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Chronosphere-x
Posts: 121/125
Originally posted by Anya
I mean, you hear all about it in high school (heck and in some middle schools as well) and then it gets around that if you haven't done "it" you're not cool or whatever the case may be,

So does it make it a trend? People having sex just to fit in?


it not like that in our group or our 'town' really, if you do it you do it, if you don't you don't you get teased everynow and then but it doesn't bother them. I did it young and it was no biggy. So I wouldn't call it a trend
TeRaByTe88
Posts: 57/59
Hmm... well I have to say that they do pick on me for being "virginal"... but its really mostly cuz I am "that guy" that totally sucks with girls so, its more or less for that. The shocking thing is all the girls think im hot but apparently I am awful socially or something, probably because I am a geek and hack mario and sonic all the time, and girls... they dont really care if you beat the first act of GHZ in 27 seconds
Anya
Posts: 879/1176
Originally posted by U1traMan
I'm Currently in 8th grade right now...i see sexual harassment on the bus alot. Kinda Disturbes me in a way because i know this guys is 89% (and i base that off of NOTHING)
likely to get AIDS. Anbody else around my Grade seen this?



OMG, especially in middle school...a lot of that crap was going on. Thankfully I was only there for two years and not three. Half the time I was like, "why the hell are you even wearing that in school!". Meh, I still don't understand some things to this day, but maybe thats just me...maybe my mom did a good job of keeping me hidden from the "real world"...but who the hell knows, right?
Danielle
Posts: 6192/6737
Originally posted by U1traMan
I'm Currently in 8th grade right now...i see sexual harassment on the bus alot. Kinda Disturbes me in a way because i know this guys is 89% (and i base that off of NOTHING)
likely to get AIDS. Anbody else around my Grade seen this?

Let's not bump a 7 month old thread kthx.
U1traMan
Posts: 17/39
I'm Currently in 8th grade right now...i see sexual harassment on the bus alot. Kinda Disturbes me in a way because i know this guys is 89% (and i base that off of NOTHING)
likely to get AIDS. Anbody else around my Grade seen this?
SuperKawaiiNeko
Posts: 34/79
Originally posted by Twinkle Star
Nobody makes fun of you at my school if you're a virgin. Nobody really cares about anyone but themself. Then again, I don't hang out with the kind of people that party and sleep around every Saturday night, so maybe it's just the people I surround myself with that keep me out of the "omg virgin how lame" group.



I think that might be it.

Anya is way cooler than all the rest of us, so she hung out with cooler people than we did in high school. So in her circles, sex was talked about a lot more than in ours XD
Cruel Justice
Posts: 865/1637
I revisit my previous highschool now and then and the girls I've known as the biggest virgins of all have finally got some. I don't really see it as "OMG! YOU HAD SHEX!?1 LOL!", more like a normal thing now. Everyone has done it.

Kinda sucks knowing that because it's nothing special anymore. It's really hard to get excited about it so I try to experiment.
Snow Tomato
Posts: 585/798
In my school, if you're a girl who's had sex... you are a slut. But if you are a guy and you've had sex you are TEH SHIT.

Welcome to Staten Island.
Christi
Posts: 20/38
I don't think people cared as much in my highschool, and if you were a virgin, they didn't go out of their way to make you feel bad. More or less, it was the other way around, depending on how popular you were. The less popular kids were called sluts and trash for having sex. The popular kids weren't.
D3stiny_Sm4sher
Posts: 126/226
Yea, I haven't had sex yet, and I'm damn glad.
Saving my virginity for someone who will be worth it.
drjayphd
Posts: 355/1170
Don't know that, at my high school, there was any pressure, per se, but kind of like drinking or smoking the mara-ju-waaaana, if, by the time you're in college, you haven't had sex, then it's not an issue. It's basically a decision you make for yourself, no more, no less.

Although if you're 40 and just never got around to it... (ahem)
D3stiny_Sm4sher
Posts: 121/226
teen pregnancy - education + immaturity = kid who will probably grow up the same way
Cruel Justice
Posts: 845/1637
Whoever has sex to fit in a crowd should get shot...

I can kinda see how the media influences adolescent vermin.

Pink Barbie Doll Hype = Lust
MTV = Lust and Stupidity
Whores like the Hilton Twins, Hilary Duff, etc... = Poor role models
8+ hours a day on cellphones = Microwaved braincells

Let's add it all up...

Lust x 2 + stupidity x poor role models - brain cells = teen pregnancy
Ziff
Posts: 783/1800
Sex has pretty much been the same thing ever since we had the basis for civilization and chicks and dudes found out that having sex is pretty groovy feeling.
Danielle
Posts: 2649/6737
Nobody makes fun of you at my school if you're a virgin. Nobody really cares about anyone but themself. Then again, I don't hang out with the kind of people that party and sleep around every Saturday night, so maybe it's just the people I surround myself with that keep me out of the "omg virgin how lame" group.
Snow Tomato
Posts: 576/798
I know what Anya's saying. Two friends actually lied to me and told me that they weren't virgins... and they were.

It definatly has to do with where you've grown up. I've never felt this pressure to have sex at all. And yes, I did for the first time like... almost a month ago.. but it happened in a good way... not like, I didn't just have sex because it was trendy.

But I have been told "OMG.. you're a virgin? That's so cute". Or stuff like.. "Omg.. wtf? You're a virgin? Just have sex already, it feels so good." Like... uh, alot.

I hate Staten Island. If you get the chance... watch True Life: I live in Staten Island on MTV. Yes, it's so bad... they filmed a True Life on it. And just cry tears for me.

[edit: I used the word "like"... way way too much.]
Ailure
Posts: 1121/2602
Is sex education mandatory yet over there? It's been here in Sweden for quite awhile now... and there's alot about sex in the media and been like that for awhile.

And I wonder becuse I heard about the high-rates of teen-pregnacy over there. It's less common around here.

Trend? Hardly, I think it's just a side-effect of our culture opening up about sex.

In the beginning of the 20th century, it was frowned upon to kiss in public. Now you have to be a gay couple to caught any attention from people, and even that is on the way of being well-accepted. Well at least in this country.

Intresting about how guys worldwide boasts about how many girls they got laid with. Something tells me that it's a stupid thing to boast about. :/
1117
Posts: 10/69
There were people at my school who would always talk about themselves having sex trying to get popular. I mean, they had some people to talk to but really everyone just called them sluts behind their back. I don't see anything wrong with being sexually active in highschool. I was... But I guess the difference is I didn't run around telling the whole school about my night with like 5 guys.

-JeffreyGlen-
1106
Posts: 53/89
Originally posted by Wurl
Originally posted by Anya

Anyway, especially in middle school, you could tell that who the popular ones were and they weren't shy to talk about their sex life either.

Most Middle Schoolers are full of shit when they talk sex. Most, but not all.

More like most people are full of shit when they talk sex.
Wurl
Posts: 645/842
Originally posted by Anya

Anyway, especially in middle school, you could tell that who the popular ones were and they weren't shy to talk about their sex life either.

Most Middle Schoolers are full of shit when they talk sex. Most, but not all.
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