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Doritokiller Mole                   Since: 06-15-06 From: California Last post: 6423 days Last view: 6285 days |
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Originally posted by NSNick Heh. You should see middle school. One-week relationships where the couple really doesn't show any love for eachother. All they do is hold hands ALL DAY. Seriously, two lovers never hold hands that long. |
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Dude Man Shyguy  Since: 11-18-05 From: Wareham MA Last post: 6331 days Last view: 6331 days |
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| If there is anything I learned about highschool relationships it's not to bother with high school relationships. I didn't get my first real girlfriend until after May when I graduated.
Your only 16. I'm just getting into this stuff now. |
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Xeo Belmont Wiiiiiiiiiiiiin  Since: 11-17-05 Last post: 6279 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| I only read the first post, but look ... I'm 18, will be 19 by the end of this year. I have not yet found myself in any kind of relationship with a girl at all.
Yes, I'll admit I've been annoyed by it myself, and sometimes wish things were different. But it doesn't put me in a depressed mood or anything. That and I'm going to College next year, hoping things will be different. Simply put, you're only 16. I even say to myself, I'm only 18. There's still plenty of time. |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now.  Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6280 days |
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| Yeah. 16.
Wait till you're MY age and then give up on women like I have  |
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Grunkles Micro-Goomba Since: 06-12-06 Last post: 6487 days Last view: 6487 days |
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| I think the question Spiroth10 has to ask himself here is whether or not he really wants a girlfriend.
Many times I felt down on myself and equated my feelings of depression with loneliness. It wasn't until a bit later that I realized that regardless of whether or not I was in a relationship, those problems would still exist. Furthermore, I would probably just be dumping that baggage off on that other person. Therefore, a relationship wasn't the answer to my problems. When it comes to yourself; always keep a tidy house. Know what's going on. Be honest with yourself. Be willing to face problems and challanges (no matter how ugly) and confront them. Being straight-forward with yourself will build character. You will show strength on the outside because of it as well. And soon, you'll find that girls will actually be coming up to you. Confidence; it's stronger than cologne. When a girl sees that you're cool with yourself, she'll go out of her way to be with you. Funny how that works, huh? Besides, I realized that I take a ton of joy in music, writing, and gaming in general. I like sitting back and enjoying my hobbies. Truth be told, once I became comfortable with who I was, I realized that I didn't really even need a relationship at the moment. I was just enjoying life for what it was. And there's some advice that you can take from that as well: enjoy life for what it is. All those hobbies that you think classify you as some kind of geek or nerd; that's totally the wrong outlook. You should appreciate the fact that you have the ability, intelligence, and zeal to take interest (as well as participate) in many of the things you do. And if you don't feel that way about what you do; maybe it's time for a new hobby.
Regardless; take it easy. Take it from someone who knows; depression takes you no-where. It's easy to sit and feel sorry about your circumstances; it's another thing to take charge and try to change them. And oddly enough, even if you fail, you'll stop being depressed regardless. 'Cause you tried. And that'll give you the confidence you need to try and try again. The world is an amazing place. Explore it. Understand it. Become it. Don't feel bad about the things you cannot change, just realize that they probably don't have as much weight as you give 'em. |
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witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6389 days Last view: 6389 days |
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| Grunkles gave some good advice, although I'd like to add that you shouldn't give up on relationships entirely.
Mostly, you do not turn a bad life into a good one by having good relationships and girlfriends; you improve your life and you have good relationships with people (including girls) because of it. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji  Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6325 days Last view: 6325 days |
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| Amen to those last two posts.
I'm in the same boat with you, man, and believe me, you've still got college to go through. Hell, I'm only done with my 1st year in college, and yea, I've already experienced a hard rejection/loss of a friend, but I've made so many MORE friends that I KNOW are worth my time that it easily outweighs it. Also, I've already met another awesome girl that I actually feel like something might work out between us. I totally didn't expect it, but that's how these things work. So focus on what you love right now, not on finding something TO love. You'll change as you get into college, but I say it's good to always focus on what you love, not trying to find something to love. You may end up finding that another person is that big something you love, but until then, you shouldn't worry about it. And as much as I hate to admit it, confidence really is a pretty big thing with lots of girls. I don't strike girls to be as dependent and confident about myself as a I really am, and thus they think I'm more dependent, less confident, and less courageous than I really am on the inside, and that's no good. The lack of outward confidence led to the girl I liked to PITY me instead of admire me or appreciate me at all. And you don't want that. Because that's no fun at all. |
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