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witeasprinwow









Since: 12-29-05

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Posted on 07-05-06 11:52 PM Link | Quote
I hate to say this, but... You will understand when you are older.

I know that's the exact thing that has you frustrated with us here, and I got frustrated when older people used to tell me that too. But then I got older, and well, now I understand why they said it to me.

Just don't worry about it for now. You can't really have perspective on an event while living through it; You have to go through it and look back on it. Enjoy the moment.
Pyris

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Since: 07-05-06
From: Chicago

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Posted on 07-06-06 12:00 AM Link | Quote
*sigh*

I suppose there is no use reposting my points, so I'll drop it and agree to take advice from people who know more about it than me. I just dont like ageism.


(edited by Pyris on 07-05-06 11:10 PM)
MathOnNapkins

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Since: 11-18-05

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Posted on 07-06-06 01:04 AM Link | Quote
It may be ageism but put it in perspective... how likely is it that you would date the same person for 4 years of high school and then through college (if you go)? Complicates matters even worse when you're not of the same year in high school b/c one of you goes to college which is almost always inevitable breakup.
Pyris

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Since: 07-05-06
From: Chicago

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Posted on 07-06-06 02:00 AM Link | Quote
Wow... We just SCREEEEEEEAAAAMED at each other for an hour...Sux that I have to see her every day for the next 6 weeks...
Sweet Kassy Molassy
Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now.








Since: 06-17-06
From: LoozeeAnna

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Posted on 07-06-06 03:04 AM Link | Quote
WTF did she have to scream at you about? To hell with her.


(edited by Kasdarack on 07-06-06 02:04 AM)
pokerutoman

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Since: 07-02-06

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Posted on 07-06-06 04:48 AM Link | Quote
I'm Pyris' friend and I heard about some of the things she did, but my god! Dump her ass!
Tarale

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Affected by 'Princess Bitch-Face Syndrome' ++++!!
Persona non grata


 





Since: 11-17-05
From: Adelaide, Australia

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Posted on 07-06-06 10:24 AM Link | Quote
You're 14. I dunno what exactly it is about that age, but trust me, even nice girls are likely to be a bit fickle with regards to "relationships" at that age.

It's an awkward age for everybody, male or female. For the first time in your lives you're starting to experience a depth of emotion that you were not physically capable of doing before. The result is confusing as hell, and it's likely to result in some stuff that doesn't make a whole lot of sense.

I don't think your female friend is trying to be difficult. My guess is... I think what's more likely is that she's found herself in the middle of some complex and conflicting emotions here with this situation, and she probably believes they are in some way mutually exclusive.

She's probably a whole lot more comfortable with the friendship-relationship she has with her friend than she is with the romantic-relationship she has with you, so she's gone the "safe" option for her, emotionally.

At least, that's my guess, remembering what I could of the emotional headfuck confusion that was "14 years old".

I know that I would have chosen to retain the safe, comfortable relationship with my friend rather than risk it for a boy at that age...
Sweet Kassy Molassy
Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now.








Since: 06-17-06
From: LoozeeAnna

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Posted on 07-07-06 02:03 PM Link | Quote
*sighs* Why do you have to be rational, Taryn? Now we can't in good conscience be mad at the girl anymore
Tarale

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Affected by 'Princess Bitch-Face Syndrome' ++++!!
Persona non grata


 





Since: 11-17-05
From: Adelaide, Australia

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Posted on 07-08-06 01:19 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Kasdarack
*sighs* Why do you have to be rational, Taryn? Now we can't in good conscience be mad at the girl anymore


Don't worry, I don't think I'm rational all that often
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