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Dude Man Shyguy                Since: 11-18-05 From: Wareham MA Last post: 6330 days Last view: 6330 days |
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| My oh so wonderful ex (and I say that with all the sarcasum in the world) has put it upon herself to make my life as annoying as possible.
From the top... we went out for a bit, I almost slept with her. http://board.acmlm.org/thread.php?id=6169 She decided to cheat on me with her ex which literally set a warhead off inside me. I felt like the worlds biggest tool. I remained friends with her, she told me she loved me, I told her I loved her. About a week after dumping me we shared a kiss or two at the beach (this was while she was seeing her ex again, thus she was cheating on him) That brought alot of guilt on me. Our conersations became less romantic and consisted more finger pointing. At one point I told her that we shouldn't talk to each other, that going silent for a few weeks might help us cool off. She sure didn't like that. She began accusing me of stalking and harrasment. What the fuck.... a few months go by and I get an IM from a friend of hers telling me that if I don't leave her alone he'll either kill me or press legal charges (I find it hard to stalk somebody from my college campus without making any effort at all to communicate) Him and I cooled down and we began discussing the matter in a mature fashion. He asked if he could hear my side of the story and I agreed. Without insult or bias I told him everything that happened between me and her, including what happened at the beach. Fast forward to a month later. Everything is good, everything is great. I have a new girl friend who amazes me. College life is good, my friends rule. Life is sweet. One day, after dropping my girlfriend off back at her school, I receive an email from my ex titled "hows college" I figure that it didn't look threatening and opened it. She began by ranting about how much of a douche bag I supposedly was for telling her friend about me and her at the beach. I was angry as all hell and she sends me another email. Shes going around telling all my friends how much of an asshole I am... and it just pisses me the hell off. How could one person be such a jack-ass as to make me look bad out of what seems like boredom. Ughhhh I wanna fucking smash her knee caps!!! |
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MathOnNapkins  1100  In SPC700 HELL    Since: 11-18-05 Last post: 6279 days Last view: 6278 days |
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| She began by ranting about how much of a douche bag I supposedly was for telling her friend about me and her at the beach. I was angry as all hell and she sends me another email. Shes going around telling all my friends how much of an asshole I am... and it just pisses me the hell off. How could one person be such a jack-ass as to make me look bad out of what seems like boredom.
It's obvious that she was the one who looked like the jackass so she had to do some character assassination to make her self look better (and / or feel better about herself.) I wouldn't worry too much about it. If your friends are decent people they will see right through her bullshit, especially considering she's an angry exgirlfriend of yours. |
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Schweiz oder etwas [12:55] (Dr_Death16); I swear, the word drama needs to be stricken from the dictionary, for I've heard it so many times, it will permanently be imprinted on my brain   Since: 11-17-05 From: Kingston, Rhode Island Last post: 6279 days Last view: 6278 days |
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| On that note, you'll garner a lot more effective advice and attention if this is in the OC.
But yeah, obvious solution, ex girlfriend + bitch + rumors = be the bigger man here. You don't seem like a bad guy, and you can turn away from people easily. Saying no is the hardest part, but you've already done that so there's no reason for you to suffer any more for it. |
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Cruel Justice I have better things to do. Since: 11-18-05 From: At my house! Last post: 6279 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| If it's bullshit then why listen to it? The crap is obviously not worthwhile and you don't need to prove jack-shit. Continue on with your life, let them throw lies at you, take the hit (you'll get stronger) and eventually things will die off. If they insult you and you look completely nonchalant, who's gonna look like the jackass? THEY ARE!
Really man, they don't know a damned thing. They aren't even worth your time. Oh and another thing, tell her ex that death threats are far worse than "stalking". I'd tell him, "Oh wow, nice way to backup your facts asshat, you're in no position to bluff about some report when I could very-well get you jailed for threatening to kill me. And how the hell are you going to prove that I was in fact stalking her without any REAL witnesses dipshit? Make sure you wear a rubber pal she has herpes!" (edited by [GGS] Cruel Justice on 11-09-06 11:18 AM) |
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Metal Knuckles Tendoru  Since: 12-21-05 From: New Hampshire Last post: 6279 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Just tell her that if she sends another email or accuses you of something over the phone, you'll press charges for harassment. That should work. But don't let the small things in life like this get to you. Really, it's small. | |||
ibz10g Spiny Since: 08-10-06 From: Altoona, Iowa Last post: 6324 days Last view: 6324 days |
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| If she's anything like my friend's girlfriend, then she thinks everything in the world is about finding love. Since it isn't, you might do something that may suggest that will make her think you're mad at her for some reason. That would, in turn, cause her to make you look as bad as she can so that people won't think that she is the one who broke off your relationship.
I'm glad she is the only person I know like that. |
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