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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now.                   Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6280 days |
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| No thanks. Waxing costs money. And probably hurts more than I'd be willing to deal with. Of course, no razor burn would be nice...
So instead of spamming, I'll ask another question. How can I eliminate razor burn/irritation/ingrown hairs? It's not a big deal on my head or face, but when I shave my stomach I get bumps, especially where the waist of my pants rub. If I pour astringent all over myself after shaving and in the shower for the next few days it seems to help, but doesn't eliminate the problem. So I usually just run my clippers over my chest instead of shaving. This leaves it stubbly (not very visible) and my last girlfriend complained. Help? |
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Danielle     6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE     Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Use a gal's razor (I'd suggest Venus) and gal's shaving cream that has vitamin E in it. The gel that I use is called Skintimate, it's kept me from ever getting razor burn or irritated skin -- And I have REALLY sensitive skin. I used to just use soap, and it caused serious razor burn, so I had to switch. As for the razors, female ones have those strips of aloe on them to help avoid nicks or razor burn.
Every guy I know that's tried women's supplies loves them. ;D |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Thanks, Danielle.
Although, honestly, I spend a lot more time socializing than SHE does. She's a music major, meaning she has little to no time for socializing. Fake...That's what it is, she FEELS fake when she's with me, I just KNOW she's not being herself. In high school, when she found out a boy liked her, she would purposely not be herself around him, purposely not be as friendly, avoid them, etc., because she didn't want to hurt their feelings. I don't see how the HELL that makes any sense--yea, completely ignoring someone, breaking up a friendship, that will OBVIOUSLY make me feel better. 
At this point, I don't care if that type of relationship isn't going to happen, I understand, yea, if she doesn't like me, it's all right, I'll get over it. But a lost friendship is a LOT different. I'm not going to be able to talk with her for another month or so. She'll get back from taiwan about a month from now, and I'll try and get some time to talk with her before classes start--once classes start, it'll be really hard, because she gets real busy. Don't worry, I'll definitely tell you how it goes. |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6389 days Last view: 6389 days |
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Originally posted by D3stiny_Sm4sher Look; most girls have finely honed antenna for guys liking them. Honestly, girls have much better game than guys do. (Yes, I said "game." Sue me  )
If you like her AT ALL, then she can probably tell. And she probably feels awkward around you because of it, or she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or maybe both. Maybe she feels like keeping you around is just asking for more drama. Of course, girls are crazy, so it could be none of the above. I have no clue how social you are or how well you fit into social situations either, so maybe she's just right. Be honest with yourself about that. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| I AM honest with myself.
And she's just as 'socially awkward' as I am. And she probably could tell I liked her before, but she KNOWS I'm not going to act on those feelings, and it's ridiculous for her to conclude that I'm 'suspicious' JUST because I like her. And if she doesn't want to hurt my feelings, why is she PURPOSEFULLY not acting like herself and trying to dismanyle our friendship? How the hell is that supposed to not hurt my feelings? And how is patronizing me supposed to not hurt my feelings? 'Keeping me around?' If that's really the way she views it, that might be a problem. Friends don't 'keep me around.' Friendship is a mutual thing, not an 'I own you, I guess I'll let you stay' thing. The only reason I'm asking for 'more drama' is because the 'drama' hasn't been taken care of. I don't want more, I want to get rid of what's there, and it doesn't work when she acts so weird and doesn't treat me fairly. And what is she 'maybe right' about? You're not really clear about what you meant.
Anyway, I'm not letting my feelings for her disrupt our friendship because I value our friendship! If she DOESN'T value our friendship, then she will let feelings like that get in the way. The whole point of me talking to her is to find out if she actually GIVES a crap, because real friendships aren't apathetic. Those are acquaintances. If all I am to her is an acquaintance, I want to know so that I'm not spending time building a friendship that doesn't EXIST on her end. (edited by D3stiny_Sm4sher on 07-15-06 01:21 PM) |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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I still don't know why you're giving her the time of day if she's like that... she's obviously not a good friend.  Just let her do her thing by herself, she'll start to realize where her poor attitude gets her. |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6389 days Last view: 6389 days |
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Originally posted by D3stiny_Sm4sher Welcome to the wonderful world of women. Keep prozac handy at all times. Most girls will avoid talking about a topic they think might cause harm and will just try to have it fade away, rather than dealing with it. Most girls are like that. I'm sure she's had at least one guy try the friend->good friend->great friend->boyfriend thing on her and had it end horribly, so she might be wary of that, too. What I was trying to say is that I don't know you or how socially fluent you are in real life, so I was asking you to step back and be honest about how socially fluent you are. If the answer was "not really fluent," then maybe she is right about feeling awkward around you. That's all. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Yea, I get that, what I'm saying is, if I'm socially awkward, she qualifies as being socially awkward, too.
