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Danielle     6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE                     Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| I'm learning to snake, but I haven't mastered it yet. It's still, sort of, a running-into-grass/walls-mess kind of snaking. But I'm working on it.
And tell whoever Kevin is that he's a tard for BREAKING A DS LITE WTF. Just try your best to arrange something, that's all you can do. It will work out eventually.  Maybe once you talk with her and she finally sees things the right way (involving you and how you aren't some creep, you just want to be friends), then you can get along great with her, too. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji   Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Yea, that's all I want.
I don't want to be 'needy' I don't want to be melodramatic, I just f5cking want us to be friends and not always be doubting whether or not our friendship is genuine. And no, it's not that I'm paranoid, because I don't have this problem with any of my other friends, only her. Know why? Because they don't act differently around me like she does. Well, I shouldn't be fretting about thi anyway, because, really, if she was relaly my friend, I'd have to reason to fret at all. So we'll see what happens...4 weeks from now.
Snaking does take time. I guess it came easy to me because I was doing it on MK64/MKDD before I even know what it was. I just called it, like, hyper drifting, until MKDS came out. Then all of a sudden I heard the term 'snaking.' And snaking isn't cheap, it's that extra layer that gives the game challenge. Mastering snaking is what it takes to master the game, basically. Kevin is a host in Attack of the Show... And he busted one because people are whining about the 'cracking hinge' on DS Lites, so he totally busted one, and was mock complaining, like, "Wow, I mean, look at how shoddy and flimsy it is." Then he picked up the bottom half and started Pictochatting. In other words, he was joking about how stupid people are. And well, making a spectacle. Though his cause was entertaining...he DID still break one... |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6389 days Last view: 6389 days |
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| Destiny Smasher, I don't think we can really give you any more advice in this thread.
Just relax for now and talk to her about it when you can. Be gentle and understanding, and don't be accusational, but still make your point clear and say what you need to say. If she thinks you're an OK person, then she will probably be cooperative. If she doesn't, then it ends. Oh well. She's just a friend, and it doesn't really sound like she's a close friend, at that. What harm could not talking to her again really do to you? She is not your validation. You do not need her. |
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S.N.N. wtf Since: 11-17-05 From: Ontario, Canada Last post: 6285 days Last view: 6280 days |
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Here's my question:
 things about it, but meh.(edited by S.N.N. on 07-19-06 10:40 AM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Yes, I know I don't NEED her.
Technically, I don't NEED anyone. But I WANT people in my life as friends. And no, we're not close friends, but I view our potential friendship as something worth fighting for, for whatever reason. I can't explain it. And yea, I know, there's not really any more advice to get on the matter, anyway. I was just venting. I do that. And if it ends, yes, it ends. Not 'oh, well,' but, 'Man, that sucks.' Of course you're apathetic because you're not in my position.
But yes, if it ends, then it means she wasn't worth my effort after all. I'm very tempted to answer this question myself...even though this is Ask Danielle... And yes, that was a very dumb question, by the way. (1st one) However, it depends on just how much you like Mario Kart. And I will avoid answering that question and leave it for Danielle. LOL. But I will say that Mario Kart DS is not the only reason to scoop up a DS. Castlevania DS is very good. Nintendogs is pretty good, too, if you're into that sort of thing. Animal Crossing DS is ALSO very good for that type of gamer. Metroid Prime Hunters is awesome, and Tetris DS is surprisingly fun. M+L: Partners in Time is good, but I'm big into the Mario RPG games, and it's prolly the worst of them. Still a good game, though, and worth playing. But, and this is coming from someone who has played every Mario RPG game before this for at LEAST 120 hours each, this game isn't really worth playing through again. I dunno why, I just never felt like it. Maybe just personal taste, or something. Also, New Mario Bros. is pretty darn good. And there's a host of happy DS games coming out soon, soooo...Yea. If you haven't gotten one yet, do so. If you like good games, you'll be pleased. |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| SNN: I think it's very worth it. I just spent my own hard earned money on buying a Lite and MKDS, and I'm not regretting it one bit. And it's not like MKDS is the only game you can play. Any GBA games you might have, or want to have (which are much cheaper than DS games), as well as a handful of DS games that I've heard only good things about. New SMB, Animal Crossing, Castlevania, SM64DS, Big Brain Academy... you don't have to get them all at once, but there's a great line-up of games for when you do want another one.
But if you don't think you'll play it very often, or feel like it will be a waste, then don't get it. Don't make it be a waste of money.
