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| Trapster Posts: 2224/3604 |
Originally posted by Colin That´s not only impressive, Colin. That´s godly skills. 
I´m not sure if I WANT kids so when I get a girlfriend, I´ll probably use condoms for...god knows how long. |
| Rydain Posts: 217/633 |
Originally posted by WurlYeah...and condoms are a hell of a lot cheaper than child support.  People make no sense to me sometimes.
Anya, you're damn lucky that pulling out worked so well for you.  I personally wouldn't trust it, but I guess it does work for some people... |
| Cruel Justice Posts: 656/1637 |
A slow week for everyone mehaps?
He was probably just excited about the marriage. |
| Anya Posts: 427/1176 |
Originally posted by Colin But we have like 4 boxes!!! I still don't know why he bought so much!  |
| Cruel Justice Posts: 653/1637 |
I get some about twice a week, but every now and then I'll have a slow weekend. :\
I was thinking about getting my fiance some pills but it's her choice. She hasn't told me yet. |
| Apophis Posts: 322/734 |
I find that the best birth control is being a rom hacker. |
| Cynthia Posts: 1516/5814 |
Yes, you've managed to successfully beat the odds for 7 years. That's VERY impressive. 
I'd just get the box out of the way so that you can say you used them.   |
| Anya Posts: 426/1176 |
It's been 7 years already...not gonna.
We plan on having kids in about a year or two, but if it happens now, then thats okay too. Like I said, he's been pulling out for 7 years (actually, at first we used condoms) and its been okay. ...don't jinx us now!!! |
| Cynthia Posts: 1514/5814 |
My take would be that a box of condoms is going to last someone a while, if you're only doing it one/two times a week. So if you don't even want to put down the money on THAT...
Anya: Start using them. |
| Anya Posts: 425/1176 |
I can't have sex after my period. Mine lasts for about two to three days and if I have sex right after it ends, it'll return for another 2 days or so. So I tend to wait about 3 to 5 days after. |
| Snow Tomato Posts: 345/798 |
You guys are extremely lucky.. because guys come.. before they come. Like.. there's pre-ejaculatory fluid.
If you time it right, you won't get pregnant though without a condom. Right after your period you can't get pregnant because there's no egg present. But if it were me... I'd still opt for the condom. Just in case. |
| Anya Posts: 423/1176 |
Originally posted by Wurl That's what my husband has been doing for the past 7 years and no problems yet. We recently got condoms (for the wedding, just in case) but we still don't use them. |
| Wurl Posts: 484/842 |
Yeah, what's really asshole-y is that most of the guys here are just too cheap to buy condoms. I mean, Christ that's cheap. |
| Snow Tomato Posts: 336/798 |
Yeah most guys in my school "pull" to. Which is effing retarded. A girl went into labor during my spanish class the other day. And there's a high drop out rate for senior girls. It's one of the lovely lovely aspects of my school.
My sister needed the morning after pill when her idiot boyfriend said he'd "pull" and he didn't. So we had to cut school and get our asses to planned parenthood in the city to get the morning after pill. We didn't get caught, which amazes me.. but I just wish she'd be more careful. She has been since then. |
| Wurl Posts: 482/842 |
Most guys in school "pull," which is why there are like 9430954680 pregnant girls at school. |
| Tzepish Posts: 103/117 |
As far as I can tell from my own research, there isn't enough evidence to make a blanket statement such as "Birth control pills permanently lower a woman's sex drive."
The general consensus is summed up here in the wikipedia article: "The effect of the Pill on a woman’s sexuality are difficult to judge; depending on the individual and the particular formula, the Pill may enhance or disrupt a woman’s (or couple’s) sex life. Neither the woman who uses the Pill nor her partner need take any special action before or during intercourse, which makes birth control “invisible” and sex spontaneous and more natural. When combined with the Pill’s high degree of effectiveness, this may enable the couple, and especially the woman, to relax more easily during sex. Masters and Johnson, among others, reported more than one woman who experienced her first orgasm during intercourse shortly after going on the Pill. On the other hand, the Pill’s various side effects may prove disruptive on a physiological or even a psychological level. The hormonal disruption caused by the Pill may result in mood swings, lower libido, excessive or insufficient vaginal lubrication during intercourse, and possibly an injured self-image due to weight gain. Some women who use the Pill despite the teachings of their religious traditions may feel conscious or unconscious guilt; others may not fully trust an “invisible” method of birth control. This wide range of variables makes prediction of the Pill’s effect on sexuality difficult, but the fact that the Pill can and does have an impact in this area, for good or for ill, is well-documented." |
| Kailieann Posts: 303/808 |
Birth control pills permanently lower a woman's sex drive.
Not that that's got anything to do with me, I just thought I'd point it out since noone else has. |
| Cynthia Posts: 1471/5814 |
Um... gee. Pretty obvious answer over here.
If anything DID happen in the next little while, however, I would use a condom unless I had solid proof that the girl in question was currently on the pill. ...Hell, even then I'd play it safe. The fewer problems, the better. |
| geeogree Posts: 82/207 |
my wife is on the pill.... and that's all we use usually
unless she forgets one.... then we'll use condoms for the rest of the "month" and then stop the next time around so far no babies using that method and we've been married for 16 months now. |
| Trapster Posts: 2136/3604 |
I´ve heard that the pills can have a lot of side effects so I wouldn´t recommend it. They had a report about it in the newspaper about people whose lives had been ruined because of the pills.
A condom is better, I think. |
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