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Since: 11-14-06
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Posted on 11-23-06 08:29 PM Link | Quote
Hiya,

What can I do to overcome my pessimism and negativity? Because I'm being negative toward someone who I love. Yes, she's my girlfriend. How can I stop it and let it go. I felt terrible for it to happen.

I would like help or tips.

Thanks.
Arwon

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Posted on 11-23-06 09:10 PM Link | Quote
You're going to have to be more specific.
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Posted on 11-24-06 01:37 AM Link | Quote
Eh, pessimism is a relative term.

People called me a pessimist, but I just feel like I'm being realistic. And they're being idiots.
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Posted on 11-28-06 12:21 AM Link | Quote
Create an alter ego who's all about the awesome.

It worked for me.
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Posted on 11-28-06 02:33 AM Link | Quote
I prefer pessimism b/c when things go right, I'm always pleasantly surprised . If one is optimistic, it's just a setup to be let down.
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Posted on 11-28-06 12:25 PM Link | Quote
If there's something wrong, just be quiet. Think about something that makes you laugh and forget about your worries for awhile.
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Posted on 11-28-06 09:49 PM Link | Quote
How are you being pessimistic? Try to give a little more detail to the situation
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Posted on 11-28-06 10:51 PM Link | Quote
Why be pessimistic when you can be apathetic. Join us.
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Posted on 11-28-06 11:31 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Stalle
Why be pessimistic when you can be apathetic. Join us.

Excuse you, I'm an optimist. >8(
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Posted on 11-29-06 12:29 PM Link | Quote
Personally, I'm a slackist. When I have something to think about, I always rather not think about it, good or bad.

Rather, I'm a lush. The bad of the two. All I do is muse.

Actually I'm a stoic. A nominalist stoic. Who's too lazy to be a philanthopist.

Perhaps I am a hopefulist. An Irrationalhopefullush, with stoicslack qualities.


(edited by l0rca on 11-29-06 07:30 PM)
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Posted on 01-18-07 11:10 PM Link | Quote
I know the feeling. My old g/f broke up w/ be b/c she said i was a pessamist. For me she got tired of me complaining about my Great Granma that i live with. If it just a subject that you complain about, try not to talk about the subject. Just try to think about what hapened right & not what went wrong or what is going wrong. Or just make fun of the subject. You do kinda need to be a bit more specific about this to get better help.
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