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Snow Tomato Snap Dragon                    Since: 12-31-05 From: NYC Last post: 6316 days Last view: 6301 days |
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| Well I know he's interested by this point but I can't tell if he just wants ass or actually likes me. He's the lead singer in this local band.. and I always go to his shows.. and on stage he'll look right at me when he sings and we make dumb faces at each other.. lol.. but basically when we hang out we usually just drink and hookup and stuff. It's fun.. don't get me wrong it's a LOT of fun. But I'm definatly hoping he starts to take things more seriously soon. He asked me to his prom.. yay. Maybe I'm just thinking too much.
I just never have good clues as to when someone actually likes you though. I was with this guy for like a year and a half who treated me amazingly.. but cheated on me 2389479237 times I came to realize at the end of it... so yeah, maybe you can never really tell.. OMFUG.. hahah he's comming here now. Speak of the devil. 4 six packs of something and a whole day to kill. I love being 17. [= |
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Silvershield   580   Since: 11-19-05 From: Emerson, New Jersey Last post: 6308 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Originally posted by Snow TomatoThen do it the old-fashioned way: don't give him your body until he demonstrates a legitimate interest in your mind. You'll never know if a guy wants you for you or for sex if you give him sex right off the bat - make him prove his intentions before you take it any further. |
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Wurl Since: 11-17-05 Last post: 6337 days Last view: 6337 days |
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| It's probably the ass. | |||
insectduel Lantern Ghost Not welcome here anymore.  Since: 11-18-05 From: Bronx, New York Last post: 6538 days Last view: 6333 days |
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| Some cheaters are like idiots. They don't care who they love as long any girl is being used as a pawn. | |||
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Originally posted by insectduel  Wow... I SO agree with that!!!  |
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Anya  Since: 11-18-05 From: South Florida Last post: 6298 days Last view: 6296 days |
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| A felt connection. Hard to explain it, but the only two times that I felt it and felt it back, I just knew and felt it...heck, still do from time to time. Its a good, yet scary feeling to have. But you can't have the good without the bad. Anyway, best way to know, is to ask, but people lie, so that might not be the best way to know. | |||
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Originally posted by insectduel I disagree; it's usually less to have control over a partner, but rather the temptation of sweet, sweet ass. |
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Deleted User Banned Since: 05-08-06 Last post: None Last view: 6296 days |
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| I can't stand people who have no respect for women...
Women are beautiful and delicate, and every men should treat them with respect... if they don't then they are foolish... I always treat my gf with the ultimate respect treating her as a princess, because she is something so wonderful to me...  .
My advice to the girls here... stay away from the "bad boy" type... they're just going to use you, and then forget about you... they will care less about your feelings... My girlfriend has a friend that's married to this guy who beats her... I'm sorry but I have no respect for cowards like that... a man that seeks only sex is a fool, straight up without a doubt! My gf wants us to go on a double date with them, but I told her I wouldn't be able to stare at the man for very long without losing my cool... but that's just me...  |
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| I have next to 0 respect to young girls, it's been proven that while females are young they're nearly retarded and irrational; later they're generally just slightly stupid and still irrational
and below zip for busters like this: Originally posted by Chump EDIT: Sorry, Ghost, totally meant to edit your name out. (edited by CrimsonGX on 05-12-06 02:58 AM) |
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Black Lord + Flurry Since: 11-17-05 From: Where indians still roam... Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6298 days |
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Originally posted by Ghost See, that would be good advice, but some women really want to be used... some women seek just sex in a relationship... it's not just a one-sided show guys. But moving on... What's so bad about sex... Somedays I just need to have a nice hearty romp in the sack, and blow of some steam, and afterwards I don't feel like talking, is that wrong... no.. granted... it's not always all you want, but sometimes, I get urges, and it is all I want, call it being a man or what you will. The bad thing is when those urges come at the wrong time, say watching a nice family movie with gf's grandparents... not a good time for urges... But yeah, I'm fairly certain my special someone loves me back, granted we have little to nothing in common, except that we're gamers, so yeah... I mean, someone who would let you love them, and not try to break it off if they don't love you back, is just cruel, end of story. |
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| Anyman who treats a woman like crap needs to be gunned down and shot in the head!
Women should be respected. |
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Keitaro Mole Since: 11-18-05 From: Massachusetts Last post: 6453 days Last view: 6453 days |
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Originally posted by insectduel Not really. Usualy in their case they don't truly love anyone in the first place. If you honestly and truly loved someone, you would never cheat on them like that, and if you did, you'd feel like complete shit, not continue to do it. But then again, some people work differently. I personaly think its the lowest of low. *shrug* |
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Snow Tomato Snap Dragon Since: 12-31-05 From: NYC Last post: 6316 days Last view: 6301 days |
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| There's nothing bad about sex. The only thing is... how can you know if he wants to hang out with you because he wants to and likes you.. or because he just wants some poon?
