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netscape Grizzo                  Since: 12-30-05 Last post: 6351 days Last view: 6347 days |
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I took your advice, was direct. It helped thanks  .
Turns out the problem is she thinks I'm obsessive, and could turn controlling. To be honest I think she could be right. With the obsessive I mean. I'd never intentionally be controlling. You know the walking on air super awesome can't say you each other enough start of a relationship? Well I liked how it made her happy. So kinda tried to keep it going beyond it's natural phase. I tried to mold myself to be perfect for her. Kinda let go the things that I like to do that didn't involve her. Now I gotta go back to natural, and I'm not sure what is. (edited by netscape on 12-31-06 07:46 AM) |
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netscape Grizzo Since: 12-30-05 Last post: 6351 days Last view: 6347 days |
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| Yea I think our relationship is in a death spiral. We used to be so good for each other. What went wrong? I guess I put too much pressure on her. I don't mean to. I tend to put too much of my time up for her. I don't make a big deal of it, bring it up, or expect anything out of it, but it makes her feel guilty and pressured and trapped. I don't exactly know how not to act that way though. She's all I really worry about. The rest of the world seems blah compared to her.
She asked me if I wanted out. I told her I didn't wanna end it. That we used to be so good for each other, and after some soul searching told her if she wanted out I didn't wanna keep her in something she wasn't happy in, and that's truth. Loosing her might seem like hell on earth right now, but her in something she ain't happy in is way worse. Anyway said she didn't know what she wanted, and that yea we used to be, but we ain't no more. She loves me back though just as much. I gotta make it work cause if it don't. She's gonna get hurt just as bad too. Part of me wants to run though. Love is cruel. I need some sleep. |
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netscape Grizzo  Since: 12-30-05 Last post: 6351 days Last view: 6347 days |
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| Nah I just got dumped.
Gonna go sleep till feel like myself, even if I'm awake while doing it. |
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netscape Grizzo  Since: 12-30-05 Last post: 6351 days Last view: 6347 days |
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Originally posted by Alkis You're falsely convicted (it happens) of theft. Now you're gonna have your finger nails removed by wedging bamboo in them. Justify this. Because it will happen or something just as bad under your system. |
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netscape Grizzo Since: 12-30-05 Last post: 6351 days Last view: 6347 days |
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| I refuse to hate her. I gave it my best. So did she. Sometimes people just aren't right for each other. The hurt will fade. I'll move on and so will she. It hurt her just as much as it did me. | |||
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netscape Grizzo Since: 12-30-05 Last post: 6351 days Last view: 6347 days |
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Originally posted by Tarale Thanks, but I ain't really that mature. That's just love. I still love her so much. I keep thinking about how much it's hurting her and it makes it 10x worse.
thanks for the advice.
but I can barely function right now. Need to keep the thinking to minimum. Vyper: I'm 23 and she's 30. |
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netscape Grizzo Since: 12-30-05 Last post: 6351 days Last view: 6347 days |
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| Here's my idea. Since Kim jong is in charge any beef we have with North Korea we have with him. So why not just harass the hell out of him personally? North Korea tests nukes so we use automated air craft to drop hundred of thousands of realistic looking photoshops of kim jong shagging a sheep on to the populated areas of NK. NK postures with SK so we send a small cheap remote control helicoptor with exp Basically make it intensely personal for him. |
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netscape Grizzo Since: 12-30-05 Last post: 6351 days Last view: 6347 days |
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| When I was a kid my mom made minimum wage, and was the single earner. It was rough. When the washer broke used to have wear dirty clothes to school or hand wash and hope they dried quick enough in the house for the next day. Food was definitely a problem. Nothing but pasta and potatoes usually. One week we had $20 to shop for 2 weeks food. At least we ate I suppose. When my mom was finally able to get a job that payed $8 the difference was amazing. The nursing home she worked at (she worked as a nurse's aid), they'd leave her taking care of 30 or so old people so she'd be exhausted when she got home to a meal of potatoes. Mean while the owner's dogs got gourmet dog food. :/
I say long over do. (edited by netscape on 01-19-07 11:29 AM) |
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