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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji                   Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| What did I think about uploading inappropiate stuff?
A: I thought of this. 
Q: What the CRAP is with people asking questions involving choking on dick? |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Yes, resonsibily being the key word.
That's like saying that it's OK to let your ten year old with no driving experience take control of your car--as long as he's responsible. 
Unfortunately, people have a bad habit of not being responsible. I'd imagine my past no doubt affects who I am now, but I think there's more to it than just that. About physical addictions...mental addictions entail physical ones, too. Your brain and your body are connected, and thus when one is altered, so is the other, in some way, shape, or form. Being addicted to pornography may not be quite as physically addicting as you may think, but it has a LOT to do with your body--duh, it's your hormones leading you. But it's also mental, too, because if you aren't actually touching a girl, etc., you're imagining it, and sometimes, people can get addicted to the imagery itself. It's this thing called 'lust,' I believe. Ya know, like...what St. Augustine is famous for. Burka? Burkas don't do anything for me, either, since you can't even tell there's a woman underneath them. I guess...jeans and a T-shirt, ya know. Just normal clothes. Once it starts getting to bikini-esque levels, it starts turning me off. *shrug* Anyway, I'm in an accountability group now, so that's encouraging me to not dwell on sexual stuff like masterbation so much. Of course, since masterbation is more of a stress reliever than anything else for me, I've been a little more stressed out, but that gets remedied when I play games (DAMN! Mario Bros. and Duck Hunt are STILL FUN, 20 years later!) or concentrate on other hobbies. There's guys here that haven't masterbated in months and have never looked up pornography/haven't looked up in months/years. But since they have so many other things going on in their life, it's not a problem for them, I guess. *shrug* (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 02-15-06 12:31 AM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| http://ds.ign.com/objects/682/682879.html
Not much, but, hey, might be stuff there you haven't seen yet. *shrug* Wonder if Nintendo will go the distance and make this a Wi-Fi title, too? I dunno. I'm hoping they call this one Super Mario Bros. 4, personally. And I'm hoping it's really big, fun, and hard. http://ds.ign.com/articles/688/688902p1.html Guess it's scheduled for release in May for Japan, meaning it will hopefully be here by fall. (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 02-15-06 10:49 AM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| There you go right there. That's a lot of stuff I think about when I say, "Pornography is stupid and can be bad."
I didn't even think about the marriage thing, but it's true--pornography does lead to a lot of marrital issues. Exercise, eh? I'm not much of a 'work-out' person, but that's because if I DO exercise, my brain has nothing to do, and thus I wind up thinking about all of the things I'm worried about, thus defeating the purpose of relieving stress. If exercising means playing raquetball with a friend or jogging with a friend, or walking witha friend, I'm all for that, because then I can concentrate on my friend instead of my own worries. I also think people would be better off without pornography. According to our poll, not as many people (here, anyway) look it up as I might've guessed. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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Just go for it, you say?  '
You've never gone 'too fast' for a guy, then, have you? Have you ever had a boy you DIDN'T like ask you out when you had only known each other for a few months? EVERYONE is telling me that relationsips that start that soon don't last (usually), and everyone is telling me that even after 5 months, it's still too early and we don't know each other well enough yet. As far as 'you never know,' you're right, I don't. She might like me back. But she also might not, and might get creeped out if she found out I liked her. And that could totally ruin our friendship. So...looking at what you said, you actually didn't really give me any advice but told me to two contradicting things. XD So, um...thanks for that, I guess.  LOL. That's amusing. Did you notice you did that? Oh, well.  |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Wow, Grey. People are already depending on you for advice. I mean, these are some really serious issues in our society today.
