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Randy53215 Melon Bug                  Since: 11-17-05 From: Greenfield, Wisconsin (U.S.A) Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Wow, have I gone through a lot in the last months / years.
Let's see, where should I even begin? Ok, I dont wanna be preached at like Dr. Phil does, not only can I not stand him it is really annoying. I would just like some advice. Ok now... Recently during the past few months I would say back to August have been terrible. Got my car and fucked it up (long story) $901.83 of damage. Then, a month later engine blows, so that car is done. (2000 Dodge Intrepid) Now, I don't really have 'many' friends I hang around with daily. But recently I have been meeting a lot of people and 'kickin' it with them. Problem's start because I meet this female Karla, she's cool but she works with my stepmom. So what goes wrong? Well my stepmom supposedly tell's my dad I... Drink Smoke Drink & Drive Do Drugs etc... and of course being pussy whipped like him he believe's it. So they all are 'disapointed' for fucked up shit. So now they don't want me around those friend's. Basically I cannot live my life. Any advice on what to do with this situation? (They're more!) Edit: I should prolly mention I have a 1999 Dodge Stratus now, incase it involves anything.... (edited by Randy53215 on 11-26-05 05:24 AM) |
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xcomgs Newcomer  Since: 11-19-05 Last post: 6717 days Last view: 6717 days |
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| Wow....Hmm.....
Well, I dont know about your car....but.....I say find a way to have your friends over for dinner and let your parents see who they really are. If that fails.....I dont know.... |
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Chaos Force Just drifting by...  Since: 11-17-05 Last post: 6302 days Last view: 6298 days |
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| Well Randy, it seems you've been quite busy last time I saw you. Now if I remember correctly to a recent conversation, its not like that stuff your dad was told isn't true. You've already called me up drunk off your ass. So you dad kinda has the right to be pissed off at you. To tell you the truth, I'm a bit dissapointed in you myself. I'm not tring to be a hippicrite or anything, I know I used to do the same stupid shit myself, but I thought you where better than that.
First, just because you have some hard times now doesn't mean your whole life is "fucked up". Your just going though stuff most people go though at your age. So you don't have many friends. Big deal. You still have your whole life to have friends. And you dad is kinda right, maybe you shouldn't see any of those people you call friends. You don't have to drink/smoke/etc to be friends with someone. If they don't like it, tough luck. Doing that stuff isn't gonna get you very far in life. Continue on with school, finish your college courses, start that web business you always wanted to start. Go ahead and live you life, but I wouldn't suggest continuing it on the path its going right now. As for the car, that was your own dumbass fault. 
In a way I blame most of this on me. Back in the old neighborhood, I feel as you kinda looked up to me seeing I was one of the few friends you had back then. Then when I started doing that stupid shit, I kinda dragged you into it. But I'd like to pull you back out of it. You don't belong there Randy, your better than that. 
Btw, its "disappointed".  |
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Deleted User Banned    Since: 05-08-06 Last post: None Last view: 6297 days |
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| Parents always think that there kids do drugs or smoke or do something illegal and sometimes they are wrong or right. So what if I have a little dark under my eyes or if I drink, but not as much. I have a little dark under my eyes, but I don't do drugs or alcohol or anything illegal. I don't care if people stare at me and I know what they are thinking, but I don't do those kinda of things, its common sence. I know its wrong and illegal and I will not do it. Simple as that. If you guys are thinking I don't do drugs or anything illegal. (edited by PeterGriffinTheMan on 11-26-05 08:45 PM) (edited by PeterGriffinTheMan on 11-27-05 01:53 PM) |
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Aurxix Flurry Since: 11-23-05 From: Canada Last post: 6743 days Last view: 6743 days |
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| You should sit down and calmy talk to them and show some emotion (Crying..ect) it may just work.. | |||
Danielle     6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE   Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6298 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Well is your stepmom lying about those things, or is that the truth?
If she's lying, you need to sit down with your dad and convince him that she's not telling the truth. Just watching it all play out isn't going to do you any good. If she's telling the truth, you have nobody to blame but yourself, and you should try to get your life back on the right path. The things you listed are not the right path.  |
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Aurxix Flurry Since: 11-23-05 From: Canada Last post: 6743 days Last view: 6743 days |
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Just a note this could also belong in the officers club I dont know where it would be more suitable for  |
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Zibl Newcomer Since: 11-27-05 Last post: 6744 days Last view: 6744 days |
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| Tell your dad to give you a drug test. If you truly aren't smoking (marijuana anyways), you'll be fine.
Also tell him that from now on when you go out, you'll call him and tell him where you are every hour or so, until you are in for the night (wherever you go). After I got caught parting, my mom and dad wouldn't let me do shit. I told them I'd call them every hour I was out, and I always told them who I was going with. Of course I lied most of the time. 9 times out of 10 I'd be going parting and call them RIGHT as I got there. An hour later (most likely shit faced drunk), I'd stumble off so they couldn't hear anything (maybe sit in my car or something), and call and be like "I'm fine just kinda hanging out". I dunno. Throw out some of those ideas to him. MAKE him trust you again or something. It might suck at first, and you'll feel like a child, but atleast you'll get somewhat of your social life back? |
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Cruel Justice I have better things to do. Since: 11-18-05 From: At my house! Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Heh, reminds me of when I was dependant. Set a plan with your friends at school/work. If your parents really think you're that bad, just sneak out at night and meet up with your pals. What do you have to lose? |
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