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Iori Yagami Hardhat Beetle                     Since: 11-18-05 From: Hell's keeper Last post: 6504 days Last view: 6504 days |
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Ok for my second part of the question as you pick Vash as I completely forgot there are two different Alucards.  I was thinking of the Hellsing Alucard.
Vash has came to you for help on a dangerous mission that involves saving the world's supply of donuts from a devious villian planning to stop donuts from being made ever again, which would most likely cost you your life if you mess up, would you help him out? |
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Schweiz oder etwas [12:55] (Dr_Death16); I swear, the word drama needs to be stricken from the dictionary, for I've heard it so many times, it will permanently be imprinted on my brain  Since: 11-17-05 From: Kingston, Rhode Island Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Elmo: Yes, because my e-penis is CLEARLY bigger than everyone else's in this thread.
Sky: I kinda just sorta ignored tonight. I can't post fast on a laptop, I need a mouse. Sion: Yes. It's awesome beyond awesome and reminds me of a certain One Piece flash that I believe I've shown you before... When I get home, I'll show you it again (not til tomorrow). Mouse: I would go to the ends of the earth for donuts. Hell yes. |
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Iori Yagami Hardhat Beetle Since: 11-18-05 From: Hell's keeper Last post: 6504 days Last view: 6504 days |
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| Vash: WooHoo! Another donut lover!
*smacks Vash with a large frying pan* Me: *sighs* Now he'll be bugging me on why I'm not like you with donuts. I like'em just not that much to love'em. I'll get back to you on a question. Someone just seemed to stole my ideas. *glares at Pietro muse whom is acting like he didn't do a thing* |
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Anya  Since: 11-18-05 From: South Florida Last post: 6300 days Last view: 6298 days |
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..what happened to Elmo?  |
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Uncle Elmo Porcupo Loved up and ready to go :) Since: 11-24-05 Last post: 6313 days Last view: 6353 days |
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| Still here, I unstickied the thread as it was entirely redundant, Grey's had more posts in this than all my previous "Ask Elmo" threads combined so the fair people of Acmlms voted with their mouse so to speak. They couldn't be bothered if my thread was there or not, so I went with the popular decision. | |||
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Thoughtless [Danielle] Thoughtless is my secret lover [Danielle] *flutters eyelashes* [Thoughtless] SECRET IS OUT I miss my two pussies :( (Part II) Since: 11-17-05 From: PR Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Yeah. I know by the simple fact of saying 'several times' that was already screaming out 'move on'
And I do. I try. I seriously do move on, only to be dragged back. I was not meaning that I should change for someone, more so for myself. I wasn't a really good person before. I was nice, believe me and kind and funny but I always had that dragged down by my seriousness and the fact that I would worry and over-complex myself in my thoughts. As in, I was always wondering "Should I do this? But if I do this, then this could happen... And what is he up to? I know he is talking about me, I should do something" That stuff. It is a mixture of paranoia to an extent. I know I shouldn't be worrying so greatly over such things. I should take life like it is. And calm down. I noticed that. I was on the road to get an ulcer. That is why I asked as well. To see if anybody views my optimism as false hope. I know that she needs to change as well. And she tried. Back in Sept, when I started to change, things just happened that we both changed slightly. Not for each other, but for the better. But the past few months things have been staling. Hmm. Signs. She has said that she liked me. The way of how she acts with me. She had been closer to me than any of her other friends to the point that she would tell me everything, cry in front of me (something she never before), we even kissed twice. But things just got complicated and complex and situations arose and such. But like I said in this same paragraph, she has said that she liked me but hasn't clarified in what way. Time has past and it has been clearly shown in what way. As a friend. It's a mixture if she was in doubt or if I was simply trying too much. I guess, this is more of a statement than a question. At the moment I am in my life, I think I can honestly say that I love her. And I know I do. But I can also say that I will move on and look forward, but I won't completely shut the door to the prospect with her. I never give up hope and that is how I am. Even after I have been turned down I still have a small bit of hope that won't let the door close, so to say. What do you think? Is it a good way to handle the situation? Moving on, but not giving up completely. (Sorry if this sounds vague, and overly nonsense. I'm trying to fit months of situations, thoughts, and feelings into two posts without exploding my head.) Also, I noticed both of my posts were more rhetorical questions to myself in a sense. I needed to get that off my chest and openly admit that I was going to change. You were the first person I thought of that may give me a solid opinion. Not advice, I don't need a course of action but a good ol' opinion. ---- By the way, feel free to stab me if I wasted your time  |
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Snow Tomato Snap Dragon  Since: 12-31-05 From: NYC Last post: 6318 days Last view: 6303 days |
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| I'm reposting what I posted in Officer's Club, because I specifically want Grey's advice. He's good at this.
