if someone uses it wrong.

Completely off topic, unhelpful, pointless and minuscule I know. But then again, THE MORE YOU KNOW!

Also, to stay somewhat on topic: what Wite said.


I wish they would not stop drilling it into our heads, trust me... I haven't learned anything new in English as far as grammar is concerned in years. I know there are two words that have different meanings, but my english teacher's past Elementary school stopped teaching this junk, and now that I'm in 11th grade, my next English class wont start until next semester, and all we do in English now is read stuff, go over it, answer questions about it, write essays, get them marked on and not have ANYTHING explained...

Where is the learning? even the freaking books for that class for writing don't do a bit of good.

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slimthug102
Posted on 09-09-07 01:00 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65044


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Take up smoking

GreyMaria
Posted on 09-09-07 01:01 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65045

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Oh yeah, belongs in Officer's Club.

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Flan
Posted on 09-09-07 09:11 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65064


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Posted by blacknemesis13
I'm sorry, I'm going to get completely off topic for a moment. I normally don't care about message board spelling/grammar shit, and I hate to be the grammar bitch, especially since I know mine isn't that great either, but this annoyed the hell out of me while reading your post:

There is a difference between affect and effect. Affect is a verb, effect is a noun. Something affects you, not effects you.




Coitus effects you.

slimthug102
Posted on 09-09-07 11:16 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65069


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gosh being around these grammer nazis are really affecting me

GreyMaria
Posted on 09-09-07 08:15 PM (rev. 2 of 09-09-07 08:15 PM) Link | Quote | ID: 65084

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Posted by CGX
Gosh, being around these grammar nazis is really affecting me.




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YD
Posted on 09-09-07 09:12 PM Link | Quote | ID: 65088


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Posted by Grey Mario
Oh yeah, belongs in Officer's Club.
Posted by Grey Mario
Posted by CGX
Gosh, being around these grammar nazis is really affecting me.



I don't remember being this retarded when I was 14

is it just easier to spot in someone else or is grey mario a special case

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Clockworkz
Posted on 09-10-07 08:23 PM Link | Quote | ID: 65163


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Grey Mario's a fucking idiot, YD. Just ignore him and move on, that's the only advice I can give you about this sad-sack.

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GreyMaria
Posted on 09-10-07 08:31 PM Link | Quote | ID: 65164

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Nah, you're both just flamers.

That's what the problem is.

then again what do I know, I'm a goddamned fucking 14 year old and because I'm 14 I'm automatically durrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrstupid.

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MathOnNapkins
Posted on 09-11-07 12:20 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65175


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Posted by YD
I don't remember being this much of a TOOL when I was 14 is it just easier to spot in someone else or is grey mario a special case


Sorry, this is what YD really meant to say. You know, with her bad grammar and all.

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witeasprinwow
Posted on 09-11-07 05:38 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65195


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Posted by YD
Posted by Grey Mario
Oh yeah, belongs in Officer's Club.
Posted by Grey Mario
Posted by CGX
Gosh, being around these grammar nazis is really affecting me.



I don't remember being this retarded when I was 14

is it just easier to spot in someone else or is grey mario a special case


When I saw that I actually thought it was an intentional case of irony. It never even creeped into my darkest nightmare that he could be so retarded

Ailure
Posted on 09-11-07 08:24 AM Link | Quote | ID: 65201

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Get back to original topic and keep it civil.

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YD
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Posted by Ailure
Get back to original topic and keep it civil.
I think we've found the new banner slogan

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Clockworkz
Posted on 09-11-07 08:37 PM Link | Quote | ID: 65222


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Posted by Grey Mario
then again what do I know, I'm a goddamned fucking 14 year old and because I'm 14 I'm automatically durrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrstupid.
Nah, you kinda earned it for being completely fucking retarded and picking apart grammar like the uptight asshole that you are.
Go kill yourself.

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Posted by blacknemesis13
I'm sorry, I'm going to get completely off topic for a moment. I normally don't care about message board spelling/grammar shit, and I hate to be the grammar bitch, especially since I know mine isn't that great either, but this annoyed the hell out of me while reading your post:

There is a difference between affect and effect. Affect is a verb, effect is a noun. Something affects you, not effects you.

For example:

Posted by ShadowTails
I know the effects it's had on me
This is used correctly.

Posted by ShadowTails
It has really effected me negatively
Posted by ShadowTails
and it's been effecting me in a bad way
Posted by ShadowTails
I mean she has no consideration for how this is effecting any of us
All used incorrectly, you should have used affect.


THANK YOU. I was considering posting something like this myself. You win.
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Posted by Ailure
Get back to original topic and keep it civil.
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TO THE OP: Is that aunt of yours hot? If yes, why don't you try to get laid with her. As weird as this may sound, if she's hot you should go for it.
SHE COULD BE YOUR TSUNDERE LOVE.
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