| Hello all, not sure how new or old this thred is but i though i would reply as well. I felt the same as much as the magority of you did about 17 months ago. I had had no propa GF and was deeply unhappey with my life and situation> i had mates and a good job but wasnt quight complete, then i found a woman in the leese likely place. At that point i relised i had some feelings for my best mates GF i kept well away though as he was a mate, and mates dont do that. Later on that month she finished with him and expresed feelings for me. Eventualy after going out on the beer. She plyed me so drunk that she finaly got me to admit i felt the same. We saw each other for a wile and then after some famly issues she had to come and live with me and my pairents. This was realy a bad situation. I was very happey because my perants were willing to do that for me but it put a lot of strain on the relationship. After about 7 months we finaly found a flat we could both afford to run and we have been there ever since. I couldnt be happyer. with her support i have managed to find a job in IT managment and have finaly been able to afford a nice car and nice things. there isnt a real morle here apart from...It will find you, you will never find it. Beying shy and quight doesnt make any differnce if its going to happen it will. If it doesnt there is no point forcing the issue or changing you are who you are. Ps sorry about spelling no time to run though spell checker |