It's about John. Known him since kindergarten, we've been best friends forever. And we went out for like.. all our lives basically on and off since 4th grade. He was my first love, my first kiss... my first everything. We've been best friends.. we have memories stretching all the way back till kindergarten.. I'm not even exagerrating. I started seeing John alot. As in alot, I mean.. every single day. We started getting really involved. Talked on the phone everynight, always near each other.. he came and visited me every single day no matter what. We were cuddling in his room.. and it just happened. It just happened and now I don't know why, or when or how to deal with this shit. Okay, explain from the beginning. I lost my virginity to someone I truly love. The past month he's just reminded me of everything that we used to have... and everything we could be. And I don't know.. I just gave myself to him. And I don't regret it. I can't regret it. You only get once. And I was happy.. I was so happy when it happened... and the day after we were so happy. And today, so happy... and it happened again. This time it didn't hurt as much.. we were able to hang out together all day long (I didn't go to school)... and it was effing amazing. He's always been here for me... since like fucking kindergarten. And, I can't even.. ugh. Today he stops by like he always does. And we had a long long long long long talk.. I'm talking... like 2 1/2 hours in his car. He had just recently broken up with his girlfriend of a year and a half. And he was saying like it's just not like him to abandon something that's gone on this long (even if she did treat him like SHIT). And how he needs to pull himself together and figure out what he really wants to do right now... because he's been acting on impulse and not on what's best for him. He needs to just re-evaluate the whole situation and find out what's the best to do right now. We both cried. He said it hurt too much because he loves me, he really really does. He always has. I mean that. I left him in the beginning of my freshman year... and I feel like this is all my fault. If I hadn't left him.. this would have played out differently. I thought I was so much stronger than this. I thought I could handle everything that ever came at me in life. I'm truly the most optimistic person ever ever ever ever. And I cried in front of someone for the first time today... I've never done that before. I cried so hard. Wow, this is fucking ridiculous. Why didn't he think about what he was doing to me? Why can't he just let go and be happy? But... somehow I understand where he's comming from.. I know he needs time and space and something to help him feel better about himself and his life. I'm just scared for when he goes back to her... which looks like a certainty.. she's just going to make shit THAT MUCH harder for him. Like.. I was always there for him to talk to. She's not like that... he'll start saying something and she'll turn it into something about her. Anything. I've seen it in action. So I'm going to be there with him through him.. trying to figure out which way is up.. but I know this isn't over. It just hurts so bad. I feel like someone's ripped my lungs out. I can't believe this. I just simply can't. He's never left me like this before. Ever. So Grey.. work your magic. Last time you said like.. exactly the right thing. I have faith in you. |
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Iori Yagami Hardhat Beetle Since: 11-18-05 From: Hell's keeper Last post: 6504 days Last view: 6504 days |
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| I'm going to ask all of you (Elmo, Anya and Grey) the same question....
Ok since my friend Eric isn't registered here I'm going to ask for him as he keeps asking me. I've ran out of stuff to tell him on this complicated situation.  Well here goes and I'll try not to make it sound too confusing.
Ok lately he's been thinking about an ex-girlfriend that he really likes and has been hanging back out with her after something happened to him during one call he got while he went out with her. He's a fire fighter/EMT just encase you were wondering about that. Well that incident he had to deal with scarred him for life and caused them to break up. Well now he's been talking to her again and can't seem to get her out of his mind. She just wants to take it slow this time and be friends and he wants it to be more with all the feelings he has gotten now. I have told him to be patient and wait but he's not really the patient kind with this kind of thing. I have suggested to write a letter to tell her how he feels but he doesn't want her to get scared and back off as he fears will happen if he does that. So help on what I can tell him to do? |
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Valcion Knuckle Joe too much high power man  Since: 11-17-05 Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| you wanna buy some magic cards off me? I rarely play nowadays and i want to get rid of them. =P
Also, you gonna be going to Anime Boston? |
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Schweiz oder etwas [12:55] (Dr_Death16); I swear, the word drama needs to be stricken from the dictionary, for I've heard it so many times, it will permanently be imprinted on my brain Since: 11-17-05 From: Kingston, Rhode Island Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Snow and Mouse, I took care of you guys on your own time...
But Thoughtless, as for you... It's good. You've got the right idea. Don't just keep running for her, seriously... These things, when they DO happen, usually just end up, you know, happening. I'm still of the opinion that you shouldn't change for anyone but yourself, but if you ARE changing for yourself, and you're not just doing it because it's a personal want of yours to be admired by this person, then it's a just cause. Nobody will ever fall in love with someone who doesn't exist, after all... Even if it definitely seems like they do. And Phil: Same here for me, sorry. :\ We rarely play ourselves. But if you've got some good stuff, I'll pay ya for a few cards. As for Anime Boston, no... Neither the time nor the resources to go. You have fun, though. Cosplay as.... something... (edited by Grey on 03-10-06 07:34 AM) (edited by Grey on 03-10-06 07:35 AM) |
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Valcion Knuckle Joe too much high power man Since: 11-17-05 Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Well, next time we hang out i'll show ya what i got for cards.
