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| Acmlm's Board - I3 Archive - Officer's Club - My family is breaking up... Again |
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Kanop Gator                  Since: 05-14-06 From: Wherever whenever.. Last post: 6543 days Last view: 6543 days |
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| When i was 3, my mom and dad divorced... I was small... i didn't know much and didn't really care
My dad got married last year in 2005 Now my dad and my stepmom is going to break up, and since i'm 11 and my stepmom really cared for me... i can't get over it... How can I? Words of encourgiment please? |
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Deleted User Banned    Since: 05-08-06 Last post: None Last view: 6296 days |
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| Er...
Hang in there? Who are you anyway? |
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Kanop Gator Since: 05-14-06 From: Wherever whenever.. Last post: 6543 days Last view: 6543 days |
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| some person in desprate need for help...
that spacific enough for you? |
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Deleted User Banned  Since: 05-08-06 Last post: None Last view: 6296 days |
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Originally posted by Kanop My father died of alcohol withdrawal and my mom is addicted to narcotics. I believe you shouldn't act so harshly to people due to your problems. |
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Snow Tomato Snap Dragon   Since: 12-31-05 From: NYC Last post: 6316 days Last view: 6301 days |
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| He's 11.
That sucks I really don't know what to say. When you're older... it might make more sense even though you won't believe that right now. I'm sure they'll always remain in your life in some way. I really don't know what to say to make you feel better. I tried. Time heals all wounds. |
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Keitaro Mole Since: 11-18-05 From: Massachusetts Last post: 6453 days Last view: 6453 days |
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Originally posted by XygushyOriginally posted by Kanop Then you of all people should know not to be a dick to people who are going through tough times. 
I can't say I can related you, Kanop, but I feel for you and I hope things get a little easier for you to cope with. I really can't give you more than that, and for that I'm truly sorry =| stay strong though. |
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Deleted User Banned Since: 05-08-06 Last post: None Last view: 6296 days |
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| Meh, true. He shouldn't have barked at me though.
It really must be tough to live with such intensity. I'm sorry for comparing.  |
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Keitaro Mole Since: 11-18-05 From: Massachusetts Last post: 6453 days Last view: 6453 days |
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| First of all, he didn't bark at you. Your original reply to him was somewhat rude right off the bat, and the poor kid is already feeling pretty bad. Any rudeness he might have remotely shown was entirely warrented, so just get of fhis back and don't go off on that "it really must be tough to live with blah blah". you might have had your own problems but they are different from his. So unless you can relate, don't go telling him how he should or should not act, or how he must feel/have to live with. The kid is 11 for god sakes, show a little compassion =| | |||
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I.... just did.  |
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Kanop Gator Since: 05-14-06 From: Wherever whenever.. Last post: 6543 days Last view: 6543 days |
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| stop barking at each other...
life is being mad at me for some reason... now my parents won't even talk to each other... this sucks... |
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| Just hang in there. It's their choice. Just remember that it is NOT your fault. | |||
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Keitaro Mole Since: 11-18-05 From: Massachusetts Last post: 6453 days Last view: 6453 days |
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| Exactly. the thing to remember is that its a choice that they have come to, and perhaps, deep down, it is for the best. Your parents may have some unresolvable internal conflicts that if they were to stay together, it would just be downright unfair for you and the family. Though personally I beleive most relationships, expecially those that have gone so far as marriage, can be resolved with enough effort, sometimes it just becomes a lot easier and at times fairer for the family in the long run to 'call it quits'. And Shyguy, meh, just forget it. I get a little to in to shit sometimes. No hard feelings. | |||
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Thexare Metal battleaxe Off to better places  Since: 11-18-05 Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Sorry, wrong forum.
*kicks into Officer's Club* |
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Deleted User Banned Since: 05-08-06 Last post: None Last view: 6296 days |
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| Well I know what it's like to actualy loose someone
that you care about like everyone said just hang in there and rough it outtime heal's pain, trust me something will work out. (edited by Acrelvl on 05-15-06 08:48 PM) (edited by Acrelvl on 05-15-06 08:48 PM) |
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Lilmario Cheep-cheep What role would that be? Since: 11-17-05 From: Ireland :D Last post: 6337 days Last view: 6337 days |
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Being your age when my parents divorced, I can relate. Things will be tough, I'm not going to lie to you. But you have to hang in there, as much as you want to change the situation, you can't. Try to make the best of things  Comfort your stepmum if you care so much, and make sure you keep in contact. |
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Danielle     6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE   Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| My parents got divorced when I was three also. Though I haven't gone through anything like that since then, I know what it's like to deal with divorced parents. Just keep in mind that it's not your fault, and if it helps you to talk to them about it, do so. Find someone you can confide in, because talking about it makes a world of difference. And even though your stepmom won't be in the same house with you anymore, you can still see her if you want to. It's not you getting the divorce from her. Just be strong and stay optimistic, and it will eventually pass. |
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Black Lord + Flurry Since: 11-17-05 From: Where indians still roam... Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6298 days |
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| It seems that divorce seems to be the thing these days, people shouldn't rush into marriage so much... people think that marrying someone within a month of meeting them is perfectly logical... honestly... people comon...
eh... excuse me, I'm offtopic... As for family breaking up, sometimes it's for the best of the whole family, I really think my parents despise each other and should get a divorce sometimes when I here them... and I think it would be for the best too. |
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Skreename Giant Red Paratroopa Since: 11-18-05 Last post: 6302 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Unfortunately enough, I have to agree with Black Lord. It'll be tough, yes, and it'll definitely hurt... but you can still continue your life. Just try to hang tight, no matter how bad things may seem, since they can still get better.
Danielle's definitely right... Even if you have problems with your parents, if you have a good friend you can rely on, that can make a world of difference. |
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