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Deleted User Banned Since: 05-08-06 Last post: None Last view: 6296 days |
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I love her guys.... I so love her.... We used to be together long ago, but now it seems like she acts as if she wants to get back together. We talk pretty good as friends now, but like I try never to talk about the time we went out. I've never loved someone so much, and it's like sometimes I think I've gotten over her, but I have'nt... So I'm kind of like seeing what more she'll do before I initiate anything... | |||
Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6313 days Last view: 6313 days |
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I see you've joined the millions of others that feel the same way.
Heartbreak sucks. I know the feeling quite well. In fact, I'm pretty much in the same exact situation as you. As are millions of others. Time heals all, friend. Time heals all... |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6405 days Last view: 6405 days |
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Can I call him a spineless pussy now? Is that allowed?
EDIT: I'm sorta pissed. I missed Ghost's time on the board. I didn't get to call him out for being a pansy. You have to understand my situation. (edited by witeasprinwow on 10-04-06 10:01 AM) |
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n3g-Z3r0 theory Rat Since: 01-09-06 From: Augusta, Ks Last post: 6338 days Last view: 6314 days |
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Ghost, as Vyper was saying, "Time heals all." Before truly becoming friends with her you needed to take some time to realize that she is over you and that you need to get over her. It may be hard at times but just realize. There are many other people out there for you. You can keep loving this person but instead of emotional love for the person change it to more of a friendly love. If she however does have feelings for you still, try and look at the situations as they happen and see if this is just her being friendly or if there is something more. | |||
Arwon Bazu Since: 11-18-05 From: Randwick, Sydney, NSW, Australia Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6296 days |
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Get her drunk. See if anything happens.
Seriously. I'm not talking taking advantage. Not so drunk that people lose all free will and self control, but drunk enough that you could really fancy something you wouldn't otherwise actively go for... like a kebab or, indeed, hook-up. If something happens, it's not really adding something that wasn't there, but simply bringing it out. Then you go from there. YMMV. |
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Young Guru Snifit Since: 11-18-05 From: Notre Dame, IN Last post: 6302 days Last view: 6295 days |
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That could quite possibly be the worst advice I've ever heard. And I'm not saying that because it sounds like it's taking advantage of someone (you clearly stated that wasn't the intent). The thing is, if she was interested in him a while ago she is probably physically attracted to him. Therefore, if she is drunk she might just lapse into being physically attracted to him and something might happen but there might not be anything emotional behind it and then there's just a whole disaster of someone thinking there are feelings there when they really aren't.
I've been in a similar situation and it's really up to you whether you want to just see if she does something or if you want to talk to her about it. I let it sit for about a month and then brought it up with her privately. We ended up not getting together, but still, it was good to just talk about it, and we're still friends now, so that's nice. |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6405 days Last view: 6405 days |
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Originally posted by Young Guru Better advice for Ghost might be "Grow a spine, and try and attach a brain to the top of it" |
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Tarale 2710 Affected by 'Princess Bitch-Face Syndrome' ++++!! Persona non grata Since: 11-17-05 From: Adelaide, Australia Last post: 6295 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Considering the original poster is a reregistered and banned user, and this thread really isn't going anywhere constructive... I'm going to close it now. |
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