Another question: so how was your trip? |
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Danielle     6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE   Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6298 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| What's your favorite movie, Sir Grey? | |||
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Thoughtless [Danielle] Thoughtless is my secret lover [Danielle] *flutters eyelashes* [Thoughtless] SECRET IS OUT I miss my two pussies :( (Part II) Since: 11-17-05 From: PR Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Thanks for your time and words Grey.
Have you ever found yourself singing out loud to a song you like only to turn around and realize that someone was watching you? |
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Iori Yagami Hardhat Beetle Since: 11-18-05 From: Hell's keeper Last post: 6504 days Last view: 6504 days |
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| LMAO! Nice question Thoughtless.
Are you getting nervous? |
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Snow Tomato Snap Dragon Since: 12-31-05 From: NYC Last post: 6318 days Last view: 6303 days |
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Thanks for helping me via AIM Grey.
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Sinfjotle Lordly? No, not quite.  Since: 11-17-05 From: Kansas Last post: 6298 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Is this a joke thread since Elmo got his ass back up here? | |||
Skydude Armos Knight  Since: 02-18-06 From: Stanford, CA Last post: 6570 days Last view: 6570 days |
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| Since Anya doesn't seem to be responding to her thread anymore, I'll ask you the same question:
So one of my good friends back at Stanford will, as it turns out, be working in the same area as I will be this next fall. Funny I say one of my good friends, because I met her freshman year but barely talked to her the next two years (one of which she was away all year)...and then quickly became very close this past fall. Anyway, I was interested in her pretty early on, and she doesn't really have any romantic entanglements from what I can tell, but due to various circumstances I never actually made a move on her and dated another girl and just stayed friends with this one. Things with the other girl went to shit around the time I left the country, and I suspect she may have been cheating on me with this guy even before, though obviously she won't admit it. I've kept in some email contact with my friend, since she doesn't use AIM, but I've really found myself more and more drawn towards her...maybe I'm just building it up in my mind. She definitely sees me as a rather close friend, but I have no idea about more than that. Any idea to gauge that before I ask her out and make things awkward, which it will if she's not interested? Or should I just not go for it at all? |
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Koneko Plasma Whisp  Since: 11-17-05 From: Tartarus. We get faster internet than you. Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| ...What do you think of me?
Because, y'know, you're so cool. Most people's opinions don't matter to me. But you- You're special. ((and I would want you as a DDR slave because you're cooler than the people who are better than you. Now I'm gonna run away and hide from Hiryuu.)) |
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Schweiz oder etwas [12:55] (Dr_Death16); I swear, the word drama needs to be stricken from the dictionary, for I've heard it so many times, it will permanently be imprinted on my brain Since: 11-17-05 From: Kingston, Rhode Island Last post: 6297 days Last view: 6297 days |
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| Phil: I totally held one of the chair legs. Pardon me for saying so, but the Jewish can throw one hell of a party.
Lady Danielle: My favorite movie is Disney's Beauty and The Beast. Thoughtless: Yes. Many times. Usually to something nobody would expect me to sing, either... Mouse: Hrm... Actually, yes. Very. WHY AREN'T YOU ONLINE RIGHT NOW I TOTALLY CAME HOME FOR THIS
Snow: No problem, dude. Keep 'em coming! Sam: Yes. But that doesn't stop me from delivering serious answe---DIVIDEBYZEROOHSHIT Sky: Ah, good question... Well, as far as long distance/indirectly established relationships go, take a shot! If you've got a chance to meet up with her, and things have sullied with your girlfriend, then there's nothing holding you back from seeking something better. There's a concept I went over in my psych class once that I thought was kinda interesting... An even exchange sort of thing: You get out of a relationship what you give. And if you give a lot, that affects how much you want to leave the relationship. If you've invested a lot of time and resources into keeping a relationship steady, you're much less apt to get out of it. That's common sense, of course, but it can be applied here. Weigh your options: Proximity, intimacy, and familiarity are very important factors in a relationship. If you can't give any of that to a person, then don't go for it. That's your basic BS response, of course... Awkwardness. I'm really hung up on that, of course... I don't see why it would be awkward for you to ask her out, if you're really close enough friends, then being rejected or breaking up with a person won't ruin your relationship with them as it stands right now. From what I've seen, though, there IS no real way to figure it out. I mean, there are the obvious things: Her flirting or making moves on you, and such, but if there's no input from her side, you can't really expect to be able to know or not know whether or not she's interested. The best course of action really is to just shit or get off the pot. Go for it or don't. Of course, a little preparation works just fine, too... See how close you can come. Maybe it'll happen naturally. You're smart enough to know that already... Koneko: I think you're pretty cool, from what little I know about you. You've got writing talent, and Schwa seems(ed?) to like you a lot. But, like I said, I don't really know that much about you, you're kind of enigmatic. Considering your name's Koneko, I'm wondering why I matter so much to you... |
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Anya Since: 11-18-05 From: South Florida Last post: 6300 days Last view: 6298 days |
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Originally posted by Skydude FYI: Been busy with work and I'm playing CoH again.  I'll answer a few questions once I can. And yes, it'll be this week. |
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