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Zer0wned Koopa Since: 12-09-05 From: Torrance, ca Last post: 6589 days Last view: 6589 days |
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To start with a warning, this definitely isn't a clean subject, and since anya and elmo's corner or an equivalent apparently doesn't exist anymore, this seemed like the best place (and if it needs to be moved, notify me of where it was moved to please =D ).
Now for some liberal line breaking in order to prevent any unintended peripheral reading for the unwilling From an EXTREMELY young age (I'm talking around the age of 7), I've always seemed to have some higher than normal sex drive, as well as an accelerated growth rate, along with certain anger issues and above average strength, obviously the result of an excess of testosterone. A lot of these things have stabilized, both through aging and self-therapy, but what has remained is the intense sex drive, which in my independant situation has led to an addiction to porn (which is actually fairly neccessary to help uh... "regulate" those urges and clear my head of sexual thoughts so I can be productive). I have a girlfriend and everything, and she's fairly submissive and pretty sexually willing, but I only see her once a week, and I don't want to keep wasting our day away fooling around. I was in the coast guard for a while, but had to be discharged due to anxiety issues, but what was interesting was during my stay, sexual urges were non-existant. At first I thought it was something in the food, because some guys from prior service had mentioned this substance called "salt peder" that was rumored to be put in food. So I had thought that was the culprit, but I later found that it was stress, because I was in this thing called discharge hold, which is waaay less stressful, and everything returned to normal, even though I continued eating the same food. I really don't want this to continue at this level, it's causing some minor issues at the moment, and only seems to be getting worse. Aside from therapy, I so far see no option, no herbs, medicines, disipline can only help me for certain durations, but it's so primal it tends to take over on a chemical level, which is extremely frustrating. I'm pretty doubtful anyone can help, as I know this is rarely an exp |
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Rom Manic Since: 12-18-05 From: Detroit, WHAT?! Last post: 6431 days Last view: 6431 days |
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They used to put Salt Peter in our potatoes to keep us from being overly horny when I was in Air Cadets, but that's pretty much kid stuff. I dunno if they still would do that in any other military organization. | |||
Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6449 days Last view: 6449 days |
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You're not alone when it comes to sex drive. Sex occupies my mind almost 24/7, and yes, it does get on my nerves sometimes.
Of course, I'm 16. That explains a lot |
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Zer0wned Koopa Since: 12-09-05 From: Torrance, ca Last post: 6589 days Last view: 6589 days |
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Originally posted by Rom Manic I've actually never found any conclusive evidence as to the use of that. But interesting that you said potatoes, because I had noticed that starchy foods were the ones that seemed to have the greatest effects. Edit: I was doing some research, and came across this stuff called "chaste berry", also known as monk's pepper. Seemed like a safe possibility, so I'll give that a try and let you guys know how it goes =P. Edit2: I tried the Monk's pepper, and so far it seems to be good in reducing the uh... issue to more manageable levels. Could be psychosomatic, but we'll see as time goes. |
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ziffhasnoaim/password Snifit Since: 06-07-06 Last post: 6623 days Last view: 6623 days |
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You're how old? You're just like any other guy. | |||
MathOnNapkins 1100 In SPC700 HELL Since: 11-18-05 Last post: 6432 days Last view: 6431 days |
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Just had an idea...
you could like... cut or burn your hand(s) just enough so that the ol' faparoo is kind of painful to do. Of course you'd have to do it on a regular basis. Just thought I'd toss that out there. If you're really crazy you could do some damage to your member... heheh. Okay maybe this is a bad idea but I thought it was amusing. |
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Zer0wned Koopa Since: 12-09-05 From: Torrance, ca Last post: 6589 days Last view: 6589 days |
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Originally posted by ziffhasnoaim/password 18, but 4-5 or more times a day isn't typical (I've got a full time job, too). Originally posted by MathOnNapkins O_o, the point was to be more productive, but uh, thanks for the advice..? Anyway, update number 2: I only take the monk's pepper when I think it's becoming an issue (I'm not trying to deprive myself here, that's just unhealthy on both a physical and mental level), and it seems to still be working just fine. |
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Jomb Deddorokku Since: 12-03-05 From: purgatory Last post: 6434 days Last view: 6434 days |
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I dont have any particular suggestions, other than to tell you that in time the problem will solve itself if you dont solve it sooner. Your sex drive will decrease with age. I was never at the 4-5 times a day point, but i did want it pretty frequently when i was a teenager, now in my 20's i still want it alot, but probably about 1/2 what i used to want. | |||
Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now. Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6432 days Last view: 6432 days |
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Just fap the 4-5 times a day and don't worry about it. That's not so bad. My friends and I talked about it once and that's definately not the highest I've heard. It sounds to me more like you're having a guilt issue or insecurity about it. | |||
