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Giga Hammer                   Since: 08-23-06 From: Wood Zone, from Sonic 2 Beta. Last post: 6450 days Last view: 6450 days |
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Originally posted by Knight of Time I don't think there's an average time for heartbreaks to heal... Also, I'll share my very, very sad story: It all started in, well, Kindergarten. I began liking a girl, Caitlin (that actually might be a wrong spelling), but could never find the courage to tell her. This crush went on until Grade 1. Somewhere near the middle of the year, the class was watching a movie. Caitlin called me over to sit beside her, probably because I was sitting alone in the back. So, I moved up, and shit was I nervous, and back then, when I was nervous I picked my nose... I may have even eaten my nose pickings, I don't remember. So, I did what I did when I was nervous. She then did what had the same effect as a dump. I easily bounced back from that, liking an older girl in Grade 2/3 (She was in Grade 3). I was, by then, the least popular kid in school. And, I still had near no courage whatsoever, so I wrote down what I thought on a large piece of paper, and showed it to her. I got promptly rejected. >.> Grade 3-5 is all a blur... but I remember 6 so fucking clearly, because it was the worst... It was another split grade, with 6 older students. I was, again, in the younger section. I had another crush, on an older girl, her name was Emily DeBecker, and... Near the end of the year, a lot of people began thinking that I liked a different girl, named Kayla. I DID NOT. But, I was so shy that it felt like there was a dark barrier around Emily. So, another failed attempt... Grade 7 was all people just plain hating me for what I had done in the past. I felt so bad that I wanted to commit suicide. What happened was I changed schools, and in Grade 8, I found Cindy. Nobody at this new school knew anything about my past. But, again, Cindy rejected me... but I was only faint of heart until after Christmas. That was when I realized, in my new group of friends, Anita, Jon, and sometimes Rusty, didn't know about my past, and I wasn't gonna tell 'em. I grew fond of Anita, following her near everywhere, believing that it was a blessing from the heavens that she would even let me within 50 feet of her. We exchanged e-mails and stuff, and one day... I told her that I loved her. That wasn't far after we exchanged contact details though, as I'm STILL too shy to say it/admit it to people's faces. Me and Anita are best friends, but we're going to different high schools. We meet occaisionally, always on MSN, and we talk... but it isn't the same as being near her. Her parents don't know my mom, and she says that's the reason her parents won't let me come over, but I think she's hiding something from me... Rewind to about 3 months ago. I told her that I make comics, and was going to include her in them. I asked her what she wanted to look like (all my characters are based off of Sonic characters) and soon enough, she asked if she could use my sprites and backgrounds, and the ones I made for Jon, and she made her own comics! I helped her out though, moreso than the backgrounds and sprites; I provided a base for her. Aren't I nice? =3 Anyways, that's my life. If you wanna give me suggestions on stuff, go ahead. If you wanna yel at me, go ahead. I don't really care. =P Oh, and Puberty at 12, FTW! |
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xXxHeadhunterxXx Goomba Since: 11-26-05 Last post: 6286 days Last view: 6279 days |
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I guess it just might be that time again (catch my drift?). 
As of lately I've been enduring some very harsh times of depression over this subject. Yes I realize that I've fallen way short in the past in such attempts, but I also realize that this year is my senior year, and thus, is my last chance to redeem myself, or be forever faced with this ongoing pain, and as such, I've decided I might give this "love" thing one last shot. So lately I've been pondering about certain girls and there was this one (I'm not going to give out any names) who caught my eye, and over the summer we've had several AIM conversations and I've even managed to catch her cell phone number (that I ironically haven't called yet), but last week when I caught her in the halls on our way to 4th period I stopped to say "hi" and one of her other friends-a guy-tried to tell me off and refused to let me speak with her. I later said something I already said twice to her (repetition, in other words) and literally felt embarrassed, but that was because this said guy was trying to suck up all the glory from me and as such, I didn't know what to say to her (I was basically tongue-tied). The very next day, however, she walks by my lunch table and smiles at me and says "hi", so I guess that means I'm still on her good side, which made me breathe a sigh of relief. Today though, after lunch, I saw her walking down the halls to 3rd period with some guy I've never seen or heard of her talk to before and thought that they might've "gotten in touch" with eachother, so to speak, which made me feel very nervous... however, on her MySpace, she says she's single and hasn't really talked about him all that much on her friend's MSs, just something about somebody calling this said person, that's it, so there's still legitimate reason to believe that she's still available (if they were really going out, you'd think that she would've dared to "elaborate" a bit more on that, if you know what I mean). The thing about her is, though, that she hasn't had a huge history of b/f's in the past (she's had 1 or 2 that I know of, that's it), which might be to my advantage, which is part of the reason why I've fallen for her (the window of opportunity). Yes I'm well aware of the last times I've ever even so as much as attempted to get a g/f, but I'm also aware of my mistakes, and I will not make the same mistakes over again this time. I will not directly tell her how I feel about her or ask her out (maybe on a date or something, but not a simple "will you go out with me?" as a way of saying "will you be my girlfriend"?), but I will somehow, ask her (or somebody close to her, and for that, I know where a couple of her closest friends sit at lunch, so I can ask them anytime) and find out the truth. If they're really not dating and just friends, then I'll be breathing a(nother) sign of relief, if they are, then so be it, but I honestly believe in my mind that they're just friends and nothing else. Yes I'm a little bit worried, but then again I have a tendency to worry a bit too much about things I feel insecure about, so it might be A-okay here... damn I sure hope it is. (edited by xXxHeadhunterxXx on 09-05-06 08:28 PM) |