I guess at this point I can say that it'll become obvious if you just give it time. If you take a step back and look at the situations you've been in... and if they're still there after a couple of times hanging out.. then they probably really do have something for you. And yeah, the person I was worried about this with asked me out.. I'm going to his senior prom with him.. and I do actually for the first time in a long time.. feel a really strong weird connection. Which is why I was worried if it was different on his end.. but as time reveals.. it's not. I mean won't it just kind of smack you in the face if they're using you after a while? |
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Originally posted by Snow Tomato Easy. Just assume it's always about getting a nut. |
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Danielle  6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE   Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6295 days |
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I agree that you should hold back from sex until you're 100% sure that's not why he's with you. If you refuse and that IS what he's after, he'll make it clear, I believe. And while that might hurt you to discover, it will save you a lot of pain later on.  |
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Silvershield 580 Since: 11-19-05 From: Emerson, New Jersey Last post: 6308 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Originally posted by Snow TomatoMaybe there is nothing wrong with sex, but as long as you stick to that mindset you'll be destined to have your heart broken repeatedly. I'm not going to call you a slut or anything like that if you give it up to a guy very early in a relationship - my values are obviously different than yours, but to each his own - but it's a bit silly for you to complain about not knowing a guy's motives but then refusing to resort to the only course that will allow you to determine those motives. Even if you don't believe in withholding sex until later in a relationship, it's the only practical method I can imagine that will allow you to know what a guy's intentions are. If you keep it from him and he's cool with it (for an extended period of time - not a week), then you've landed a winner. If he complains about it frequently or tries to rush you, that's a pretty good sign that he's not in it for your wonderful personality. It's common sense. I'm not trying to tell you that sex is bad - like I said, you and I have a different opinion regarding the role of sex in a relationship, but I'm not here to argue that with you - but you're stupid if you complain about getting involved with shallow guys when you have a very effective way of finding out that such guys are shallow before you give them your heart. You're just too horny to be patient and use it. Originally posted by Snow TomatoWell, if you're giving him sex every time that you've hung out, then he's probably coming back again because he expects it to continue...are you really not cognizant of that? Originally posted by Snow TomatoSure, with a good deal of heartache to accompany it. Why not just use my brilliant afore-described strategy to catch a jackass early in your relationship and avoid the problem before it becomes a situation that could be emotionally damaging? |
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Snow Tomato Snap Dragon Since: 12-31-05 From: NYC Last post: 6316 days Last view: 6301 days |
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| Who said I was giving him sex every time we hung out? Who said we've had sex? I don't/we haven't. | |||
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Silvershield 580 Since: 11-19-05 From: Emerson, New Jersey Last post: 6308 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Originally posted by Snow TomatoYour previous post implied that he keeps coming back because he has consistently had some sort of physical activity with you. Whether that's actually sex or just heavy kissing or whatever it may be, if you're giving him the sign that you're a physically or sexually open person, he'll expect you to offer him more sooner rather than later. So he pursues you. Though I don't approve of any sort of sexual activity early in a relationship just on general principal, there's a practical reason as well: even if you don't exaclty sleep with him the first time you see him, if you're quick to make out or hook up with a guy then that sends a definite message about your willingness to be physical at all, and suggests semi-consciously (or maybe even fully consciously) that, if he pursues it for a minimal amount of time, he can expect more. So, you're shooting yourself in the foot. |
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Skreename Giant Red Paratroopa Since: 11-18-05 Last post: 6302 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| Just adding a bit of context for part of what Silvershield saw... "hooking up" is a very vague term. It's pretty hard to judge what it means, particularly if it's supposedly done repeatedly. | |||
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Silvershield 580 Since: 11-19-05 From: Emerson, New Jersey Last post: 6308 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Originally posted by SkreenameWhether "hooking up" is actually sex or even something as minor as kissing, it works toward the same purpose. If you're ready to be physically intimate (read "heavy kissing") with a guy whom you've just met, it subconsciously says something about how soon you'll be willing to let him become even closer to you. Any person I know that hooks up with a person he or she barely knows has no qualms about allowing that relationship to become sexual; if you hooked up with this guy when you barely knew him, it isn't outrageous to propose that he assumes that he can expect more from you in the near future. Not to preach, but what you "should" do if you're afraid of being used is to deny any sort of physicality whatsoever, beyond maybe innocent and controlled kissing. After a week (or ideally more), give him a bit more maybe, and gradually and patiently advance to whatever level you're willing to ultimately reach; if at any point he tries to rush you or criticize you for not giving as much as he'd like, that's a pretty good sign that he has other things on his mind. |
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