Originally posted by Croatia Games

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the girl i like.. i've known her for years now, i even used to hang out with her a lil' bit, ya know, like buds or something. Anyway, after i went out of school, i rarely hung out with her, i had lots and lots of shit to do, then i totally forget her, because i was with my other friends. The thing is, i never loved her, and i dunno if she kind of "liked" me back then (ya know, she was pretty friendly to me and stuff.)... untill last saturday... she played basketball with her friends, like she usually does, and i'm sitting with my friends on the benches, like usual. I looked at her without any deeper feelings or anything. When she was about to shoot, she suddenly looked at me quickly, and concentrated on the game again. Then it happened to me, bro, it just motherfucking happened. Now i can't stop thinking about her, i even (day)dream about her. Right now, she's on an excursion and will be back in like 3-4 weeks, i'm thinking about telling her how i feel, but i dunno how to do this, and with every day passing, my heart goes faster and faster. I had many girlfriends before, but this time, it's different. I just don't know how to tell her, i don't even know how i should start a conversation with her. Usually, i'd just ask her out, but this time it doesn't seems so easy... what am i supposed to do?

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Originally posted by witeasprinwow

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Originally posted by Croatia Games

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the girl i like.. i've known her for years now, i even used to hang out with her a lil' bit, ya know, like buds or something. Anyway, after i went out of school, i rarely hung out with her, i had lots and lots of shit to do, then i totally forget her, because i was with my other friends. The thing is, i never loved her, and i dunno if she kind of "liked" me back then (ya know, she was pretty friendly to me and stuff.)... untill last saturday... she played basketball with her friends, like she usually does, and i'm sitting with my friends on the benches, like usual. I looked at her without any deeper feelings or anything. When she was about to shoot, she suddenly looked at me quickly, and concentrated on the game again. Then it happened to me, bro, it just motherfucking happened. Now i can't stop thinking about her, i even (day)dream about her. Right now, she's on an excursion and will be back in like 3-4 weeks, i'm thinking about telling her how i feel, but i dunno how to do this, and with every day passing, my heart goes faster and faster. I had many girlfriends before, but this time, it's different. I just don't know how to tell her, i don't even know how i should start a conversation with her. Usually, i'd just ask her out, but this time it doesn't seems so easy... what am i supposed to do?

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Some advice on this actual issue:

The best thing you can do is just talk to her like a normal person, get to know each other a little bit, and then ask her out somewhere. Just relax, have confidence in yourself (which will help with the relaxing part), and get to know her. Don't try any "running game" bullshit; Just be you. It's OK to make jokes or say clever stuff or whatever, but still focus on just being yourself. You have a few weeks until she gets back, that should be more than enough time for you to get your nerves together.

The WORST thing you can do is let this sit and side you and boil up until it becomes a bigger issue than it really is. Get it over with and out of the way. Maybe not the day she gets back or whatever, but don't let it sit for too long.

EDIT: If you are asking wether you should wait until she gets back to say something to her, say you could call her on a cell phone or something... That is a much harder question to answer. Different people will have different views on it. Just think about wether you would be comfortable talking to her about this on the phone, and if you think she would be comfortable. Either way, it would never really come to a head until she gets back...

Some general advice for life:

I always get weirded out when people throw around the world "love." You barely know the girl; from what little I do know about love, it grows over a LONG period of time, much longer than I have ever been in a relationship for (Because I am a relentless asshole). Just... keep it in perspective.

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