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| Skreename Posts: 494/1427 |
Unfortunately enough, I have to agree with Black Lord. It'll be tough, yes, and it'll definitely hurt... but you can still continue your life. Just try to hang tight, no matter how bad things may seem, since they can still get better.
Danielle's definitely right... Even if you have problems with your parents, if you have a good friend you can rely on, that can make a world of difference. |
| Black Lord + Posts: 123/273 |
It seems that divorce seems to be the thing these days, people shouldn't rush into marriage so much... people think that marrying someone within a month of meeting them is perfectly logical... honestly... people comon...
eh... excuse me, I'm offtopic... As for family breaking up, sometimes it's for the best of the whole family, I really think my parents despise each other and should get a divorce sometimes when I here them... and I think it would be for the best too. |
| Danielle Posts: 3795/6737 |
My parents got divorced when I was three also. Though I haven't gone through anything like that since then, I know what it's like to deal with divorced parents. Just keep in mind that it's not your fault, and if it helps you to talk to them about it, do so. Find someone you can confide in, because talking about it makes a world of difference. And even though your stepmom won't be in the same house with you anymore, you can still see her if you want to. It's not you getting the divorce from her.  Just be strong and stay optimistic, and it will eventually pass. |
| Lilmario Posts: 86/181 |
Being your age when my parents divorced, I can relate. Things will be tough, I'm not going to lie to you. But you have to hang in there, as much as you want to change the situation, you can't. Try to make the best of things Comfort your stepmum if you care so much, and make sure you keep in contact. |
| Deleted User Posts: 38/-7750 |
Well I know what it's like to actualy loose someone
that you care about like everyone said just hang in there and rough it outtime heal's pain, trust me something will work out. |
| Thexare Posts: 607/1104 |
Sorry, wrong forum.
*kicks into Officer's Club* |
| Keitaro Posts: 319/373 |
Exactly. the thing to remember is that its a choice that they have come to, and perhaps, deep down, it is for the best. Your parents may have some unresolvable internal conflicts that if they were to stay together, it would just be downright unfair for you and the family. Though personally I beleive most relationships, expecially those that have gone so far as marriage, can be resolved with enough effort, sometimes it just becomes a lot easier and at times fairer for the family in the long run to 'call it quits'. And Shyguy, meh, just forget it. I get a little to in to shit sometimes. No hard feelings. |
| Deleted User Posts: 1162/-7750 |
Just hang in there. It's their choice. Just remember that it is NOT your fault. |
| Kanop Posts: 30/36 |
stop barking at each other...
life is being mad at me for some reason... now my parents won't even talk to each other... this sucks... |
| Deleted User Posts: 1161/-7750 |
I.... just did.  |
| Keitaro Posts: 318/373 |
First of all, he didn't bark at you. Your original reply to him was somewhat rude right off the bat, and the poor kid is already feeling pretty bad. Any rudeness he might have remotely shown was entirely warrented, so just get of fhis back and don't go off on that "it really must be tough to live with blah blah". you might have had your own problems but they are different from his. So unless you can relate, don't go telling him how he should or should not act, or how he must feel/have to live with. The kid is 11 for god sakes, show a little compassion =| |
| Deleted User Posts: 1160/-7750 |
Meh, true. He shouldn't have barked at me though.
It really must be tough to live with such intensity. I'm sorry for comparing.  |
| Keitaro Posts: 317/373 |
Originally posted by XygushyOriginally posted by Kanop Then you of all people should know not to be a dick to people who are going through tough times. 
I can't say I can related you, Kanop, but I feel for you and I hope things get a little easier for you to cope with. I really can't give you more than that, and for that I'm truly sorry =| stay strong though. |
| Snow Tomato Posts: 728/798 |
He's 11.
That sucks I really don't know what to say. When you're older... it might make more sense even though you won't believe that right now. I'm sure they'll always remain in your life in some way. I really don't know what to say to make you feel better. I tried. Time heals all wounds. |
| Deleted User Posts: 1158/-7750 |
Originally posted by Kanop My father died of alcohol withdrawal and my mom is addicted to narcotics. I believe you shouldn't act so harshly to people due to your problems. |
| Kanop Posts: 24/36 |
some person in desprate need for help...
that spacific enough for you? |
| Deleted User Posts: 1154/-7750 |
Er...
Hang in there? Who are you anyway? |
| Kanop Posts: 11/36 |
When i was 3, my mom and dad divorced... I was small... i didn't know much and didn't really care
My dad got married last year in 2005 Now my dad and my stepmom is going to break up, and since i'm 11 and my stepmom really cared for me... i can't get over it... How can I? Words of encourgiment please? |