Destiny Smasher: There's nothing else I can say to help your situation, so just wait until she's back and do it. And what is it with people answering my questions? It's Ask DANIELLE. >8( |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6389 days Last view: 6389 days |
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Originally posted by Danielle I'm illiterate. Sorry. If it makes you feel any better (and it won't), I have a question to ask you. Maybe I should be asking a guy this rather than a girl, but whatever, I'll give it a shot. I'm having trouble getting girls alone to talk to. There's someone I genuinely like, and true to stereotypical me, I joke and flirt shamelessly and tease her and whatever. It's pretty obvious I like her. By pretty obvious I mean real, real fucking obvious. I'm not obsessive or weird about it, I just make my feelings clear in my actions. Anyways, I'm pretty sure she likes me back. She gives me exaggerated laughs when I make sub-par jokes, she gives me openings / obvious reasons to touch her (Ex She'll start singing a song I hate so I can grab her and put my hand over her mouth)... I feel like I'm in if I just talk to her about it. And that's where I am getting stuck. That's ALWAYS where I start fucking up... right at the end. I'm like the JJ Reddick of womanizing. (Yes, I make sports analogies about relationships) I just can't get myself to get her alone, for some reason. It's not that I'm afraid of rejection... It's just that I'm afraid of being obvious. For example, she whines to me that she is tired and has to leave soon, and obviously this is my chance to walk her to her car, and then we get to talk alone and away from friends/other people. But then for some reason, I can't fucking bring myself to do it, especially in front of other people. It's just too obvious of a sign for me to feel comfortable with, even though I know it's the right thing to do if I want to be with her. It's like I have trouble admitting to myself that I like her. I don't know. Maybe I'm afraid of sucess, or maybe I care too much about what other people think. Any advice? Obviously you're gonna say "grow some fucking balls and do it," but, well... I've been saying that to myself, and it isn't quite inspiring me enough. Anyone else who knows what they are doing with women, I won't be upset if you chime in. You know who you are. (edited by witeasprinwow on 07-19-06 05:18 PM) |
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neotransotaku Sledge Brother Liberated from school...until MLK day  Since: 11-17-05 From: In Hearst Field Annex... Last post: 6282 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Q1: You won't answer my earlier question?
Q2: What would you do if you had a friend who believed had Dependency Personality Disorder? Said friend does exhibit some of the symptoms. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| I know, Danielle, I wasn't asking for anymore advice, silly.
Hm... Sprinwow, it can be hard to talk to a girl about that, but, and you saw this coming, be thankful you have a friend who might like you back--and if not, at least she's not uncomfortable around you alone. Anyway, is it really that hard to get some alone time with her when she actually LIKES being alone with you? Have you tried to sort out what you want to say beforehand? Because if you haven't, no wonder it's so hard--you don't know what to say. There's some advice for you. "Ask DANIELLE. >8(" I'm illiterate, too.
But I'm sure Danielle, who's probably actually been IN a relationship before, could you help you more with that.  Lord knows she'll probably help ME somehow by answering your question. LOL. |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Neo: I posted a minute after you asked that question, so I obviously didn't see it. My bad.
As for the Dependancy Disorder, that's tricky. Is it someone that depends on you, or do you just notice that they're dependant on others (ie parents or best friends, boy/girlfriend)? If you think that they don't know it, or are ignoring it, then I'd suggest *KINDLY* bringing it up with them. Let them know that it's not good to live their life depending on someone else, possibly crippling that person's lifestyle because of what they may be doing for the person with the illness...offer to help. I'd have more to say if you gave me more info about the person/situation. =\ DS: *smacks you* Wite: I understand your worry of how she might perceive you... that's jus human nature. If everything you say is true, with her reurning the flirting, purposely creating contact between you, etc, then I think she'll be ecstatic that you ask her out. It might be obvious, but even you said yourself that your flirting makes you obvious. She KNOWS, man, so why not go for it? Just be casual about it, don't let yourself get tongue-tied or go off on a tangent, just ask her out. She'll get your drift. Flirting is like, really REALLY hard to not see... she'd have to be pretty... uhh... what's the word... thick... if she doesn't have a feeling that you like her. I don't see any negatives here, just go for it. The next time you walk her out to the car, or have a moment alone, just tell her that you like her and would like to date. JUST DO IT! And good luck. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Hey, I didn't deserve a smack.
What's wrong with getting extra points of view? Did you smack HIM when he was giving ME advice?