And yea, I know girls tend to be like that. And I'm not trying to climb some ladder of hierarchy to be her boyfriend, I just want us to be actual FRIENDS, period. If it goes to something more, that's great, if it doesn't, that's great, too, I just want it to be STABLE and meaningful instead of confusing and pointless. I give her the time of day because she's a good person and a good friend--just not a good friend toward ME. And when I see her being HERSELF, I realize that we could get along great. And on the RARE ocassion she actually acts like herself around me, it's amazing, and a friendship with that person is worth it to me. And by the way, women don't really 'got game' like you think. Yea, she could tell I liked her, but guess what? EVERY girl I've made friends with this year has thought, at some point, that I liked them. And most of them would be wrong. I'm not saying they can't tell, but they do seem to be so preoccupied that they put those assumptions first, when they shouldn't be. I've lost potential friendships because girls automatically assumed I was 'interested' in them when I wasn't at all. Ironically, all of those are friends with this girl I'm having issues with. That's not 'game', that's blind assumptions. |
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Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom  Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Here's a kicker for you.
My girlfriend (Tara) has this friend named Holden. Now, he's a nice guy and all, but he wants to be more than just friends with Tara. And he's willing to lie straight to Tara's face to try and get it. I'm very faithful and definitely trust Tara. However, she's friends with Holden because "he really needs a friend right now." And they hang out all the time, and Holden is always hitting on Tara. And that really irritates me. I want to give her space and let her live her own life and all, but I just can't stand the fact that this guy Holden still hits on Tara, even though he knows she's with me. This all stemmed from an event on Saturday. Holden told me that Tara was cheating on me with him, and I told Tara. When Tara asked him about it he said that he told me they were just friends. Obviously this guy's a lying piece of shit, but how can I show that to my girlfriend without invading her life and seemingly being controlling. How should I deal with this guy Holden? Please, if you can help me Danielle, I would very much appreciate it 
EDIT: Again, Tara and I talked about it and she's said countless times she won't cheat on me. And I believer her totally
Tara's mom's opinion: "Holden is a diry liar and you can't trust him. He's worthless." Tara got mad at her for saying he's worthless. (edited by Vyper on 07-16-06 11:00 PM) |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Vyper: That's tough. There's a very fine line between being concerned and being overprotective and jealous. You trust her, so that's a good start. If she says she's not cheating on you with him, you believe her, and that means a lot. Your problem is that you don't trust HIM. Just sit down with her and tell her that he makes you uncomfortable, that he's a liar and obviously has motives of dating her. She might get upset that you'd think she would cheat, but you need to assure her you aren't concerned with her, it's him you're worried about. Tell her what he's said to you, and maybe talk with him while Tara is present... we'll see if he'll lie to her as well as you. While it isn't right to tell her to never see him, I'm sure the two of you together can work something out so that you're both comfortable. It's sad that there are people that pathetic. =\
If, after talking with her about it, she still won't believe you that he wants to get in her pants, then I'd consider asking her to not spend so much time alone with him -- That doesn't mean going with you, but maybe a friend of hers that knows she's with you, so that he won't pull a quick one. I don't see why she wouldn't agree with that. I hope this Holden kid grows up. =\ |
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Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Thanks, you're a great help Danielle |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Hey, I was wondering...
Now that I have a plan here... How should I go about asking her to talk with me about the matter after shje gets back from Taiwan? And what if she declines? She seems to have a habit of avoiding spending time alone with me, no matter how innocent it is. I've never done anything to give her reason that I'm 'suspicious,' yet, a year later, she still seems to think that I am. What's a guy gotta do to disprove such notions? Oh, and get this... She's 20, right? Her mom still tells her when to go to bed, scolds her about doing homework when college is in, and when she gets home at the end of her day, her mom doesn't let her get online because she's already had "enough social time for the day." 
Maybe her odd, over-controlling mother has a little something to do with how weird she acts... Or maybe it's the her being Taiwanese in general. But that's a narrow-minded way of looking at it. |
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Shadic The Adventure of Link Perfect Member Since: 11-18-05 From: Olympia, Washington Last post: 6286 days Last view: 6282 days |
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| In uh, less personal matters..