"Oh and this one." Geez, man, I know how that goes. That is serious shit, man. Youch, good luck with that. XD *lolz* Anyway, 'kay, so here's my question. So I'm a freshman in college, right? Never had a girlfriend, any attempts at dating a girl turned sour--the first one was my best friend and betrayed me before we even started dating, and the second just...well, didn't start at all, either, and somehow destroyed our friendship. Anyway! So there's this sophomore girl, we've been friends since September, she's really busy, so we don't hang out for very long periods of time, and not all that often, either. So we don't know each other as well as I'd like. But I really like her for some reason. I didn't start feeling this way until November. Now, all of my friends know, some of HER friends know (and knew without me telling them) and other people who know her know, too...(I'd actually be kind of amazed if she didn't know, but I certainly hope she doesn't) So I really like her, really care about her, and really want to build our friendship, because I'm guessing that it would be smarter to do that before I tell her I like her. When I finally do decide to tell her I like her, how should I go about doing it? Should I just be flat-out honest and tell her? Should I take her to the Homecoming Banquet and tell her after that? Should I give her a poem I wrote about her? (she's a music major, I'm a writing major) And when I tell her, if she's not too enthused about it (or worse, upset) what should I do? I REALLY don't want my feelings for her to ruin our friendship like the past with other girls. These feelings should STRENGTHEN our friendship, not break it, right? I'm seriously thinking that when I tell her, I should go out and say something like, "So what should I do?" Basically asking her, "What do you want me to do with these feelings? Kill them, ignore them for a while, get rid of them, embrace them? What?" That probably sounds retarded, but... And if she doesn't like me liking her, and wishes I didn't have these feelings, what SHOULD I do with them if she doesn't tell me? I would guess try and destroy them somehow, but that's not too easy. Anyway, thanks for any wisdom you may share. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Yea, probably. It does have Iwata at the bottom there.
Yea, nothing really 'leaked,' persay. But a little interesting. An dthat Revolution on the desk does, in fact, look right--at least, according to the last model Nintendo has shown us. The Revolutipn very well may have its design altered a bit, just like the DS was between E3 and its launch. Bear in mind that this baby is suppose to be about as thick as 2 DVD cases. That's really tiny. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| http://www.joystiq.com/2006/01/28/ready-for-an-oldschool-revolution/
Check this movie out. It's amazing. Definitely for the Nintendo fan. Make sure you stay tuned after the credits, because that's the most important part--it's the part where the real heart and real message of the movie come out. It may not be high quality, but, ya know, it only makes itself an example of its message in doing so. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| http://www.acid-play.com/download/super-cosplay-war-ultra/
No, seriously, it's the name of some Freeware Japanese fighter. Does it not look bizarre? Anyway, I've been trying to download it from a host of different websites, but the download seems to always stop prematurely for some reason... If anyone here bothers to try it out, let me know if it's worth the effort. I can't figure out why it won't download all the way, but t does look very amusing. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| It IS anime. It's basically a bunch of generic anime characters dresses as nerds who dress as generic anime characters.
But I can't seem to get it download right... By the way, if anyone manages to actually, ya know, DOWNLOAD it, could you please let me know? (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 02-17-06 06:01 PM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Well, thanks, Grey. You kind of confused me...
Follow my heart, but don't? You tell me to follow it, but then you tell me I shouldn't be interested in exp And how is a long term relationship terrifying? I guess guys my age are terrified of it, but I would give almost anything for one--believe it. And of course I'm considering how well she knows me. That's why I have to hide my feelings for her for right now. It's not like we're strangers. We're friends, we're just not as close as I'd like. A professor of mine told me I should wait a couple years before I exp ' That sounds really long to me, though. So much could happen.
And no offense, but I am SICK of people saying, "You have your life ahead of you." That's no good reason to sit and do nothing. People told me that throughout all of high school, so I waited, and waited. And what happened? NOTHING. I regret all of the things I didn't do in high school but could have. What if I die 5 years from now in an accident? I have no idea. I don't want to waste these 4 years like I wasted high school. I want to actually SEE some of these people when high school is over. I want to delevop lasting relationships, and I REALLY want to have a girl I don't have to hide my true self from. I'm sick of hiding myself from people. Whew. OK. Had to blow some personal steam. Sorry 'bout that.  '
Thanks for your advice, though, but I just keep getting a lot of contradictions in the advice I'm getting from people. If I follow my heart, it might scare her. But if I sit around and don't think or worry about it, we'll never truly be friends, either, let alone a couple. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Mm, Trigun donuts.
