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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji                 Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| teen pregnancy - education + immaturity = kid who will probably grow up the same way | |||
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Yea, Tarale's advice is some I'd back up.
Lately, I've been so open-minded that my brain has fallen out. You just can't be too open-minded, because then you never define yourself, and you can't be too narrow-minded, because then you never grow. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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"A "surprise" could actually set off an alarm because... -You're communicating directly to her --She'll know that you're jealous and may take advantage of it" -- If communicating directly to her is a bad thing, then she obviously must value dishonesty more than honesty, and I don't see how that's good. If she's going to take adventage of you because you're jealous, she's not worth your time, anyway. I don't think you can have a successful marriage with anyone unless you both can 'hand your balls' to each other. Trust, communication, and loving each other for who the other is--that's where it's at. Sorry there, Cruel Justice, you must have a cynical view of girls, or something. There are some gems out there amidst the rough. In my opinion, if you can't completely trust a girl and have faith in her, she's not worth it--and you're not worth it to her, either, since you can't trust her. That doesn't mean when you don't trust someone, cut it off, because trust takes time to build. But if it gets to the point where it seems like neither of you can trust each other, there's obviously a problem. If a girl can't deal with direct communication, she doesn't value you as much as she could. If a person values another person enough, nothing can stop it (unless that person changes drastically, I suppose). (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 03-20-06 10:36 AM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Final Fantasy 7 would be happy if it was remade on the PS3 with all of this Advent Children graphics and all.
Of course, they'd have to totally revamp the battle system to make it worthwhile to me. But FF12 is looking kick-ass enough for me, and I'm really not into Final Fantasy so much. Hm... I would mind seeing Mario World remade with some overhauled graphics/sound, all that. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| True friends don't worry about what the other thinks.
They both love each other and don't ponder what the other person thinks because they innately are considerate. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Yea, I haven't had sex yet, and I'm damn glad.
Saving my virginity for someone who will be worth it. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| As someone who is about to turn 19 and had never even held a girl's HAND, much less had sex, some of this stuff is rather disturbing.
Just a little FYI. 
My fault for reading, obviously. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Yea, I guess that's natural.
But here's the way I see it: a relationship can't start unless it's mutual. So if you're afraid of other guys moving in on your girl, but you trust your girl, there's nothing to be afraid of. They can't just pick her up and steal her from you--duh. She has to make that choice. And if she can be trusted, then she wouldn't do that. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Hey...
I'm not sure where els eto put this... But I have a Chinese friend, and she's been acting kind of weird, and she won't say why. I found her MSN blog, and I somehow know that on it, she might explain why she's been acting strange. But I can't translate it, and I know that those web-translators don't work for crap. So I was wondering if someone who can read CHinese could translate it for me, please? I feel like I should ask my friend herself to do it, but a.) she's busy, and b.) I feel that it's about me, and she wouldn't want to tell me because she might be afraid to hurt my feelings. But I'd rather know the truth and be hurt than continue with our relationship being a lie. So, if you would, please translate... I need the December 10 entry and every one past that (except the newest, maybe). There are only 3 entires, but I know they all have to do with this. Thank you very much. I feel guilty asking for this, but I can't help but desire the truth. I'm so open with this person, I don't hold back the truth, but I know she's been holding it back from me. Anyway, if you think you shouldn't, then don't. I don't mind. I don't know, I'm just very confused... Thanks for any help (or advice) you may give. I don't know what I could to repay the favor if someone takes the time to translate. Here's the link: http://spaces.msn.com/solarpowered-girl/blog/PersonalSpace.aspx edit: I'm sorry, I realized there was one more section: the second chunk under September 18th, it has 'raquetball' in it... (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 03-27-06 09:36 PM) (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 03-27-06 09:38 PM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| I think I've found a way to figure out the truth!
But I need someone who can read Chinese and translate... Anybody know of someone I could ask? |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Yea, Babel Fish only does so much, and yea, I'm going to talk to her.
I'll just have to pray that she's honest. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| LOL.
That's OK. Anyway, she said it's OK if I read it--I asked. But she also said that I wouldn't WANT to read it. Thanks for trying, though. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Aye, indeed.