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rubixcuber Mole    Since: 09-08-06 From: St. Louis, MO Last post: 6388 days Last view: 6388 days |
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| Senior year is the last chance to redeem yourself? Senior year isn't really very far into life. And if senior year is the last chance then I've already failed miserably. I'm done with college, and I've never been on a date. And I admit, it is frustrating, but you can't let it tear your life apart worrying about it. | |||
witeasprinwow Since: 12-29-05 Last post: 6388 days Last view: 6388 days |
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Originally posted by xXxHeadhunterxXx Senior year of high school means nothing in the long run of your life. Nothing. Nothing. Not to downplay what you're feeling for this girl, but it is far from the end of your life if you don't get her. There are about 3 billion of them out there; I'm sure more than one of them could appeal to you. |
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Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom  Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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I've been thinking of my ex a lot. This sucks  |
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Tarale    2710 Affected by 'Princess Bitch-Face Syndrome' ++++!! Persona non grata Since: 11-17-05 From: Adelaide, Australia Last post: 6279 days Last view: 6279 days |
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Originally posted by Vyper I keep thinking of my former housemate / sort-of-ex a lot. And we haven't lived together all year; and it was a year ago since our whatever-it-was. 
*sigh* It happens. |
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Vyper Kodondo Raging Venom Since: 11-18-05 From: Final Fantasy Fire Last post: 6296 days Last view: 6296 days |
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| Yeah, it does happen. Love can be a curse somtimes |
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spiroth10 Paratroopa Since: 01-28-06 From: USA Last post: 6279 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| I actually recently found out what my problem with relationships was/is.
I can easily have "social" relationships with people but I have a hard time making it "personal". What I mean is that Im that one guy that everybody knows/likes, but I have trouble getting people to know me better than just my last name (everyone calls me by it). I start conversations, but never end up gaining any new relationships (friends, love, etc.) in general. I *think* Im on a path to fixing it but Im not really sure how, so oh well. right now Im just trying to be really friendly with people (especially girls I like) so they can all get to know me on a more personal level than just my last name. just thought Id give an update on my situation. Comments/complaints/replies are welcome as always. |
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Dirtbag Koopa  Since: 09-20-06 From: UK Last post: 6282 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Something I learnt not too long ago was that it's better to have loved and lost than to end up living with a psycho for the rest of your life.
Strange how when you are with someone for a long time you really think that you know them inside out. Yet all goes wrong and they can show a *really* different side. The problem was I was still nice even at the end, and I got walked all over she even took half the f*cking light bulbs. It's as if nice guys always finish last, my female friends tell me this is not true, but you have to admit most girls seem to have an attraction to guys that treat them badly. It’s hard to get trust back with people after a bad experience like I had. I must admit I’m kind of a shy guy when it comes to making a move on a girl I like, but please people just try, sometimes, just sometimes it works out ok. I've seen a few girls since (mainly ones that hit on me due to my confidence taking a bit of a knock.) I’m single right now, but I’d rather wait and find a nice girl than jump in with two feet and find another bitch. I guess I have to remain confident that there are genuinely nice girls out there – I just wonder if there are any in England! |
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Ogama Dobe Rope  Since: 11-15-06 From: The Darkness of my Soul Last post: 6279 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| There are nice girls. I was going out with one of them. However you've got to be careful with the nice ones. Because they might try and pull that not ready for a relationship crap on you. It happened to me. And the more you love someone the more it hurts when they pull that crap on you. I'm pretty much doomed because I can't talk to girls I like now. I couldn't really do it before. 'cause I fail at life. | |||
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Chainlink1061 Paratroopa  Since: 02-01-06 From: Salinas, California Last post: 6282 days Last view: 6284 days |
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| I'm not saying any of this is true, but it works for me:
I know how to get a girl attracted to me, easily. I act like a "jerk", but no overly so. I try not to act like a nice guy, because girls see nice guys as slaves. And most girls won't take slaves as boyfriends. I act in a playful-type way, and try to make the girl wonder what I'm thinking. One moment, she'll think I definitely like her, the next moment, she'd be sure I don't. It's these "Hot and Cold" games I like to play, and believe it or not, it makes girls clueless and this is what attracts them. I try to keep her interested, and not be a boring douche. Then she'll eventually chase me down and give me her number. Happened dozens of times. My physical structure doesn't have anything to do with it. I'm 5 foot 10, around 150 pounds (most is muscle, mind you). I'm handsome (I don't think so, but pretty much everyone else I know does). But I have a problem: I'm only 15 years-old, I can't drive. Most girls my age and under are STUPID. They don't know what they want in a guy yet, and they'll continue that until about 16 years-old and so. Most girls I've dated are actually 16 and above, because the stuff I said earlier doesn't matter in the long run. Like I said, girls my age don't know what they want in a guy until they're about 16 or so, which is probably why I attract older girls. I hope all that made sence, I'm tired, it's freezing cold, and the damn cat is giving me a headache. |
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ICheatAtGolf Rat  Since: 01-01-07 Last post: 6302 days Last view: 6284 days |
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| "is it troubling me so much that i'm beginning to feel depressed about it?" you ask. hmmm. no, i'd say beyond depressed. i'd say on the edge of my sanity. but it's not the fact that i can't get a girl, it's the fact that i don't want a different girl.