Anyway, yea, see...Being thick doesn't have to do with it. Some people just don't even consider the possibility of someone liking them, so you could flirt with them and they may not catch on. I've seen it happen. Sometimes, though, you can just be silly and friendly, and they'll misinterpret that as flirting...which is REALLY annoying. But it does sound like your situation is just fine. Yea, I'd agree--just be casual, tell her what's up, lay it out on the line. A man who has a lot of experience told me recently that when you're entering a relationship, it's very good to lay all of the important basics out on the line. For example, whether or not you're looking for a serious relationship. Because there's people out there like me who are, and others who only want 1-night stands, etc. And it can be helpful to know from the get-go what you're both looking for. For example, my friend, when she found out I liked her, assumed that I only wanted to date her JUST for the sake of dating her--not that I'm interested in a very serious, hardly sexual relationship. Aaaaaand...that can be a problem, because then they can get creeped out. But good luck with that, tell us how it goes. |
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Iori Yagami Hardhat Beetle  Since: 11-18-05 From: Hell's keeper Last post: 6487 days Last view: 6487 days |
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Is it sad that I don't know about flirting or know how to flirt?  |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now.  Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6280 days |
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| My middle name is Danielle.
Wite... if you're not able to make yourself talk to her alone... maybe it's something that will become a non-issue after that first time. If you can't bring yourself to do it, maybe just... next time you are around her and thinkingof asking her out just go ahead and lean over and ask her quietly if she'd like to go have coffee or something later. Then you'll be committed and not have to be nervous about it anymore. I understand that askinga girl out that first time can feel even more awkward than it actually is. I've asked girls out and that's just how it is sometimes. But if you like her and she likes you there's no reason notto go for it. She'll probably think it's kinda cute that you're nervous... And if she's manufacturing reasons to be alone with you she probably realizes that it can be hard for a guy to make that first move so she's trying to make it easy for you. Man... I love that feeling you get when you have a new girlfriend. I hope this works out for you. *looks at his birth certificate* Yep, definately Jonathan Rebekah Danielle Stewart. No smacks for me. *whistles* |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| I would kick you, Kas, but I hear it's your birthday. I'll have to resist.
DV: If you can't tell when you flirt, then step out of the box for a moment and look at what you're saying. How does it look to someone else? |
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Amanda Red Paratroopa Since: 03-13-06 From: Georgia Last post: 6323 days Last view: 6292 days |
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| Dear Danielle -
Did you know that we are long lost sisters of some sort? My mother almost gave me the middle name of Danielle. XD |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| That's not as bad as Alexis Nevaro (Gamespot). XD
"Man... I love that feeling you get when you have a new girlfriend. I hope this works out for you. " I hope it works out, too. "That feeling when you have a new girlfriend?" Yea, I don't know that feeling. As unrealistic as it may be, I'll probably only ever get that feeling once or none. But who knows at this point? I sure as hell don't. Maybe one of my problems is the freakin' UBER CONSERVATIVE community I live in.  ;
Flirting, huh? Yea, I'm not so good at that, either. LOL. I can't ever tell when a girl flirts with me (assuming that's ever happened). And I certainly don't know how to be consciously flirty myself. But yea, Danielle's right on the dot about that, I agree. |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| I'm about to change the thread title to "Ask id#14." Thanks a lot guys. >8( NONE OF YOU ARE NAMED DANIELLE STOP ABUSING THE NAME.
Flirting is usually very obvious, unless you totally not expecting it, like if it's a cousin flirting.  Just watch the body language and their tone of voice, if they're giving little innuendos and whatnot. Typically, it's not very secretive. |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6389 days Last view: 6389 days |
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| How about this: From here on out, if you are not satisfied with Danielle's answers, just make a new thread about the topic with the info you posted here.
Or, if you want to give your own input, PM the user who asked the question. I'll let you know what happens with this girl. I'm supposed to see her soon, but I had a concussion today and I feel like shit. I may be cancelling plans. |
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Cirvania Cyball I guess this is as close as Xkeeper will get to spell it right. :< Since: 11-17-05 From: The Island of Puerto Rico. Last post: 6282 days Last view: 6280 days |
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| 1. Your thoughts on maternity?
2. There is no two. Or is there?  |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Or you know, we could just sort of add our input, since that's kind of the whole point of a message board...
I don't really think it's a matter of being satisfied with Danielle's answers, I think it's just helpful to get more than one opinion on a matter without having to write it in 5 different places. Anyway, that sounds like an OK plan, I guess. I think what you mean is, whoever wants to add input on someone's question, PM them, right? And also, why are you getting so upset because people are talking to each other...? *is confused* I understand this is 'Ask Danielle' but what's the point in a forum if people can't talk openly...? It's not like someone else adding their own opinion devoids yours or something. So, what webcomics do you read, Danielle, if you read any? And do you watch G4? (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 07-22-06 12:17 AM) |
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