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Posted on 02-09-07 03:49 AM, in fallling OUT of love? Link
yeah, i'm confused... i'm in a spot that i'm sure many people before me have been in. how do you just, stop loving someone romantically?

it's incredibly difficult for me because the person in question is my best friend and i talk to her for about an hour or two every day.. and definitely don't want to lose that(which, i think, is a big motivation for me to love her so much in the first place).

so... yeah, how have you handled this before, either from crushes or breakups or whathaveyou?
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Posted on 02-12-07 01:49 AM, in fallling OUT of love? Link
Originally posted by Anya
But are you sure you love her romantically and not just as a dear friend? There's different types of love that you can feel towards a person...finding out what type it is, is very hard to do IMO.


that's what i still need to figure out myself, yet i can't even see a difference in the two. being so detached from the world probably did that...
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Posted on 02-13-07 01:31 AM, in fallling OUT of love? Link
Originally posted by SamuraiX
Originally posted by jeff
Originally posted by Anya
But are you sure you love her romantically and not just as a dear friend? There's different types of love that you can feel towards a person...finding out what type it is, is very hard to do IMO.


that's what i still need to figure out myself, yet i can't even see a difference in the two. being so detached from the world probably did that...

Is it that you don't want to be close, but you don't want to lose a friend?

i want both. does that help any?
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Posted on 02-13-07 02:39 AM, in ...WHOA Link
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Posted on 02-13-07 06:15 AM, in fallling OUT of love? Link
Originally posted by SamuraiX
Originally posted by jeff
Originally posted by SamuraiX
Originally posted by jeff
Originally posted by Anya
But are you sure you love her romantically and not just as a dear friend? There's different types of love that you can feel towards a person...finding out what type it is, is very hard to do IMO.


that's what i still need to figure out myself, yet i can't even see a difference in the two. being so detached from the world probably did that...

Is it that you don't want to be close, but you don't want to lose a friend?

i want both. does that help any?

Yep. =P
That's what I was thinking. You want to maintain your self, without losing her, and you're afraid if you ask her, you might lose a friend, but if you don't do anything, then you'll get more deeply entwined in this relationship. Correct me if I'm wrong. O=
I'd say to give it some time. Unless she asks to marry you, then I expect that your relationship will eventually adjust to a point where you're still close, but you can maintain an identity of your own. Or so I think!

no, she knows. she even said she liked me for a time. and then that went away fast... and then it came back one day.. and then went away. do you see why i don't want to?
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Posted on 02-13-07 06:30 AM, in fallling OUT of love? Link
Originally posted by SamuraiX
Originally posted by jeff
Originally posted by SamuraiX
Originally posted by jeff
Originally posted by SamuraiX
Originally posted by jeff
Originally posted by Anya
But are you sure you love her romantically and not just as a dear friend? There's different types of love that you can feel towards a person...finding out what type it is, is very hard to do IMO.


that's what i still need to figure out myself, yet i can't even see a difference in the two. being so detached from the world probably did that...

Is it that you don't want to be close, but you don't want to lose a friend?

i want both. does that help any?

Yep. =P
That's what I was thinking. You want to maintain your self, without losing her, and you're afraid if you ask her, you might lose a friend, but if you don't do anything, then you'll get more deeply entwined in this relationship. Correct me if I'm wrong. O=
I'd say to give it some time. Unless she asks to marry you, then I expect that your relationship will eventually adjust to a point where you're still close, but you can maintain an identity of your own. Or so I think!

no, she knows. she even said she liked me for a time. and then that went away fast... and then it came back one day.. and then went away. do you see why i don't want to?

You're afraid of the fluctuations?

that's one reason, yes. her mind changes a lot. sometimes, it seems like she never really grew up... it's just the way she is.
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Posted on 02-13-07 11:34 PM, in Age Link
Originally posted by Sweet Kassy Molassy
Originally posted by Danielle
I don't think age matters once both parties are 18. You should be mature enough to decide for yourself who is and isn't right for you, at that point in life.

I had a friend, though, that was 16 years old dating a 25 year old guy. That just sickened me.


Why? What makes your 18th birthday the day you automatically become mature? Or do you subscribe to the "Magic Day Theory?"

And keep in mind, through 20,000 years of human history women were giving birth to children whose fathers were likely that much older and no one EVER had a problem with it before.

dude kasdarack everyone knows the answer to that when you turn 18 this switch goes off in your head and you magically decide you're mature.

honestly, though, i think that about that age is when people for the most part know what they want out of life(soon) and know themselves pretty well. i really think 18 might be too young to know for sure, being the age where high school graduation occurs and people get to move into college and/or work, so they can trade their lives for money.
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Posted on 02-14-07 03:14 PM, in Age Link
Originally posted by Sweet Kassy Molassy
a lot of other stuff but i don't want to clog up the page

personally, i have to see where she's coming from... while at the same time, i definitely agree with you. i think it'd just be a strange relationship, crossing the high school and college gap like that. there's still, as far as i can imagine, a lot of growing up to do. there's just a lot of things that can happen in that time. i would never want to cross a gap like that unless things were... exactly how you said.
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Posted on 02-18-07 09:23 AM, in WHO UNBANNED THAYER Link
ALL I SEE IS JEW AND FREE. GODDAMN JEWS MAKING SHIT FREE FOR THEMSELVES.
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