OK, yea, that makes much more sense. That's what I want to you. It's just very difficult when we don't really SEE each other that often because of college, and her being so busy. I'm not sure if we'll ever really 'click' as a couple, but that is what I'd rather have. I'd rather wait until her senior year and realize, "Oh, hey, we're practically dating," than have to 'ask her out' or that junk. Adults don't really do that. Then again, adults also seem to jump into relationships even faster than high schoolers do. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Did someone say that Yoshi's Island was SMALL?
It's not, just so ya know. And Yoshi's Island has just as much replay value as any other Mario platformer, except it had a cool scoring system, and then there was an entire secret world you got by getting perfect scores. The GBA version was even better because they added ANOTHER world to the mix. That makes 8 worlds, right, with 8 levels a piece. I guess Mario World did have more levels than that, didn't it? Still, you didn't have to replay every level in Mario World to get perfect scores. Bah. To this NEW game, now then. It's definitely improved graphically since I saw it last. I'm very pleased with the colorful backgrounds. It looks to play smooth and fast, too, which will be great. Definitely looking forward to this one. It should arrive here any time now, what-with its Japanese release date coming in a few months. Hopefully, we'll get it this summer sometime. It's been a LONG time since Nintendo has come out with a new Mario platformer like the good ol' days (I'm not sure if Super Princess Peach can qualify, as I haven't played it) so they know there's a lot banking on this one to be good. If it's massive, runs/controls smooth, looks good, and has all the charm and goodness of old Mario mixed with new material, it's gonna be a real crowd pleaser. Nintendo has yet to fail me when it comes to a lot of things, but it's hard to say in this area, since they haven't come out with a new 2D Mario in over a decade. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Well, regarding the first post, you seem to be saying that you 'don't do dating' because...you think it'll be love at first sight, or something?
Sorry, I don't believe in love at first sight--not truly, anyway. Sometimes, people are attracted to each other and start dating right away (actually, a lot more than sometimes), but they never REALLY love each other until they KNOW each other, and how can you know someone you haven't built a relationship with? Or maybe you simply mean you want to build a friendship first, and romance will come naturally if it works out that way. In said case, I must've misinterpreted. To me, sexual orientation is a physical thing. Love isn't. To me, finding a girl to marry is simply finding a best friend that I also happen to find attractive so that I can have kids with them. I love my friends, and I'm sure by the time I get married, there will be at least one guy I love as much as I love my wife, but I'm also attracted to my wife and be physically intimate with her and have children. By nature, humans are attracted to the opposite sex because it's what makes children. That's why guys like big boobs and hips (it means the woman is better-suited for a child, science says) and women like buff men. Of course, love isn't about that, and it doesn't mean everyone is like this. I just don't see why people get upset over sexual orientation conversations because, "Love crosses sexual boundaries." Um, duh, yea, we know that. Love is LOVE, and can do more than hormones ever could. But hormones and love are not the same thing, am I wrong? Sex is not making love, I don't think. Love sometimes makes sex, though, you could say. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| I have a hair fetish.
And since I've nevet had sex, can't say I know about anything of this moaning and what-not. Of course, I'm a weirdo, and I'm probably going to be a virgin until...well, I'm 19, so...say, 30 years old. yea, that sounds about right. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| OK, so...