'Twas a good thing I did, too, because it led to her calling me and us talking about stuff that we sort of needed to talk about. Apparently, she doesn't even realize that she acts weird around me--she does, though. The thing is, it reminds me of when I realized that I was acting weird around her. Once I realized I was, I was able to figure out why, and the answer was that I liked her. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| First off, for all of you who think that this is something sexual--HAH! It's not.
(I've noticed that this thread has gotten a decent number of views and no replies. LOL. I guess that's what I get for posting something that's not sexual and pointless. )
So for those of you still with me... Every night for the past couple months, whenever I dream, I always dream about the same sort of thing. I seem to have a habit of having recurring symbols in my dreams. In high school, for about two years, EVERY dream I ever remembered always had a sword in it, somewhere. Anyway, these dreams...have been different. Namely, they've been, well, NORMAL. They've been, like, normal, realistic events. The recurring 'symbol' in them, every time, is this friend of mine...a friend whom I have harbored 'feelings' for ever since November. Our friendship has been very bumpy lately, but we both care about each other enough where it will turn out fine. Anyway, she recently found out I liked her, and rejected me, (of course), but the dreams haven't changed since then. It's just now, I feel sad when I think about them, whereas I was hopeful before. Anyway, NO, there is never any sexual stuff in my dreams. It's always innocent, normal...hanging out. Sometimes in a group, sometimes us alone...Sometimes in our usual spot, sometimes in a special spot (ones I sometimes go to). And it's always...normal. Only, well, a little better than normal, because usually, we aren't feeling awkward around each other, as we usually do (ever since we met). Anyway, I could go into details, but what do you guys make of that? Are my dreams trying to tell me something? They always feel so wonderful and amazing, and then when I wake up and realize they were dreams, I feel horrible, because I feel like they could never come true, despite how normal and realistic they are. (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 04-03-06 11:57 AM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Yea, that is something I would like.
I just find it weird that it happens EVERY NIGHT. I mean, I like this girl, more than a friend, but I know she doesn't like me very much, not even, like, as a person. But we're still friends, just not...REAL friends. That probably has something to do with it. I don't think it's what I've been thinking about when I go to bed,or my past day, because it happens EVERY night, regardless. It couldn't be a memory because that stuff hardly happens--we don't see each other that much as it is. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| Stepmania is indeed quite fun.
Say, didn't Elmo, like...leave...already? Like, BEFORE? And he came back? |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| I dunno, that sounds like it could certainly be right. | |||
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| There's nothing wrong with good friendship,and good friendship is more important than dating, because dating usually lasts a while, but good friendship lasts a lifetime.
Anyway, yea, I'd say, based on a lot of recent experience similar to this (which didn't turn out too well), just be yourself. Don't try to act a certain way, just be you--and if things click, it means she likes you for YOU, not a certain way you were trying to act. If you feel you guys know each other well enough, sure, ask her if she wants to go hang out sometime. If she's hesitant, it may mean she's uncomfortable at this point. Either way, I'd say just be you. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| The Buddy Holly?
You mean HOLY? Jesus? Jesus is holy, not holly.
Jesus is the man, but I get annoyed when people get so obsessed with trying to please the Lord, try too hard to be good to people instead of just BEING good to people. But I digress. Yea, it would be good to have some common interests--otherwise, what would you do together that you both could enjoy? If she's the quiet type, then maybe you could find something to DO. One thing I've learned... When two people can be with each otther in silence and be comfortable, they're truly friends. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6340 days |
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| OK, so...
What do you guys think about online dating? Is it totally stupid, waste of time? Or is worthwhile? For years, I've had absolutely no success in dating peopel I know personally. I'm 19 years old, and have no idea what it's like to have a girlfriend, go out on a date, hold hands with a girl, etc. And part of me wants to just have an online girlfriend just for fun. And yet another part of me thinks online dating is the stupidest thing ever for me. But no matter how much I like a girl, how much I care about her, and how far I'm willing to go for her, nothing ever works out. I kind of just want an online 'girlfriend' that I can just sort of be silly with and all, and at the same time, I think it would be stupid. I don't know, what do you guys think of online dating? |
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