Would you like to play Mario Kart DS with me? |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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Now why didn't I think of that? I'm looking for Mario Kart DS friends myself, as well as Tetris DS and Metroid Hunters...Maybe I should look into that... |
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Black Lord + Flurry Since: 11-17-05 From: Where indians still roam... Last post: 6281 days Last view: 6282 days |
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| Have you ever ended the quest for the clitoris? I wanna know what you think of it?
Thanks, Nebraska clit-lover |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Shadic: YES YES YES but I hope you don't snake, or you'll severely kick my ass.
Destiny Smasher: SAME AS ABOVE BL: XDDD I'm still on the quest, but I have high hopes. Very high hopes. |
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Black Lord + Flurry Since: 11-17-05 From: Where indians still roam... Last post: 6281 days Last view: 6282 days |
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Originally posted by Danielle 
I'm sorry your journey has not ended. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Mario Kart's boring without snaking.
Um...Why are you yelling, "SAME AS ABOVE"? You mean the short post about letting her realize how stupid she is...? Because that won't work. Know why? She only has that attitude toward ME. So are you saying I shouldn't talk to her at all, then? Now I'm a bit confused. Oh, wait...You were talking about MKDS, weren't you?
Well, if so, could you answer my other question, then, please? I mean, if a guy had something like that he needed to tell you, how would you want him to initiate the conversation? As much as I want to just rub in her face the insensitive things she's done, that may just get her upset and angry and she may not listen at all. |
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Danielle 6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Whoops, sorry DS, I got excited about people wanting to play MKDS with me. Forgot to answer your first question.
I'd just tell her, you want to talk to her about the way she treats you, and sound sincere. If she tries to protest, tell her you just want to talk, nothing more, and it's not going to take all day. Start talking before she can think of a reason to leave. Know what you want to say so that you don't stutter and give her a chance to stop your momentum. She's probably going to try and get out of it, but if you're one step ahead, she'll have to do some listening. And if you immediately remind her that you're not going to jump on her, not going to force her into a relationship, and that you just want to talk, hopefully she'll chill out. As for getting her alone to talk, I'm sure you can figure that one out. You can ask her friends to give you a few minutes to talk with her, and while they may be skeptical I doubt they're going to tell you no. As for her mom, eh. I have a controlling parent as well, very similar, and it doesn't really affect me aside from pissing me off. If she's that easily controlled, then she wouldn't be so difficult with you, so I don't think her mom has anything to do with it. She's just... not nice to you. =\ |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| She's...nice...to me...Technically.
See, that's the funny part. TECHNICALLY, she's nice to me. She's always trying to make sure I don't get hurt. Problem is, by doing so, she DOES hurt me. It's not about her being nice, it's about her -- ... ... OMG, Kevin just totally BROKE a DS Lite on Attack of the Show... He just...shattered it. "Yea, wow, I mean, look at how flimsy that is..." I love Kevin. I'm not sure whether to respect him for making that point or disrespect him for breaking a DS Lite... And...he's still playing it... Without the top screen, since he snapped it off... ... ... Um...where was I...? Oh, right. Yea, it's about her being...insensitive. She just...doesn't CARE. That's what it is. And I can't have friends who just don't give a crap about our friendship. Hm...See, problem is, I'm not gonna be able to see her unless I prearrange something. Her friends won't be back until school starts, a week after she gets back. I have no idea what she'll be up to that week... She's so odd in that she hatesa prearranging times to hang out, but if I don't do that, I'll never get to really spend time with her unless I try tagging along with her when she goes wherever, and...yea. I shouldn't feel guilty for spending time with her, and yet I often feel that way because of the way she acts. So I guess I'll just ask if she wants to hang out, go for a walk, whatever. Not that she really seems to LIKE doing normal things like that... Her controlling mom affects her in making her think very uber conservatively. But that may also just be her culture, where no matter how controlling your mother is, or how old you are, she's always right and you must ALWAYS comply. She told her friends that whenever she hangs out with me, she always feels that something isn't quite right, and when I asked her about it, I told her to tell me what I ever did to give her the right to find me suspicious. And she tells me I haven't done anything, yet she still thinks that way. That's kind of understanale at first, but a YEAR later? And ya know what's real annoying? I tell my friends about this, and guess what? They get along GREAT with her. And I'd play MKDS, but... If you don't snake, what DO you do? I mean, mastering the fine art of snaking is, like, half the fun of playing!
Mario Kart DS is just so amazingly good, though...*drool* I don't know how on earth they're gonna top it with the next one. |
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