I met a girl early on in college, at the beginning of this school year. She's a sophomore, and I'm a freshman. OK, so, I'll just go through the important stuff. We've been friends ever since. She's really busy, so we don't talk or hang out that much--then again, I don't really see or talk to most of my friends, because they're all so busy. In November, I started to have feelings for her. Those feelings grew and grew, until, finally, I told her about them last week. Sadly, she doesn't return them. We both really care about each other, though, and we're really considerate of each other. I can't force her to like me, and I also can't force myself to stop liking her. These feelings are really strong, and I can't see them going away any time soon. However, I've liked her for months now, and I haven't given her a reason to not trust me. So what do you guys think I should work on? Right now, my plan is to put my feelings for her on the backburner, try to ignore them, and concentrate on our friendship, and just see what happens. After all, we still have 2 more years in college together, and her family has even moved (coincidentally) where I live, so who knows what will happen after college. I feel confident that our friendship has a very high potential to become long-lasting and strong. But I've never felt this way about a girl before, so I'm kind of worried that these feelings won't go away, and that she'll never like me. The only times I've been able to get over girls in my past, they were complete jerks to me for prolonged periods of time--that's what it took. This girl is doing the opposite. The thing I try to keep in mind is that we're in college, and people change. A year or two from now, I may naturally get over her, or she may naturally start liking me. I know a time from my past when I didn't have feelings for a friend, and she did for me, and after she told me, I was open to the possibility of us together, and later, I did start feeling the same way for her. (Too bad she was a bitch, but, hey.) I've considered that maybe she simply doesn't find me attractive, but I remember how I looked at her when we first met, and once I got to know her better and we connected more, she just...got prettier, somehow. I mean, she looks the same, of course, but somehow, to me, she's more beautiful than any girl I've ever met, even though when I think about it, she looks rather plain. Anyone plain can be lovely, though.
Anyway, what do you think? Am I on a good track? |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Right! Precisely!
That's what I told her I wanted to do! OK, if you've been in similar situations, and that's what you do, then that gives me more encouragement about this. I just hope she can continue to treat ME as a friend. I realized today, when we talked, that she may have trouble ignoring this fact, as well. It'll all work out for the best in the end. (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 03-17-06 05:07 PM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Ya know what the problem with that is?
Take away my hope, and I have no motivation. And as a result, I become LESS mature at the same time as becoming MORE mature. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| Ya know what's the kicker about Christians who persecute gays?
According to their beliefs, gays go against God'a law. So do people who seek lustful thoughts. So do people who steal. So do peopel who cheat on their spouses. So do MURDERERS. And yet, somehow, the infinitely powerful grace of Jesus' blood can forgive MURDERERS and not gays. Explain THAT one. I'm a Christian, and I utterly detest the hate people have toward gays. I don't buy this, "They choose to do it because they're sinners," because I mean, hell, I don't choose to be attraced to women. If I could, I'd turn OFF my hormones every now and again. And from people say, it means that a man who looks up pornography and cheats on his wife (thus sinning) can be forgiven and go to heaven, while a man who has sex with another man somehow CAN'T, despite the fact that it's all lust and sexual orientation involved. Um, HELLO? How does that make sense? Of course, I still kind of don't understand how lust is always a sin. I mean, yea, it CAN be, when it leads to rape, but lust is also natural, am I wrong? (Then again, they say that humans are sinful by nature) Besides, don;t you NEED lust to have a child? 
Friggin' screwed up stuff, lemme tell you. (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 03-17-06 10:18 PM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6339 days Last view: 6339 days |
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| I know that, that's not what I meant.
It's that it's hope inside me that I have to kill, one way or the other, and hope lost is still hope lost. Besides, there isn't anyone in my life right now whom I can hope for more than friendship now, and that deprives me of that type of hope, which gives me drive to really do stuff. Of course I value our friendship more. I value her immensely. But here's the catch: does SHE value ME? Because if she doesn't value me (and the more I think about it, the more that seems likely) then I'll be getting my hopes up for our friendship to become strong, and it won't, because she doesn't want it to. I've never thought such complex things about someone in my life, so this is new. (and when I say complex, I mean lots of stuff I haven't mentioned) But people change. And I've changed because of this, so I hope that she learns, and grows, and changes, too, like I have. Even if she doesn't value me right now, she may later in the future. *shrug* All I know is that for some reason, I don't want to give up on our friendship, even if she doesn't value it that much. -- No, she doesn't really value me very much. That's been the crutch in our relationship. I value her, I enjoy being with her, spending time with her, and she simply doesn't value me, enjoy being with me, or have any real desire to do so. She has no real desire to build our relationship in any way. She's afraid of change, I think, but change happens whether we're afraid of it or not. If she doesn't want us to get to know each other well and have a strong bond, we never will. Simple as that. I can only hope that something will change sooner than later. (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 03-19-06 06:57 PM) (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 03-19-06 06:57 PM) |
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