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spiroth10 Paratroopa                 Since: 01-28-06 From: USA Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| This is strange. Usually guys don't have this kind of problem, but I do.
There's this girl who's been strongly attracted to me for over a year (to the point of obsession for awhile...). Problem is, I don't like her at all in that way. She's nice (actually, I've heard stories...), but I just don't. actually, recently I've begun flirting with one of her friends. So alls well and good. I continue to be nice and polite to her, and trying to edge closer to her friend -- seeming to work out nice for a change! I mean, no matter how far I push with personal things, she seems quite open and nice about it, and thinks I'm hilarious and nice (and she recently broke up with her boyfriend before I met her!)  .
anyway, this is where things get complicated. That other girl who I told you about in the beginning, well lets just say I told a couple of friends about it. They all know I need a girlfriend... Can you see where this is going? They lied to her and told her I want to go to prom with her (she's a junior, and can invite me, a sophomore) I firmly denied this several times (in front of all of them -- yes I'll explain it to my friends tomorrow). They're only trying to help me out though. no matter how many times I denied it, the two of my friends persisted (they're the type that only want one thing - from anyone), and she firmly believed I really said that.  .
I don't want to piss anyone off here. Not only would it make me feel bad (I've been in a similar situation 100 times) but, I'm on a precarious perch with my social standing. see I got rid of all my friends because they are the definition of losers. Hell one just plays XBOX live 24 hours a day now (he left once since he got highspeed internet) and they were jerks who denied the slightest intimation of a problem in their lives (even though most people think they're strange, ugly, and hate them). now I'm in the upper upper class of popularity. You know. Them. I'm the lowest of that group, but hey, |
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Danielle     6730 Administratorrrr HELLO THERE     Since: 11-17-05 From: California Rate me ^_^ Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| ...Just tell the girl your friends are jackasses, and that you aren't interested in dating her. I'm sure you can be a little more subtle than that, but that's the point you need to get across. You didn't do anything wrong, she should get mad at your friends if she wants to get mad at all.
I personally think that leading her on when you're not interested is the worst thing you could do, so just take care of it now. |
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Simon Belmont Except I'm totally fucking hyped about Dracula X: Chronicles.   Since: 11-18-05 From: Pittsburgh Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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Originally posted by Danielle I seriously agree, being in the "upper class" of popularity is pretty meaningless if you can't be yourself and exp |
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Sweet Kassy Molassy Out of ice cream and PB. Would KILL for a milkshake right now.  Since: 06-17-06 From: LoozeeAnna Last post: 6280 days Last view: 6279 days |
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| I wasn't popular in high school, but at least I knew that my friends were real friends who cared about me and that it didn't matter to them if I kept up social appearances.
Since I've gotten out, I have come to realize that my friends and myself were among the coolest people there. Screw social standing. The only thing that's any good for is getting you dates with blonde sorority chicks. It doesn't come in handy in any other way. And if it means hanging out with people who aren't your type of people, then it's not worth it. Sorry for the somewhat off-topic. |
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