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kuja killer Rope                   Since: 11-17-05 From: Lake Havasu City, AZ Last post: 6340 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Heh I've tried so many times to be friends with girls or ask girls out that I had known for awhile...but I always get rejected 
I've tried getting getting to know alot of girls 1 by 1 through Myspace.com that live in the same city/area as I ....but still always getting turned down |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji   Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| Even on the internet, eh? That's too bad.
Getting to know girls 1 on 1 isn't always the best approach, unless it's the one they're seeking with you. Anyway, you DO realize when I said New York, I meant the STATE, right? Not the city. The college I go to is a Christian Liberal Arts college, and, as expected, most of the girls here are so conservative that dating is pretty much a bad thing to them, and yet, they all want husbands before they leave. Don't ask me how that works. They somehow expect Mr. Perfect to fall into their lap and for everything to work out peachy keen, I guess. Life isn't like that most of the time. |
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Silvershield   580  Since: 11-19-05 From: Emerson, New Jersey Last post: 6308 days Last view: 6295 days |
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Originally posted by D3stiny_Sm4sherNot to get off topic, but a quick aside... That's my dream school!  I'm in New York at a school with Catholic roots that tries to pass itself off as a currently Catholic-influenced institution, but I'm really disappointed in how little the student body reflects that ideal. I think, of the various people I know here, maybe three are virgins (using that as some indicator of conservative values). And only one of them is a girl.
Out of curiousity, where do you go? |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| Um...if you're Catholic, you might want to stay away from my college.
I'm not that big into religious details, but I think that this place isn't so keen on Catholics. I'm going to a place called Houghton College, to answer your question. Anyway, it's so annoying, because the girls who have qualities I like are also too conservative to give me a chance, and the girls who might possibly give me a chance don't have qualities I particularly like. |
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Googie 390  Since: 11-22-05 From: Corona Queens New York Last post: 6298 days Last view: 6298 days |
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Originally posted by D3stiny_Sm4sher I know it's not, it's that too many people I chat with online tell me that I don't live in the big apple, I live in the insane state. xD I got rejected online before (when personals sites used to be free) females even told me some nasty things that used to hurt me, and the ones I did meet online were just looking for a sugar daddy. Here's one tale for me to tell, I was sending money to this chick through Western Union, she always used to ask for money near the weekend. She used to send me pics of her looking really sexy, I even saved enough money to go out to meet her in Virginia. When I told her I was on my way she stopped me from going over there telling me that I don't have to visit her. When I told my friend (she was my bootie call at the time) she told me that the girl I was dating online was taking me for a sucka (she used to give me these sad stories when it came to money, no food, can't pay the rent etc.) I wasn't diggin that. So when I cut her off from the money, she was leaving me nasty messages at my house, call and at my job. It took a while for her to stop (I used to send her $200 a week for 3 months) eventually she stopped harassing me. That's one of alotta reasons why I don't online date anymore. |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| Um...Well, that sucks.
But money has nothing to do with it. I'm not gonna be giving money to someone I've never even met. And I still really like this one girl who rejected me, but because she rejected me, now I'm getting a crush on someone else. GRR. |
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Bella Red Paratroopa Since: 11-18-05 From: Mi Casa de Candy and RATE OR DIE Last post: 6298 days Last view: 6298 days |
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| I tried online dating with a guy I never met before and it lasted for a year and a half without even meeting him. I don't know what the hell I was on, I think I was just at that age where I was lonely and things weren't going well all together so I talked to him and everything. I figured out that far into the "relationship" that it was BS and I wanted out because it took me that long to realize shit. It really was an emotional struggle and I will never do it again.
I met 2 guys I met online. One I still talk to but we only coo ass friends. The other one only wanted sex and then a relationship which was also bullshit and made no sense to me. The one that wanted sex lived in my town and I met him and he wasn't all that cute anyway..ha..ha..ha.. The current guy I'm talking to I actually met on Yahoo chat and he supposedly goes to my college but at night and I've been talking to him on the phone since like Febuary and still haven't met his dumbass. After this one, I vow not to ever go online to find a "man". If I don't meet his dumbass by Saturday then it's a straight up wrap, I'm done giving my number out online after this one. Even he gets pervy now and then but I tell him to check his ass on that because I ain't like that. Before he was saying "Oh, Im scared to meet you because I'm too much of a freak for you." He's real sweet when he don't be talking that shit. Finding People online to date or whatever either want sex or to fuck with your emotions, or money. Well from my experience On myspace is actually where my friend met her current boyfriend who she is still together with, suprisingly. (edited by Bella on 04-26-06 08:04 PM) (edited by Bella on 04-26-06 08:06 PM) |
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| Oh, it DOES work out sometimes.
I mean, when it works out well, the only difference is how you met. I've met some people in pretty odd circumstances. It's not how you meet, it's where it goes from there. |
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Skydude Armos Knight  Since: 02-18-06 From: Stanford, CA Last post: 6569 days Last view: 6569 days |
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Originally posted by Bella Sadly, a lot of people do fall into those categories. And then there are those of us who aren't that great at meeting people and try every reasonable outlet to try to do so. I think the thread creator may fall into that topic as well. |
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Snow Tomato Snap Dragon  Since: 12-31-05 From: NYC Last post: 6316 days Last view: 6301 days |
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| Having been with someone for a year online.. I'd say that overall.. it will not work out. Especially when you're young and you can't visit that person.. like generally at all. I'd hate to be pessimistic.. but unless you're really really sure about it, which it sounds like you're not.. then don't go for it. It's frustrating.. and requires a LOT of self control for both parties. It's a lonely lonely way to live your life... and I'm assuming you're young. Just for your own sake... put yourself out there and go party it up.. live life to the fullest.. party hard and love harder you only live once. | |||
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| While it's true that I only live once, I don't think it's intelligent (for me) to go and 'party it hard' and all that.
I will just have to keep waiting longer for true love, and I'm not going to settle for anything else. And I know true love exists because I've felt it toward others--I just need to find someone who will feel it toward me. |
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mattp Red Paratroopa Since: 03-04-06 Last post: 6560 days Last view: 6560 days |
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| Consider my advice.
If you don't date anyone except your 'true love', then you won't be prepared to be in a erlationship with them and you will screw it up. If you get experience in relationships with less important people, you will be better able to appreciate and treat your true love right. |
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Yoronosuku Toss Tortoise Since: 11-17-05 From: Massachusetts is my new home.. Last post: 6295 days Last view: 6295 days |
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| My big sister is marrying her online sweetheart in a little over a month (they met some times between of course..), so...I do not want to say it works for everyone, because it does not and it is not something I ever want to do for me, but..in some cases it does work, I guess you can see. Its if you can handle it long enough to make it work for you that counts. | |||
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D3stiny_Sm4sher Ninji Since: 02-04-06 From: Searching for t3h g4t3... Last post: 6341 days Last view: 6341 days |
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| I never said I was never going to date if I didn't know it was 'perfect.'
What I mean is that I'm not going to marry someone unless I actually LOVE them, and they love me. I've never been in a relationship yet, and I already understand just how valuable it is to have someone who truly loves you for who you are, because I've felt that way toward people who want nothing of it. |
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