you see, i'm still pathetically stuck on my ex, who lives in a completely different city, and i cant get her off my mind. i went 8 entire months without talking to her until one day she randomly sends me an email asking how things are etc. etc. etc. i'm more angry than depressed that i let this shit get me down again. but i guess im still lonely hearted for that reason. |
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xXxHeadhunterxXx Goomba Since: 11-26-05 Last post: 6286 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| I know there hasn't been a post in this thread in a really long time. I also realize that it's been an even longer period of time in which I've last posted here, but I just want to clear something else up regarding this "situation", if you will.
Now, I'm curious to know: has this ever happened to anybody else? Like you meet somebody you're interested in, and when you get ready to have serious conversations with them or ask them out, they decide to randomly "come out" and reveal that they're gay/lesbian, ruining the whole thing? Because it happened to me just yesterday. I don't know how to explain it, but in previous conversations we've had, she's said she's had a fairly big history with b/f's in the past, then she changes her story that she's dated one guy before prom of last year (that, and she apparently dumped him a week before it but had no choice but to take him because she couldn't find anyone else to go with, and that he made HER pay for everything. My first impression of that was, "what a jackass". If I was a girl, I would've dumped him, too, but that's beside the point), and that she's lesbian, not bi, but straight-up lesbian. In other words: what does this do for me? From what she told me, I can gather that she's either lying (how the hell else do you explain that she's gone from having numerous boyfriends in the past to all of a sudden being "gay" or "lesbian"?) or I don't have any options left for high school. This means that when it comes time for me to say my goodbyes to everybody I know and respect after graduation, my story goes that I've fallen for several girls yet never got with any of them, it just makes me sad. I'm going to have to wait for college to get another chance, and if it doesn't happen then, then I'm sorry to say, it's never going to happen, and I'll have no choice but to accept that I was right all along. *sigh* What am I gonna do now? |
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Panzer88 Newcomer Since: 11-29-06 Last post: 6286 days Last view: 6280 days |
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| that sucks for you man, I have only had one really vicious break up, and it pretty much screwed me up for the next year. When i say 'it' screwed me up what I mean is not that it was the cercumstances fault, but that I didn't know how to deal with it yet, so I sort of self destructed myself. Anyways, that was an interesting story because I had always come on to strong to that girl, I was to serious, to in love, and she wasn't ready for that, but even after we seperated I always had this feeling that she still liked me. Then after a few years, I eventually got hooked up with this other girl, then at the end of last year the first girl tells me that she had thought about me a lot, that she was about to try to hook up with me again the months before but then I got hooked up with the second girl.
It messed with my head, because I had told myself that if I was just patient enough she would come around. Everyone told me that I was selfish, and that if I cared about the first girl then I would move, on then I found out that when I did, that I had just missed it. Life is complicated In the end though I feel that the second girl is less fickle and more dedicated, the first girl had her chance, and while she'll always be a special friend, she's not going to have me back. emotions can just tear you apart. I find that relationships can be pretty easy though. The other person needs to love you and WANT to be with you. From there you need to do things that are interesting and fill life. In other words, they can't be the adventure, because then they are bored, you have to go on an adventure together. Final part of three is attention. I'll tell you what no matter how shallow it may sound people want attention, they want to be listened to and loved and if you give a person time and attenion with plenty of affection along with the above stated things I think it could work. Obviously this is way simplified, but there is no REAL answer. Make sure you find out where they are when you get into a relationship, if they have some other great priority and you are looking for an involved relationship maybe they aren't ready for a relationship with you yet, but may be later. |
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xXxHeadhunterxXx Goomba Since: 11-26-05 Last post: 6286 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| Just to let you know, there's something I would also like to add on to what I said earlier...
Apparently the girl she has the "hots" for also previously dated guys, it's fucking insane. It almost makes her story sound totally unbelieveable and that she's making it all up. |
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