Xkeeper Took the board down in a blaze of glory, only to reveal how truly moronical ||bass is. Since: 11-17-05 From: Henderson, Nevada Last post: 6432 days Last view: 6432 days |
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Originally posted by Zer0wned It's still there, in the same place it's been sitting for years. |
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Zer0wned Koopa Since: 12-09-05 From: Torrance, ca Last post: 6589 days Last view: 6589 days |
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Originally posted by XkeeperOriginally posted by Zer0wned Significant name change =/= "same place", maybe that's just me and my crazy logic. Because "Femine's Corner A place for the female members, mostly about femine things or occasinally relationships and advice." Doesn't seem to hold the same description as the former anya and elmo's corner, and I therefore assumed that that was an entirely different board, for vimminz only. As for the guilt or insecurity, I don't see why I shouldn't be frustrated at being controlled like that. It's not so much what specifically distracts me from things I put on a higher regard, it's the fact that is does it in the first place, and that significantly/often. I embrace my sex drive and all, but not to this level. I actually think this generation is a little TOO embrasive of sex. discipline in many regards seems to be much less in value than "being true to yourself". I find that to be rather ridiculous as it takes much more effort and inner strength to overcome your inhibitions than to "embrace who you truely are". Anyway, I'm going to have to figure out or try something else, because the monk's pepper thing was only very mildly effective, or psychosematic like I'd thought. Tasted really gross if I burped, too . |
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windwaker Ninji i'm not judgemental, i'm cynical Lonely People of the World, Unite! Since: 12-27-05 Last post: 6461 days Last view: 6439 days |
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duck tape it. you'll be too afraid to peel it off that you'll never jerk the gherkin'. | |||
Ziff B2BB BACKTOBASICSBITCHES Since: 11-18-05 From: A room Last post: 6431 days Last view: 6431 days |
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Castration is an option, too. | |||
windwaker Ninji i'm not judgemental, i'm cynical Lonely People of the World, Unite! Since: 12-27-05 Last post: 6461 days Last view: 6439 days |
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Yes.
Do what has to be done. |
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anoobshobby Mini Octorok Since: 08-23-06 From: Chicago, Illinois Last post: 6433 days Last view: 6433 days |
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You're 18. You're at your sexual peak!
You're 18. You worry about that too damn much! You're 18. RELAX! You know, your physical fitness level plays into your sex drive. Not saying get fat, just that being physically fit tends to be a factor in sexual activity. You meantioned that stress played alot into you lack of drive. Well look at what it was that made you stressed. Could good stress cause you to do the same thing? Could you be too busy for sex? Or maybe, that's how you unwind because you only see your girlfriend once a week. One other suggestion I could give is just have at it. Go and run in the field, young colt. Maybe that will get it out of your system. You're only young once. |
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Zer0wned Koopa Since: 12-09-05 From: Torrance, ca Last post: 6589 days Last view: 6589 days |
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Originally posted by anoobshobby While this is a reasonable conclusion, I've actually had a similar issue as long as I can remember
Maybe, but it's definitely something to keep tabs on, especially now that I'm trying to act a little more professionally.
Workin' on it, honest!
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HyperHacker Star Mario Finally being paid to code in VB! If only I still enjoyed that. <_< Wii #7182 6487 4198 1828 Since: 11-18-05 From: Canada, w00t! My computer's specs, if anyone gives a damn. STOP TRUNCATING THIS >8^( Last post: 6432 days Last view: 6432 days |
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I've been in this situation. My dad was a pervert who left porno magazines laying around and even cut out pages and put them up on the walls, so I got practically addicted to porno at a very young age. Puberty only made it worse when I would get erections for no reason whatsoever. Even today I still tend to be a bit of a perv. The best thing to do is just take your mind off it. Go do something else; avoid looking at things that turn you on, and keep occupied. If you must, tuck your shirt into your pants and use the waist line to hold your wang in a vertical position (sticking out just above the pants, hence tucking in your shirt). It'll go back down quickly in that position.
Just about every guy gets like this around your age, but it drops back down to normal levels quickly enough. Just try to ignore it, and keep in mind you don't have to beat off every time you feel aroused. 4-5 times a day must be pretty painful. Once a day or so is actually supposed to be healthy though. |
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Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6449 days Last view: 6449 days |
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Originally posted by anoobshobbyNo. I'm chunky and my sex drive is through the roof. I could fuck all day long (actually, the longest I've had sex for was an hour. She came, I didn't). |
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rubixcuber Mole Since: 09-08-06 From: St. Louis, MO Last post: 6541 days Last view: 6541 days |
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Interesting... I'm 22 and male and I've never been in a relationship or looked at porn. I thought that was reasonably normal... | |||
MathOnNapkins 1100 In SPC700 HELL Since: 11-18-05 Last post: 6432 days Last view: 6431 days |
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Originally posted by rubixcuber No offense, but it's not considered normal. Now maybe if you were a strict christian (or other religion) and were brought up a certain way I wouldn't be surprised, but in the secular mainstream it's not normal. |
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