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Randy53215

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Since: 11-17-05
From: Greenfield, Wisconsin (U.S.A)

Last post: 6296 days
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Posted on 09-13-06 02:07 AM Link | Quote
Recent chat with her as of now when I am posting this...



Her: hey
Randy Brown: you live
Randy Brown: exciting
11:15 PM
Her: shut up
Her: whats newq with you
Randy Brown: nothing much
Randy Brown: just school and such
Randy Brown: might be working at Best Buy soon
Randy Brown: dont tell me to shut up
Her: dude jodi was talking mad shit about you last night
11:20 PM
Randy Brown: about what?
Randy Brown: fuck that slutty ass bitch
Her: just how u said she is like a friend and i dunno she is such a bitch
Randy Brown: How I said she is like a friend? WTF I dont even talk to her anymore
Randy Brown: It dont matter
Randy Brown: I wanna move out soon
Her: she a crazt bitch
Randy Brown: shes after dads money
Randy Brown: just hope he doesnt fall for it.
Randy Brown: But yeah, im gonna look for opportunities as far as housing
Randy Brown: so yeah
Her: yeah
11:25 PM
Randy Brown: yeah
Her: randy i am so depressed
Randy Brown: why is that?
Her: i want to be with my dad and grandma
Randy Brown: Dont talk so stupid... Whats wrong?
Her: i was daddy's little girl and i want him to be with me again
Randy Brown: You dont know whats after death, and who knows whats on the other side, it could be something totally different then what you are obsurving it as
Her: yeah but i could be with my dad
Randy Brown: You still are daddy's little girl, hes just in a better place. Your time will come, he wouldnt want you to be saying what your saying right now
Randy Brown: Notice you said COULD
Randy Brown: who knows what its like on the "Other side"
Her: my dad and thats all i want
11:30 PM
Randy Brown: Dont talk like this Karla.... Is this all thats bothering you right now? Anything I could do?
Her: i want my dad
Randy Brown: I know how you feel, I want my Grandma, my Grandpa I never met and such, just dont do anything stupid.
Her: i wont
Randy Brown: Good because that would only make more people depressed and such, did you talk to your doctor about this?
Her: no
Her: i don;t think that shit helps
Her: i mena like since i moved i have no friends no one calls me anymore andi want my dad
Randy Brown: I know this is hard, but its hard to get over the fact about this. Just think of how Steve Irwin's daughter is doing right now.
Randy Brown: Well think about things, people are mad at Brandon, people are in school, people are working now and such so everything is really fucked up
Her: yeah and i bet you anything she wants her dad like i wnat mine
11:35 PM
Her: yeah but i bet they have 5 minutes to talk to me or at least call me back
Randy Brown: Yeah but realize the fact there is nothing you or anyone can do about that. Its just something we have to grasp and deal with that when we die. No, im not saying go kill yourself, if anything im trying to prevent that....
Randy Brown: Who did you call that didnt call you back?
Randy Brown: Noone really talks to Brandon anymore because of the whole "Ross" thing
Her: yeah i know
Randy Brown: So if you want to do something how come you never call me or mark or something?
Randy Brown: you gotta realize, you live on the NORTHSIDE total opposite side of us
Her: i do
Randy Brown: I never got a call
Her: yeah but they can call me too i alwys call them
Her: i called you on my birthday and left you a message
Randy Brown: True, in all honesty nothing exciting has happend, we all just sat around and such. And me and Ross doing our ITT homework after school and job hunting
Randy Brown: I never got that message....
Her: o
Randy Brown: By the way speaking of which I never said happy birthday which I meant to say.
Randy Brown: So... Happy late Birthday
Her: thanks
Randy Brown: your welcome
Randy Brown: im 18 now.
Her: i know happy late birthday to you too
11:40 PM
Randy Brown: thanks
Randy Brown: I just got drunk on my birthday
Randy Brown: I was plastered
Her: me too
Randy Brown: So you live by yourself now or what?
Her: no a girl from work
Randy Brown: Lesbians, nice. Haha just kidding
Her: no shut up
Randy Brown: Im just messing around
Her: i know
Randy Brown: so yeah anythnig else new? THAT POSITIVE and not NEGATIVE?
Her: not really i am going to cali next month
Randy Brown: for what?
Her: see my cousins
11:45 PM
Randy Brown: ah cool anthing else new with you, your like up to nothing anymore
Her: no just work
Randy Brown: ah
Randy Brown: I suppose my life has been really boring too.
Randy Brown: Nothing I can do that will make you feel better?
Randy Brown: Get better damnit.
Her: ill try
Her: hang on i gotg to make a drink
Randy Brown: no you will
Randy Brown: are you drunk?
Her: yes
Randy Brown: is that why your talking about this or is this not the alcohol?
11:50 PM
Randy Brown: you therre?

So yeah any help would be appreciated...
spiroth10

Paratroopa


 





Since: 01-28-06
From: USA

Last post: 6295 days
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Posted on 09-18-06 11:36 PM Link | Quote
well, first of all, try and talk to her when she's sober. people say weired shit when they're drunk.

next, try and make sure she's not abusing alcohol -- if she is, she might do something stupid while she's drunk.

do you talk to her in the real world? if so, go tell her that you care about her -- it seems she's lonely. I'm sure she has some relatives or friends somewhere, so an intervention might help if you feel this is really serious.

you should also try to help her find healthier methods of moving on -- alcohol can NOT truly get somebody out of pain, for her, it seems to make it worse (it's a depressant -- so are anti-depression medications, so they dont always work on everyone.)

thats all the advice I have to offer, surprised nobody else did.
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