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Posted on 12-06-05 07:53 PM, in Introductions Link
Hey guys. Just looking around, since one of my buds were already a member here. I'm interested in learning more about hacking, so I hope to be at least the "stating the obvious" dude.

Cheers,
James M. Cornett
AKA JMC/Gemini/Pizza/anything but Jamie
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Posted on 12-06-05 08:05 PM, in a dead OL relationship, what to do? Link
Originally posted by Uncle Elmo
Firstly, and this is pretty important

You're DEFINATELY not alone.

I've been in your exact situation, and as for what I did, well I sort of hung around her, secretly wishing for her relationship to fail. I then realised that to try abnd be friends with her was also difficult. By keeping her close I was using her as an emotional safety blanket, and this is very unhealthy.

It's taken 2 years for me to come to this epithany, so I suppose in short my advice to you would be. Think about you, not her needs, you need to live YOUR life, and leave yourself more than open to the fact that it won't contain her.

SHe's made it obvious that she finds it difficult to be around you. As the passage of time goes on that MAY change, but then again may not. You can keep your circle of friends, and try and be polite, but if she's still snotty with you, just cut her out.
Yeah, BOTH of us have.

And ironically it was with the same girl. Although I still think I got it worse in the end. It's pretty hard to deal with that, then immediately go to a girl who happens to lie about being married for two years. But then, Elmo's heard me bitch for years about things like this...

*shakes head* Anyway, at this point in time, I'd say cut your losses. This girl obviously doesn't care, because if she did, she'd have been more open about the friends thing. The best thing I would do is write her one more time, telling her how you feel, but also saying it's become clear that she doesn't return those feelings. Also tell her that you'll be ready to talk to her again once she decides to be more sociable, since her lack of communique is hurting you deeply.

You'll usually get one of two responses out of that one--either the girl quickly realizes what a bitch she's being and 180s, trying to save what little of the friendship is left, or she's gonna blame you for the degradation of the friendship and demand you never speak to her again. Just my experience, in both directions, it's gonna be too little too late on her part.
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Posted on 12-06-05 08:10 PM, in This is messed up. Link
Originally posted by Uncle Elmo
Hmm, so as a European, how many IBuzz's are I going to get for you lot then eh?
YOU KNOW what I'd say to that under different circumstances, buddy. But considering these people are just beginning to experience the freak that is JMC, I'll refrain for now.
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Posted on 12-06-05 08:22 PM, in My real last name Link
Originally posted by insectduel
Originally posted by Ran-chan
I voted for Molé. Why, do you ask?

Because I think it sounds better than Mole.


I'm not saying that my last name is official but I do have two sides of it. Note that my mother is not officially married so her last name remains. If people likes calling me mole that i'll take it. But either one of them does not matter for me. Just for them.
Now hold it...

Unless this guy is adopting you AS WELL AS marrying your mom, which the last I checked those usually do not happen on the same day, your mom's getting married should NOT change your last name in the process. I should know, I asked my mom that years ago when she got remarried.
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Posted on 12-06-05 09:10 PM, in Introductions Link


Elmo's dealt with me before, he knows how twisted my thought processes can go if left unchecked. But to avoid embarrassing him, I'll keep it P-C here.

I'm actually wanting to go a bit of a different route and try to hack games like Karnov and Wizardry.
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Posted on 12-06-05 09:48 PM, in Your Ideal self vs Your Real self... Link


Ideal Self
Height: 6'7"
Weight: 250
Hair: Long and indigo (don't ask)
Build: Muscular
Relationship Status: Taken

Real Self
Height: 6'2"
Weight: Fluxuates between 315 and 335
Hair: I have an afro, damnit!
Build: I look like I'm six years preggo
Relationship Status: Single

Sorry, guys, I just had to add that last one in.
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Posted on 12-06-05 09:52 PM, in Introductions Link
No, as a matter of fact, that's the first I've heard of it, El. I'm DEFINITELY gonna have to check that one out.

EDIT: Note to self--reconfigure cooler-looking message screen in the coming days.


(edited by GeminiMetatron on 12-06-05 08:53 PM)
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Posted on 12-08-05 08:28 PM, in a dead OL relationship, what to do? Link
Eh, all things being even, dude, I'm the living example of what NOT to become after that kind of failed relationship. I've dealt with three, all of them involved some sort of messed up situation, and with the exemption of the first one, all of them had some form of lies to them. I ain't been the same since, mainly because I've come to the conclusion that some people are destined to be alone. We'll get into the reasonings for that later. The important thing is that you at least got what you had to say off your chest.

The boasting that she'd never been dumped, however, should have been your first clue something wasn't right. People who can claim that have one of two issues. Either they abuse and use a relationship until its gone, or they have serious lack of social skills that keeps them from obtaining a long term relationship. A second round of advice from the FinalHazard--any girl who dictates when you're supposed to be over her isn't someone that should be in the breeding population to begin with.

*raises bottle of Nyquil* Here's to hoping the next guy she dates beats the ever-living hell out of her as payback for the emotional abuse you went through. *guzzles the entire bottle down in one try* Damn, they need to strengthen this stuff, it's getting earier to drink.

Although based on how you're describing her, the girl DOES sound rather familiar...


(edited by GeminiMetatron on 12-08-05 07:28 PM)
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